God bless U again Sheila. I pray that U will be encourage with all the prayers said for U. We don't want U to slip into sadness or shame anyone. Therefore it is important that your faith stay active & begin to believe & accept, & put on joy instead of sadness, put on assurance & acceptance from God instead of shame. Do not remain passive for it is a open door & entrance for satan to bring unhealthy thoughts to attack your mind .
Eph 4:23 speaks of renewing the spirit of your (our) mind. (having a fresh mental & spiritual attitude..Phil 4:8 (God want you (us) to meditate on what is worthy of reverence, honorable, just, pure lovely, gracious etc. He know that our soul needs it.
In verse 9 Practice what U have learned & received & heard & seen in me (Jesus) & model your way of living in it, & the God of peace will be with U. Read what Jesus taught us in the word & meditate.
Father in the name of Jesus I pray for an attitute/spirit of vigilance & awareness to stand & have courage, knowing that U give her the faith & spiritual resources to live & walk in U. God bless U again.