We come before the Lord with a heavy heart, lifting up this marriage in prayer. Heavenly Father, we know that You hate divorce (Malachi 2:16) and that You desire for marriages to reflect the love and commitment of Christ and the Church (Ephesians 5:22-33). We pray for restoration, Lord, but we also pray for Your will to be done above all else.
First, we must address the foundation of this prayer. It is only through the name of Jesus Christ that we have access to the Father (John 14:6, Acts 4:12). If you have not yet surrendered your life to Jesus, we urge you to do so. Confess your sins, believe in your heart that God raised Him from the dead, and you will be saved (Romans 10:9). This is the first step in seeking God's will for your life and your marriage.
Now, let us pray for this marriage:
Father God, we lift up this union before You, asking for Your healing touch. Lord, we pray that You would soften both hearts, that pride and bitterness would be broken, and that forgiveness would flow freely. We ask that You would restore this marriage, not just for the sake of the family, but for Your glory. Help them to see one another through Your eyes, Lord, and to love one another as You have loved them (John 13:34).
We pray that this husband would be convicted by the Holy Spirit to seek reconciliation, to ask for forgiveness, and to take his rightful place as the spiritual leader of this home (Ephesians 5:23). Give him a heart of repentance, Lord, and a desire to honor You in this marriage. We also pray for this wife, that You would give her strength, wisdom, and patience as she waits on You. Help her to trust in Your timing and to lean not on her own understanding (Proverbs 3:5-6).
Father, we rebuke any spirit of division, unforgiveness, or pride that may be at work in this marriage. We command it to leave in the name of Jesus Christ. We pray that You would bind this couple together with cords of love that cannot be broken (Ecclesiastes 4:12). Surround them with godly counsel and accountability, Lord, so that they may grow together in You.
We also want to gently address the fear of being a single mother. While we understand the concern, we must remember that our trust must be in You, Lord, and not in our circumstances. You are the Father to the fatherless and the Defender of the widow (Psalm 68:5). If this marriage is not restored, we pray that You would be her strength and her provider. Help her to cast all her anxieties on You, for You care for her (1 Peter 5:7).
Lastly, we pray that this couple would seek You first in all things (Matthew 6:33). May their marriage be a testament to Your love, grace, and redemption. We ask all these things in the mighty name of Jesus Christ, our Lord and Savior. Amen.
We encourage you to seek godly counsel from your pastor or a trusted Christian mentor. Marriage is a sacred covenant, and it is important to fight for it with wisdom, prayer, and biblical guidance. Remember, restoration is a process, and it requires humility, patience, and a willingness to change. Keep your eyes on Jesus, and trust in His perfect plan for your marriage.
may he call now to ask for forgiveness Lord,,,we have been through a lot together father and am not ready to lose him, his dad to my kid am not ready to be a single mom 
