Spluedorside
Disciple of Prayer
Prayer to pray before talking to my ### to restore the relationship.
Restoration of relationships
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We understand your heart’s cry for restoration, and we join you in lifting this before the Lord, seeking His will above all. Before we pray, we must first address a few things to ensure this request aligns with God’s Word and His perfect plan for your life.
First, we notice that your request does not mention the name of Jesus Christ, through whom we have access to the Father. The Scriptures are clear that there is no other name under heaven by which we must be saved, and it is only through Jesus that our prayers are heard. *"Jesus said to him, ‘I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father, except through me’* (John 14:6, WEB). *"There is one God, and one mediator between God and men, the man Christ Jesus"* (1 Timothy 2:5, WEB). We urge you to always approach the throne of grace in the name of Jesus, for He is our advocate and the only path to reconciliation—both with God and, when it aligns with His will, with others.
Next, we must ask: is this relationship one that honors God? The Bible teaches that our relationships—especially those of romantic or marital nature—must be rooted in Christ and aligned with His design. If this is a romantic relationship outside of marriage, we remind you that Scripture calls us to flee from sexual immorality, which includes fornication (1 Corinthians 6:18). Courtship should be pursued with the intent of marriage between a man and a woman who are both believers, as *"Don’t be unequally yoked with unbelievers, for what fellowship have righteousness and iniquity? Or what communion has light with darkness?"* (2 Corinthians 6:14, WEB). If this relationship is not centered on Christ or is outside of God’s design for marriage, we must pray for repentance and realignment with His Word rather than restoration of what may be sinful.
If this is a marriage that has been broken by sin, strife, or separation, we encourage you to examine your heart and the situation through the lens of Scripture. Marriage is a covenant before God, and He hates divorce (Malachi 2:16). Restoration is possible when both parties seek Him in humility and repentance. *"Husbands, love your wives, even as Christ also loved the assembly, and gave himself up for it"* (Ephesians 5:25, WEB). *"Wives, be subject to your own husbands, as to the Lord"* (Ephesians 5:22, WEB). If there has been unfaithfulness, bitterness, or unforgiveness, these must be confessed and surrendered to God. *"Bearing with one another, and forgiving each other, if any man has a complaint against any; even as Christ forgave you, so you also do"* (Colossians 3:13, WEB).
If this is a friendship or family relationship, we still urge you to seek God’s wisdom. *"If it is possible, as much as it is up to you, be at peace with all men"* (Romans 12:18, WEB). However, even in these relationships, we must never compromise on righteousness or enable sinful behavior. Restoration must be pursued in a way that honors God, not merely for our own comfort or desire.
Now, let us pray together for you, asking the Lord to prepare your heart and this conversation, that His will may be done and His name glorified.
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Heavenly Father, we come before You in the mighty name of Jesus Christ, our Lord and Savior. We lift up our brother/sister who seeks restoration in this relationship. Lord, we ask first and foremost that You examine their heart and reveal any sin, motive, or desire that is not aligned with Your Word. Cleanse them, Father, and fill them with Your Spirit, that they may approach this conversation with wisdom, humility, and a heart fully surrendered to You.
If this relationship is one that honors You—whether in marriage, family, or godly friendship—we ask for Your divine intervention. Soften hearts, break down walls of pride or bitterness, and bring healing where there has been pain. *"The sacrifices of God are a broken spirit. A broken and contrite heart, O God, you will not despise"* (Psalm 51:17, WEB). Let Your love and truth guide every word spoken, and may Your peace, which surpasses all understanding, guard the hearts and minds of all involved.
But Father, if this relationship is not pleasing to You—if it is rooted in sin, unequally yoked, or outside of Your design—we pray for conviction and courage. Give our brother/sister the strength to walk away from what is not Your best for them, even if it is painful. *"No temptation has taken you except what is common to man. God is faithful, who will not allow you to be tempted above what you are able, but will with the temptation also make the way of escape, that you may be able to endure it"* (1 Corinthians 10:13, WEB). Let them find their fulfillment in You alone, trusting that Your plans for them are good, even when they require sacrifice.
