We join with you in lifting up your daughter and this difficult situation before the Lord, knowing that He hears the cries of His people and acts on behalf of those who seek Him. Your heartbreak as a parent is deeply felt, and we stand with you in praying for restoration, protection, and breakthrough in Jesus’ name.
This relationship your daughter is in is clearly toxic, marked by financial strain, emotional exhaustion, and division—none of which align with God’s design for healthy, godly relationships. The Bible warns us in **2 Corinthians 6:14-15 (WEB)**, *"Don’t be unequally yoked with unbelievers, for what fellowship have righteousness and iniquity? Or what communion has light with darkness? What agreement has Christ with Belial? Or what portion has a believer with an unbeliever?"* If this young man is not walking with the Lord, it is no wonder his influence has brought chaos and hardship. Even if he claims faith, his actions do not reflect the fruit of the Spirit—*"love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, and self-control"* (**Galatians 5:22-23**). Instead, what you describe bears the marks of worldly entanglements that pull her away from God’s best.
We also pray for conviction in his heart—may the Lord open his eyes to his own immaturity and the harm he has caused. If he is truly a believer, may the Holy Spirit reprove him so sharply that he steps back in repentance. If he is not, may the Lord remove him from your daughter’s life entirely, for *"bad company corrupts good morals"* (**1 Corinthians 15:33**). His parents, too, must see the urgency of intervening, for even they bear responsibility before God if they enable his destructive behavior.
As for your daughter, we pray the Lord grants her clarity and strength to break free from this bondage. May she recognize how this relationship has distorted her priorities—placing a man and his family above her own, above her faith, and above the godly counsel of those who love her. The enemy uses such entanglements to isolate and weaken believers, but *"where the Spirit of the Lord is, there is liberty"* (**2 Corinthians 3:17**). Pray that she will no longer mimic his ungodly patterns but instead cling to Christ, who calls her to holiness and wholeness.
We declare over her a swift and decisive return home, where she can be surrounded by love, truth, and the support of her family. May the Lord restore what has been broken—her peace, her focus on school and work, her relationships with loved ones, and most importantly, her intimacy with Him. *"He restores my soul. He guides me in the paths of righteousness for his name’s sake"* (**Psalm 23:3**).
And yes, we join you in praying for her future spouse—a man after God’s own heart, who will lead her in righteousness, provide for her spiritually and physically, and cherish her as Christ loves the church (**Ephesians 5:25**). But first, this season must be one of healing and realignment with God’s will. Remind her of **Jeremiah 29:11 (WEB)**: *"‘For I know the plans that I have for you,’ says Yahweh, ‘plans of peace, and not of evil, to give you hope and a future.’"* Her hope is not in this man or any man, but in Jesus alone.
Finally, we rebuke the spirits of hatred, chaos, and division that have infiltrated your family through this relationship. By the authority of Jesus Christ, we command these influences to flee, and we pray a hedge of protection around your household. May the Lord *"grant you, according to the riches of his glory, that you may be strengthened with power through his Spirit in the inner person; that Christ may dwell in your hearts through faith"* (**Ephesians 3:16-17**).
**Our Prayer:**
Heavenly Father, we come before You in the mighty name of Jesus, lifting up this mother’s burden and her daughter’s bondage. Lord, You see the exhaustion, the financial strain, the emotional turmoil, and the spiritual warfare at play. We ask for Your divine intervention—break every ungodly soul tie between them. Convict this young man of his sin, and if he will not repent, remove him entirely from her life. Softens his parents’ hearts to act swiftly, moving him out of her home and ending this toxic influence.
Restoration is Your promise, Lord. Restore Your daughter’s mind, her heart, and her strength. Give her the courage to walk away without regret, knowing You have far greater plans for her. Surround her with godly counsel and remind her that her worth is found in You alone. Bring her home swiftly, Father, where she can be covered in prayer and love.
We pray for her future spouse even now—a man who fears You, who will lead her in Your ways, and who will build a home founded on Your Word. But first, Lord, heal her wounds and renew her spirit. Let this season of pain become a testimony of Your deliverance.
We bind every scheme of the enemy to keep her in bondage. Let no weapon formed against her prosper (**Isaiah 54:17**). Fill your family with unity, peace, and a renewed passion for You. Let this trial draw you all closer to Christ, not further from Him.
In the powerful name of Jesus, we pray—**Amen.**
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*Encouragement for You:*
Sister, your prayers are powerful, and the Lord is moving even now. Do not grow weary in interceding for your daughter (**Galatians 6:9**). Keep speaking truth in love, and trust that God’s timing is perfect. As you wait, cling to **Philippians 4:6-7 (WEB)**: *"In nothing be anxious, but in everything, by prayer and petition with thanksgiving, let your requests be made known to God. And the peace of God, which surpasses all understanding, will guard your hearts and your thoughts in Christ Jesus."* He is faithful. Stand firm.
