Restoring my marriage that feels completely broken

I prayed that God in Jesus' name will answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. Thank You Jesus!!!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.


🙏Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the love, grace, and knowledge of Christ Jesus. God bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, Your righteousness, and to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.

God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so
. Prayer written by The Encourager-Prayer Warrior-Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach.

Healed Spirit Soul And Body

 
We're standing with you, dear sister, in this trial of your marriage. Your unwavering faith and commitment to prayer are inspiring. We join you in asking God to do His will in your marriage. We pray that this time of separation would be used by God to speak to your husband's heart, reminding him of the vows he made before God. We ask for a divine encounter, a moment so undeniable that his heart would be turned back to God and to you. We also pray for your strength and peace in this waiting season. May God grant you the grace to endure and trust in Him. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.
Thank you for the army behind me and helping me fight for my precious marriage!
We stand with you in this season of heartbreak and unwavering faith, lifting your marriage before the Lord with boldness and trust in His sovereign power. Your commitment to prayer, fasting, and surrendering this battle to God is a testament to your faith, and we join you in declaring that what God has joined together, no man—or enemy—can separate. The Word of God reminds us in **Mark 10:9**, *"What therefore God has joined together, don’t let man tear apart."* Your marriage is a covenant before the Lord, and we rebuked the spirit of division, apathy, and hardness of heart that seeks to destroy what He has ordained. The enemy may whisper lies of defeat, but we declare **2 Corinthians 10:4-5** over this situation: *"For the weapons of our warfare are not of the flesh, but mighty before God to the throwing down of strongholds, throwing down imaginations and every high thing that is exalted against the knowledge of God, and bringing every thought into captivity to the obedience of Christ."*

Your husband’s heart is not beyond the reach of God. We pray that as he spends this time in nature, away from distractions, the Lord would speak to him in ways he cannot ignore—whether through the stillness of creation, the conviction of the Holy Spirit, or even dreams and visions as you’ve prayed. **Psalm 19:1-3** declares, *"The heavens declare the glory of God. The expanse shows his handiwork. Day after day they pour out speech, and night after night they display knowledge. There is no speech nor language, where their voice is not heard."* May the Lord use this time to break through the hardness and remind him of the vows he made before God. We pray that the Lord would send a divine interruption—a moment so undeniable that your husband’s heart is turned back to the Lord and to the commitment he made to you. **Ezekiel 36:26** promises, *"I will also give you a new heart, and I will put a new spirit within you. I will take away the stony heart out of your flesh, and I will give you a heart of flesh."*

We also commend you for your posture of surrender and your willingness to allow God to search *your* heart. It is a rare and beautiful thing to seek the Lord’s refinement in the midst of pain, and we pray that He reveals any areas where you can grow in Christlikeness, not as a means to "earn" your husband’s return, but as an act of worship and obedience to the Lord. **Psalm 139:23-24** says, *"Search me, God, and know my heart. Try me, and know my thoughts. See if there is any wicked way in me, and lead me in the everlasting way."* Your journaling and time in the Word are weapons in this spiritual battle—keep pressing into Him, for your strength and hope are found in Christ alone.

Your husband’s words may feel like a death blow, but we declare **Luke 1:37** over this situation: *"For nothing is impossible with God."* His statement that your prayers are a "waste of time" is a lie from the pit of hell. We rebuke that spirit of unbelief and declare that your intercession is powerful and effective (**James 5:16**). The Lord hears your cries, and He is moving even when you cannot see it. Remember **Galatians 6:9**, *"Let’s not be weary in doing good, for we will reap in due season, if we don’t give up."* Your labor in prayer is not in vain.

We also want to encourage you to guard your heart and mind during this season. The emotional toll of separation can be overwhelming, but **Philippians 4:6-7** reminds us, *"In nothing be anxious, but in everything, by prayer and petition with thanksgiving, let your requests be made known to God. And the peace of God, which surpasses all understanding, will guard your hearts and your thoughts in Christ Jesus."* Lean on your community of believers—allow them to pray over you, speak life into you, and carry you when the burden feels too heavy. You are not meant to walk this road alone.

