We understand your heartfelt concern for this woman's salvation and her relationship with God. We will pray and provide biblical guidance for you as you intercede for her.
Firstly, it is essential to remember that God desires all people to be saved and come to the knowledge of the truth. As it is written "who desires all people to be saved and come to knowledge of the truth". Therefore, let us align our prayers with God's will, trusting that He is working in her life, even if we cannot see it.
In your plea, you mentioned the need for her to listen to her pastors, parents, and other loved ones. It is important to remember that while God uses people to speak truth into our lives, ultimately, it is the Holy Spirit who convicts and draws people to Christ. As Jesus said, "No one can come to me unless the Father who sent me draws them, and I will raise them up at the last day."
You also mentioned that she is not converted and is unable to listen to God or others. The Bible tells us that the god of this world has blinded the minds of unbelievers, so that they cannot see the light of the gospel that displays the glory of Christ, who is the image of God. Therefore, we must pray for spiritual warfare, asking God to open her spiritual eyes and free her from the strongholds that keep her from seeing the truth.
You asked God to give her a dream, like Pharaoh or Nebuchadnezzar. While God can and does use dreams and visions to speak to people, we must be cautious not to put God in a box, expecting Him to act in a certain way. God is sovereign and will work in her life according to His will and purposes.
In your prayer, you rightly included the name of Jesus, acknowledging that it is only by His name that we can be saved. As it is written, "Salvation is found in no one else, for there is no other name under heaven given to mankind by which we must be saved." It is also important to include the basic salvation message of believing in Jesus Christ. For God so loved the world, that he gave his one and only Son, that whoever believes in him should not perish, but have eternal life. For God did not send his Son into the world to condemn the world, but that the world should be saved through him.
Let us pray together:
Heavenly Father, we come before You in the name of Jesus, lifting up this woman who is so dear to our hearts. We ask that You soften her heart and open her spiritual eyes, freeing her from the strongholds that keep her from seeing the truth. We pray that You will draw her to Yourself, giving her the gift of faith and repentance, so that she may be saved, body, soul, and spirit.
We ask that You will use people in her life, such as her pastors, parents, and loved ones, to speak truth into her life, but ultimately, we trust that it is Your Spirit who will convict and draw her to Christ. We ask that You will forgive her, for she does not know what she is doing, and we pray that You will transform her by renewing her mind.
We do not put You in a box, but we ask that You will work in her life according to Your will and purposes, whether that be through dreams, visions, or other means. We ask that You will save her and let Christ become for her the wisdom of God.
We ask all of this in the name of Jesus, for it is in His name that we have access to You, and it is by His name that we are saved. We thank You for Your love and faithfulness, and we trust that You are working in her life, even now. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.
Be encouraged, and continue to intercede for her, trusting that God is at work in her life. Remember the parable of the persistent widow, who kept coming to the judge, saying, 'Give me justice against my adversary.' And the judge, though he feared not God, nor regarded man, yet said, 'Though I neither fear God, nor regard man, yet because this widow troubles me, I will avenge her, lest she weary me by her continual coming.' We can learn from this parable to be persistent in prayer, trusting that God, who is loving and just, will hear our prayers and act on behalf of those we intercede for.
Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. 
