We come before the Lord with hearts burdened by your request, for we see a deep longing for reunion and reconciliation. Yet we must first address what is being asked in light of Scripture, for God’s Word is the lamp to our feet and the light to our path. The term "soulmate" is not found in the Bible, and while it is often used to describe a deep emotional or romantic connection, we must be careful not to place our hope in human relationships above our hope in Christ. Our ultimate fulfillment is found in Him alone, not in another person, no matter how strong the bond may feel.
The Bible teaches that marriage is a sacred covenant between one man and one woman, designed by God to reflect the relationship between Christ and His Church (Ephesians 5:22-33). If this "soulmate" is someone you are not married to, we must urge you to examine your heart and motives. Are you seeking reconciliation for godly purposes, or is this rooted in emotional longing or even lust? If there has been any sexual immorality—whether fornication, adultery, or any other sin—it must be repented of, for Scripture clearly warns:
*"Flee sexual immorality! ‘Every sin that a man does is outside the body,’ but he who commits sexual immorality sins against his own body. Or don’t you know that your body is a temple of the Holy Spirit who is in you, whom you have from God? You are not your own, for you were bought with a price. Therefore glorify God in your body and in your spirit, which are God’s."* (1 Corinthians 6:18-20, WEB)
If this person is someone you were once in a relationship with, we must ask: Was the relationship honoring to God? Were you both walking in obedience to Christ, or were there compromises that grieved the Holy Spirit? True reconciliation can only happen when both parties are submitted to the Lordship of Jesus Christ. If this person is not a believer, Scripture is clear:
*"Don’t be unequally yoked with unbelievers, for what fellowship have righteousness and iniquity? Or what communion has light with darkness?"* (2 Corinthians 6:14, WEB)
We also notice that your request does not invoke the name of Jesus Christ, through whom alone we have access to the Father. There is no other name by which we can be saved, and it is only through Him that our prayers are heard. *"Jesus said to him, ‘I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father, except through me.’"* (John 14:6, WEB). If you have not yet surrendered your life to Christ, we urge you to do so now, for without Him, no prayer, no relationship, and no reconciliation will bring true peace or eternal life.
As for reconciling with her parents, we do pray for restored relationships where there has been brokenness, but again, this must be done in a way that honors God. If there has been sin—whether on your part or theirs—it must be addressed with humility and repentance. *"If it is possible, as much as it is up to you, be at peace with all men."* (Romans 12:18, WEB)
Now, let us pray for you, not as you have asked, but as the Spirit leads in alignment with God’s Word:
Heavenly Father, we lift up this dear one before Your throne of grace, asking that You would open their eyes to see this situation through Your truth. Lord, if there has been sin in this relationship—whether fornication, idolatry of another person, or any other transgression—we ask that You would bring deep conviction and repentance. Cleanse their heart, O God, and renew a right spirit within them. If this "soulmate" is not a believer, we pray that You would draw them to Yourself, for no relationship is more important than their eternal soul.
Father, if this reconciliation is not Your will, give them the strength to surrender it to You. Help them to find their fulfillment in Christ alone, for You are the only One who can satisfy the deepest longings of the heart. If there is to be restoration, let it be for Your glory, built on a foundation of holiness and submission to Your Word.
We pray for wisdom and discernment, that they would not be led by emotions but by Your Spirit. Guard their heart from idolatry, from placing any person above You. If this relationship has been broken by sin, let there be true repentance and a turning away from all that dishonors You.
For the parents involved, we ask for softened hearts and a spirit of forgiveness where it is needed. Let all things be done in love, with humility, and for Your glory.
Most of all, Lord, we pray that this dear one would seek You first, above all else. Let them find their identity in Christ, not in another person. Remind them that You are their first love, their true Soulmate, the One who will never leave them nor forsake them.
We ask all this in the mighty and holy name of Jesus Christ, our Lord and Savior, who alone is worthy of our devotion. Amen.
We encourage you to seek the Lord earnestly in this matter. Spend time in His Word, praying for His will—not your own—to be done. If you are not already walking closely with Christ, we urge you to surrender your life to Him today. Confess your sins, turn away from them, and trust in Jesus as your Lord and Savior. Only then will you have the peace and direction you seek.
*"Delight yourself in Yahweh, and he will give you the desires of your heart."* (Psalm 37:4, WEB) But remember, this promise is for those who delight in *Him*—not in the gifts He may or may not give. May your heart be fully His.