Lastly, we declare **Joel 2:25** over your marriage: *"I will restore to you the years that the swarming locust has eaten, the great locust, the grasshopper, and the caterpillar, my great army, which I sent among you."* What the enemy meant for destruction, God will redeem for His glory. We pray for a supernatural restoration—a miracle that only God can receive the glory for. May your husband return with a repentant heart, a renewed commitment to Christ, and a passion to rebuild what has been broken. May your marriage be a testimony of God’s faithfulness, grace, and power to restore.

**Our Prayer:**
Heavenly Father, we come before You on behalf of our sister, lifting her broken heart and shattered marriage into Your capable hands. Lord, You are the God who heals, restores, and redeems. We ask that You move mightily in her husband’s heart during this time of separation, especially as he is surrounded by Your creation. Speak to him, Lord—through the wind, the stars, the stillness—let him hear Your voice calling him back to You and back to his covenant. Break the spirit of hardness, rebellion, and deception that has taken hold of him. Soften his heart, Lord, and remind him of the vows he made before You.

We pray for divine encounters—dreams, visions, or a supernatural conviction that he cannot ignore. Send Your angels to minister to him, just as You did for Elijah in his despair (**1 Kings 19:5-7**). Let him know that You see him, You love him, and You are calling him to repentance and restoration.

Father, we also lift up our sister. Strengthen her, Lord, when she feels weak. Comfort her when the pain feels unbearable. Fill her with Your peace that surpasses all understanding. Give her wisdom to know how to respond, when to speak, and when to remain silent. Let her see glimpses of Your faithfulness even in the waiting.

We bind every spirit of division, apathy, and unbelief that seeks to destroy this marriage. We declare that no weapon formed against this union shall prosper (**Isaiah 54:17**). We ask for a miracle—a complete restoration that can only be attributed to Your power. Let this marriage be a testament to Your grace, Lord, and let both husband and wife walk forward in renewed commitment to You and to one another.

We pray all of this in the mighty and matchless name of **Jesus Christ**, our Redeemer and Restorer. Amen.
Thank you for the army behind me and helping me fight for my precious marriage!
 
Lord, we pray for this prayer and family for blessings healing and salvation. Heal and bless. May their lives be a praise and glory unto thee.
Come to the Lord's holy presence. Seek him with all your heart. Cling to his Word and meditate on it moment by moment by positive thoughts and joy in the heart (James 1:2-4), knowing that the Lord is good and to him be all the praise. Seek first God's kingdom and his righteousness (Matthew 6:33). Even though life may feel hard, the Lord's hand will be on you, and he will answer in his time. I am praying for you. Amen.

Some resources that might help.

Needs: - But my God shall supply all your need according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19(KJV)

Salvation: - So they said "Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ and you will be saved you and your household." Acts 16:31(NKJV)

Healing: - But He was wounded for our transgressions, He was bruised for our iniquities; The chastisement for our peace was upon Him, And by His stripes we are healed. Isaiah 53:5(NKJV)

Fulfillment by the Holy Spirit: - Then he answered and spake unto me, saying, This is the word of the LORD unto Zerubbabel, saying, Not by might, nor by power, but by my spirit, saith the LORD of hosts. Zechariah 4:6(KJV)

Persecutions: - But I say unto you which hear, Love your enemies, do good to them which hate you, Bless them that curse you, and pray for them which despitefully use you. Luke 6:27-28(KJV)

Help in Prayer

Dwelling and Thriving in God’s grace where everything happens for good (Romans 8:28)

Pray that the Lord may open the eyes of the nations affected by coronavirus (Specifically forces against God’s people)

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Be a Prayer Warrior: “Praying for others”
 
We want you to know how deeply we have carried your marriage and your heart before the Lord these past days. It has been our honor to stand with you in prayer, lifting up your husband, your surrender, and your unshaken faith in the God who specializes in redeeming what feels irreparably broken. Your willingness to cling to Him—even when the ground beneath you trembles—has inspired us to pray with even greater boldness on your behalf.

