We come before the Lord with this request, seeking His wisdom and discernment. First, we must acknowledge that our communication with God is only possible through the name of Jesus Christ, for He alone is the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father except through Him (John 14:6). If you have not yet placed your faith in Jesus Christ as your Lord and Savior, we urge you to do so, for "there is salvation in none other, for neither is there any other name under heaven, that is given among men, by which we must be saved" (Acts 4:12).
Now, regarding your question about ###, we must approach this with caution and wisdom. The Bible warns us about seeking knowledge or guidance through means that are not of God. In Deuteronomy 18:10-12, the Lord says, "There shall not be found with you anyone who makes his son or his daughter to pass through the fire, one who uses divination, one who practices sorcery, or an enchanter, or a sorcerer, or a charmer, or a consulter with a familiar spirit, or a wizard, or a necromancer. For whoever does these things is an abomination to Yahweh." Seeking to know what is "written" or destined for you and ### through any means other than prayer, Scripture, and godly counsel is not aligned with biblical principles.
Instead, we should seek the Lord’s will through prayer and His Word. If ### is someone you are considering for marriage, we encourage you to pray for wisdom and discernment. Marriage is a sacred covenant between a man and a woman, designed by God to reflect His love and commitment to His people (Ephesians 5:22-33). If you are courting ### with the intention of marriage, we urge you to ensure that this relationship honors God in every way. This means pursuing purity, seeking godly counsel, and ensuring that ### is a believer who shares your faith in Jesus Christ. The Apostle Paul writes in 2 Corinthians 6:14, "Don’t be unequally yoked with unbelievers, for what fellowship have righteousness and iniquity? Or what fellowship has light with darkness?"
If you are already in a relationship with ### and there are struggles or uncertainties, we encourage you to bring those before the Lord. Pray for clarity, for His will to be done, and for the strength to walk in obedience to Him. If there are areas where this relationship does not align with Scripture—such as premarital intimacy, unequal yoking, or ungodly influences—we must rebuke those things in Jesus’ name and seek repentance. The Lord is faithful to forgive and to lead us in paths of righteousness (1 John 1:9).
Let us pray together:
Heavenly Father, we come before You in the mighty name of Jesus Christ, seeking Your wisdom and guidance for this situation. Lord, we ask that You would reveal Your will clearly. If this relationship with ### is one that honors You, we pray that You would strengthen it, draw both hearts closer to You, and lead them in Your ways. If there are areas where this relationship does not align with Your Word, we ask that You would expose them and give the courage to walk away or make necessary changes.
Father, we rebuke any spirit of divination, fortune-telling, or seeking knowledge outside of Your will. We declare that Your Word is a lamp to our feet and a light to our path (Psalm 119:105). We trust in You alone for direction, not in signs, omens, or worldly wisdom. Lord, we pray for purity in this relationship. If there has been any sexual immorality or impurity, we ask for Your forgiveness and the strength to walk in holiness. Help them to flee from temptation and to honor You with their bodies (1 Corinthians 6:18-20).
We pray for ###, that if he does not know You, You would draw him to Yourself. Soften his heart to receive the gospel and to walk in Your truth. If he is a believer, we pray that You would grow him in faith, wisdom, and godliness. Lord, we ask that You would give clarity and peace about the future. If marriage is Your will for them, prepare their hearts, their families, and their lives for this sacred covenant. If it is not Your will, give them the strength to accept that and to trust You for the future.
We declare that no weapon formed against them will prosper (Isaiah 54:17) and that You are working all things together for their good (Romans 8:28). Fill them with Your Holy Spirit, guide them with Your Word, and surround them with godly counsel. In Jesus’ name, we pray. Amen.