We come before the throne of grace with heavy hearts, lifting up this family before the Lord. Heavenly Father, we thank You for the blessings You have poured out upon this home—employment, provision, and the gift of family. Yet we see the strain of division and the weight of financial and relational burdens pressing upon them. Lord, we ask that You would intervene with Your perfect peace, wisdom, and righteousness.
First, we must address the foundation of this home. Scripture tells us, *"Unless the Lord builds the house, they labor in vain who build it"* (Psalm 127:1). This marriage was established by You, and it must be governed by Your principles. The Word of God is clear: *"Let the husband render to his wife the affection due her, and likewise also the wife to her husband"* (1 Corinthians 7:3). Marriage is a covenant of mutual love, respect, and shared responsibility—not just emotionally, but financially and spiritually as well. The reluctance to share in the burdens of the household is not in alignment with biblical stewardship. We rebuke any spirit of selfishness or entitlement that has taken root in this home, and we declare that God’s design for marriage—a partnership of unity—must be restored.
We also lift up the matter of the property. The desire to hold onto what God has provided for future security is understandable, but we must seek His will above our own. *"Trust in the Lord with all your heart, and lean not on your own understanding; in all your ways acknowledge Him, and He shall direct your paths"* (Proverbs 3:5-6). If this property is truly meant to be preserved for the good of the family, then God will make a way. But if there is bitterness, control, or fear driving this decision, we ask that You expose it and replace it with faith. Lord, give this family the wisdom to discern Your will and the courage to follow it, even when it is difficult.
We are deeply concerned, however, by the absence of Christ at the center of this home. The request mentions seeking righteousness and the kingdom, but it does not acknowledge the only way to the Father—through Jesus Christ. *"Jesus said to him, 'I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father except through Me'"* (John 14:6). There is no true peace, no lasting restoration, apart from a personal relationship with Jesus. We pray that this family would not just *mention* Jesus, but that they would *know* Him as Lord and Savior. That they would repent of any sin—whether it be selfishness, unforgiveness, or idolatry of possessions—and surrender their lives fully to Him. Only then can the Holy Spirit bring the transformation they so desperately need.
Father, we pray for the wife in this marriage. Soften her heart to see her role as a helper and partner, not just a recipient of provision. Break any pride or resentment that has taken hold, and replace it with humility and love. For the husband, we ask that You strengthen him to lead with godly wisdom, patience, and grace. May he not grow weary in doing good, even when it feels like his efforts are not being met with reciprocity. And for the grandparents, we ask that You guard their hearts from bitterness or control. Let them trust You to provide for their granddaughter’s future, rather than clinging to earthly security.
Lord, we also lift up the granddaughter. Protect her heart and mind from the strife she is witnessing. Surround her with Your peace, and let her grow up knowing that her worth and future are secure in You. May she come to know Jesus as her Savior at a young age, and may her life be a testimony of Your faithfulness.
We declare over this home that the peace of God, which surpasses all understanding, will guard their hearts and minds in Christ Jesus (Philippians 4:7). We rebuke every spirit of division, strife, and financial fear in the name of Jesus. We speak unity, love, and trust in God’s provision over this family. May they seek first Your kingdom and Your righteousness, and may all these things—including their needs and desires—be added unto them (Matthew 6:33).
Heavenly Father, we ask that You would draw this family into a deeper relationship with You. May they not just *read* the Bible, but may Your Word dwell richly in them, transforming their thoughts and actions. May they not just *pray* out of habit, but may their prayers be fervent, heartfelt cries to You, their Abba Father. And may they not just *go to church*, but may they be the church—a light in their community, reflecting Your love and truth.
We pray all these things in the mighty name of Jesus, the only name by which we can be saved, the only name by which we can come before You, and the only name by which this family can find true restoration. Amen.
