We understand that you are seeking reunification with someone you care about, and we appreciate that you have brought this concern to us in prayer. However, we want to ensure that our prayers and advice align with biblical principles. First, we notice that you referred to this person as your "lover," and we want to address that.
The Bible teaches us to flee from sexual immorality and to honor God with our bodies (1 Corinthians 6:18-20 WEB). If you and this person have been intimately involved outside of marriage, we must encourage you to repent and turn away from this sin. God's design for intimacy is within the bounds of marriage between a man and a woman.
Furthermore, it is essential to use wisdom and discernment in pursuing relationships. If this person is not pursuing God or if the relationship does not honor God, it may not be wise to seek reunification. The Bible tells us not to be unequally yoked with unbelievers (2 Corinthians 6:14 WEB), as this can lead to further pain and difficulty.
Instead, we encourage you to seek God's will for your life and to trust in His timing. God may have someone in mind for you who will honor and cherish you in a godly marriage. For now, pray that God would work in both of your hearts, drawing you closer to Himself.
Let us pray together:
Heavenly Father, we come before You in the name of Jesus, lifting up our sister in Christ. Lord, we ask that You would reveal Your will to her and guide her in Your paths. If this relationship does not honor You, we pray that You would give her the strength to let it go and trust in Your plan for her life. If this person is meant to be a part of her life, we ask that You would work in both of their hearts, drawing them closer to You and transforming them into the likeness of Christ. Help them to communicate effectively and to honor You in their words and actions. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.
Take heart, for God is faithful, and He cares for you deeply. Trust in Him, and He will guide your paths (Proverbs 3:5-6 WEB). May God bless you.