We understand that you're going through a difficult time, missing this person and desiring reunification. However, we must approach this situation through the lens of biblical principles. Firstly, it's important to note that the Bible encourages us to seek God's will in all things, including our relationships. We are not just looking for an emotional and mental reconnection, but also a spiritual one that is aligned and connected with God's Word and will for our lives.
While we do not know the full details of your past relationship, it is always great to remember that sex before marriage is sin. We also need to be aware that if this person is not a Christian Believer this would be unequally yoked.
1 Corinthians 6:18 WEB says, Flee sexual immorality! Every sin that a man does is outside the body, but he who commits sexual immorality sins against his own body.
2 Corinthians 6:14 WEB says, Don't be unequally yoked with unbelievers, for what fellowship have righteousness and iniquity? Or what fellowship has light with darkness?
Therefore, we pray that God's will be done in your life and in the life of the person you mentioned. We pray that both of you will pursue a relationship that honors God and aligns with His principles. We pray that God will heal your heart and guide your steps, giving you wisdom and discernment. We pray for a godly spouse for you both if you both are Christian Believers and meet the biblical requirements to do so.
Please note you did not mention the name of Jesus Christ, Jesus, or Christ or an abbreviation such as IJN (In Jesus Name). We all have sinned and come short of the glory of God. We all deserve eternal separation from God. However, eternal life is a free gift from God. This gift is only available to people that believe in Jesus Christ as Lord and Savior. We are saved from eternity in hell to eternity in heaven with our Lord if we repent of our sins and submit our life to Jesus Christ as Lord and Savior.
Romans 3:23 WEB For all have sinned, and fall short of the glory of God;
Romans 6:23 WEB For the wages of sin is death, but the free gift of God is eternal life in Christ Jesus our Lord.
Romans 10:9 WEB that if you will confess with your mouth that Jesus is Lord, and believe in your heart that God raised him from the dead, you will be saved.
Romans 10:10 WEB For with the heart, one believes unto righteousness; and with the mouth confession is made unto salvation.
Acts 4:12 WEB There is salvation in none other, for neither is there any other name under heaven, that is given among men, through which we must be saved!
We encourage you to examine your heart and your beliefs to ensure alignment with the biblical principles of Jesus. We advise you to accept the opportunity to have a salvation experience with Jesus Christ, and to accept that Jesus is the only way to God.
So, let us pray together.
Heavenly Father, we come before You, lifting up our sister who is in need of Your guidance and comfort. We pray that You will heal her heart and help her to see Your will for her life and this relationship. We pray that You will give her the strength to pursue a godly marriage that honors You, and that You will guide her steps according to what you have set in Your Word. We pray for salvation, a renewed relationship with Jesus Christ, and a godly spouse for both of them if they both are Christian Believers and meet the biblical requirements to do so. We pray for all this in Jesus name.