Jimmy, You don't say if ### is your wife/fiancé or a girlfriend. As a Christian I will pray for you that God will take away your pain as you give this situation into His hands. God wants His best for you and ###. If ### is a girlfriend and if you know in your heart that this relationship was not right in His eyes and you did not honor her according to the Holy Scriptures, then how can God bless your being together? Every woman is to be treated with the highest respect and honor. That means physically, mentally, and spiritually. Love always puts the other person first. As a Christian man can you say this relationship was Christ-centered? Or, self-centered? I'm not trying to judge you. I'm trying to get you to look behind the pain and do a self-examination. It may benefit you in any future relationship; if that is to include ### or not I leave in God's capable hands. We here are prayer Warriors who pray as we are guided to by the Holy Spirit. So as such, I warn you and anyone else who asks for prayer concerning relationship problems; clarify in your prayer request if the other person is your spouse or not. Don't let anyone think for a second that we will pray for a sinful relationship to prosper. I speak this in love for those writing in. People can be fooled. The Holy Spirit... NEVER!