We have pleaded with the Father to meet your husband in ways only He can, especially during this time of solitude in nature, where distractions fade and hearts often soften. We’ve asked God to speak through the quiet, to stir his spirit with memories of your union, and to reveal Himself as the pursuit your husband cannot outrun. We’ve prayed for divine appointments, for dreams that unsettle his resolve, and for the Holy Spirit to move so powerfully that resistance becomes futile. And we’ve prayed for *you*—for supernatural strength to endure the weight of grief, for moments of peace that defy circumstance, and for the joy of the Lord to be your unshakable foundation as you wait.

Sister, we know the ache of hearing “he’s not planning to return” must feel like a thousand deaths, yet we serve a God who calls forth life from tombs. We declare with you that no word of despair will have the final say. The Lord who parted the Red Sea, who turned mourning into dancing, and who *still* pursues the one lost sheep is at work, even now. Your husband may see your prayers as futile, but we know better. Heaven is moving because of your faithful intercession.

If God has begun to restore, to heal, or to reveal His plan in this season—whether through a softened heart, a returned text, or a whisper of hope—we long to rejoice with you. Share your praise report, no matter how small, so we can glorify God together for His faithfulness. And if the silence remains heavy, if the battle still rages, do not hesitate to bring your request before us again. We are here to keep praying, to keep believing, and to remind you that you are not alone in this fight.

You are seen. Your marriage is seen. And the God who joins hearts together is not finished. Keep journaling your prayers, even when the words feel hollow. Keep opening your Bible, even when the pages blur. He is refining you in the fire, and one day, you will look back and see His hand in every tear.

We love you, we are cheering for you, and we will not stop contending for your miracle. May the Lord bless you with a fresh outpouring of His presence as you seek Him. May He guard your mind, renew your hope, and prepare you for the testimony He is writing—one that will leave no doubt: *He is the God who restores.* We pray this in the mighty name of Jesus.
 
We want you to know how deeply we have carried your marriage and your heart before the Lord these past days. It has been our honor to stand with you in prayer, lifting up your husband, your surrender, and your unshaken faith in the God who specializes in redeeming what feels irreparably broken. Your willingness to cling to Him—even when the ground beneath you trembles—has inspired us to pray with even greater boldness on your behalf.

We have pleaded with the Father to meet your husband in ways only He can, especially during this time of solitude in nature, where distractions fade and hearts often soften. We’ve asked God to speak through the quiet, to stir his spirit with memories of your union, and to reveal Himself as the pursuit your husband cannot outrun. We’ve prayed for divine appointments, for dreams that unsettle his resolve, and for the Holy Spirit to move so powerfully that resistance becomes futile. And we’ve prayed for *you*—for supernatural strength to endure the weight of grief, for moments of peace that defy circumstance, and for the joy of the Lord to be your unshakable foundation as you wait.

Sister, we know the ache of hearing “he’s not planning to return” must feel like a thousand deaths, yet we serve a God who calls forth life from tombs. We declare with you that no word of despair will have the final say. The Lord who parted the Red Sea, who turned mourning into dancing, and who *still* pursues the one lost sheep is at work, even now. Your husband may see your prayers as futile, but we know better. Heaven is moving because of your faithful intercession.

If God has begun to restore, to heal, or to reveal His plan in this season—whether through a softened heart, a returned text, or a whisper of hope—we long to rejoice with you. Share your praise report, no matter how small, so we can glorify God together for His faithfulness. And if the silence remains heavy, if the battle still rages, do not hesitate to bring your request before us again. We are here to keep praying, to keep believing, and to remind you that you are not alone in this fight.

You are seen. Your marriage is seen. And the God who joins hearts together is not finished. Keep journaling your prayers, even when the words feel hollow. Keep opening your Bible, even when the pages blur. He is refining you in the fire, and one day, you will look back and see His hand in every tear.

We love you, we are cheering for you, and we will not stop contending for your miracle. May the Lord bless you with a fresh outpouring of His presence as you seek Him. May He guard your mind, renew your hope, and prepare you for the testimony He is writing—one that will leave no doubt: *He is the God who restores.* We pray this in the mighty name of Jesus.
Thank you so very much. There's been no change...yet. I am remaining faithful and hopeful that change is coming. My husband is very strong-minded but our God is stronger.
 

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