Lord, we also pray for protection over this conversation. Bind any spirit of confusion, manipulation, or deception that may seek to derail Your will. Let Your truth prevail, and let Your glory be the ultimate goal. *"Let the words of my mouth and the meditation of my heart be acceptable in your sight, Yahweh, my rock, and my redeemer"* (Psalm 19:14, WEB).
Finally, Father, we ask that You remind our brother/sister of their identity in Christ. Whether this relationship is restored or not, may they find their worth, joy, and purpose in You. *"Delight yourself in Yahweh, and he will give you the desires of your heart. Commit your way to Yahweh. Trust also in him, and he will do this"* (Psalm 37:4-5, WEB).
We rebuked any fear, doubt, or ungodly soul tie that may be hindering Your work in this situation. By the power of the Holy Spirit, we declare that Your will shall be done, and that our brother/sister will walk in obedience, trusting You completely. In the precious and mighty name of Jesus Christ, we pray. Amen.
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After you have this conversation, we encourage you to spend time in Scripture, particularly in passages that speak to relationships, forgiveness, and God’s design for marriage and friendship. Reflect on 1 Corinthians 13, which defines love as patient, kind, and not self-seeking. Ask the Lord to cultivate this kind of love in you, whether toward this person or others in your life.
If this relationship involves romantic feelings outside of marriage, we strongly urge you to seek godly counsel and accountability. Flee from temptation, and pursue purity and holiness, knowing that God’s ways are higher than ours. *"Marriage is honorable in all, and the bed is undefiled; but God will judge the sexually immoral and adulterers"* (Hebrews 13:4, WEB). If marriage is not the intent or possibility in this relationship, it is not one that should be pursued.
Lastly, if you have not yet surrendered your life fully to Jesus Christ, we implore you to do so. True peace, restoration, and eternal life are found only in Him. *"That if you will confess with your mouth that Jesus is Lord, and believe in your heart that God raised him from the dead, you will be saved. For with the heart, one believes resulting in righteousness; and with the mouth confession is made resulting in salvation"* (Romans 10:9-10, WEB). If you have questions about salvation or need further guidance, please let us know—we are here to walk with you in truth and love.
May the Lord bless you and keep you as you seek Him above all else.
First, we notice that your request does not mention the name of Jesus Christ, through whom we have access to the Father. The Scriptures are clear that there is no other name under heaven by which we must be saved, and it is only through Jesus that our prayers are heard. *"Jesus said to him, ‘I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father, except through me’* (John 14:6, WEB). *"There is one God, and one mediator between God and men, the man Christ Jesus"* (1 Timothy 2:5, WEB). We urge you to always approach the throne of grace in the name of Jesus, for He is our advocate and the only path to reconciliation—both with God and, when it aligns with His will, with others.
Next, we must ask: is this relationship one that honors God? The Bible teaches that our relationships—especially those of romantic or marital nature—must be rooted in Christ and aligned with His design. If this is a romantic relationship outside of marriage, we remind you that Scripture calls us to flee from sexual immorality, which includes fornication (1 Corinthians 6:18). Courtship should be pursued with the intent of marriage between a man and a woman who are both believers, as *"Don’t be unequally yoked with unbelievers, for what fellowship have righteousness and iniquity? Or what communion has light with darkness?"* (2 Corinthians 6:14, WEB). If this relationship is not centered on Christ or is outside of God’s design for marriage, we must pray for repentance and realignment with His Word rather than restoration of what may be sinful.
If this is a marriage that has been broken by sin, strife, or separation, we encourage you to examine your heart and the situation through the lens of Scripture. Marriage is a covenant before God, and He hates divorce (Malachi 2:16). Restoration is possible when both parties seek Him in humility and repentance. *"Husbands, love your wives, even as Christ also loved the assembly, and gave himself up for it"* (Ephesians 5:25, WEB). *"Wives, be subject to your own husbands, as to the Lord"* (Ephesians 5:22, WEB). If there has been unfaithfulness, bitterness, or unforgiveness, these must be confessed and surrendered to God. *"Bearing with one another, and forgiving each other, if any man has a complaint against any; even as Christ forgave you, so you also do"* (Colossians 3:13, WEB).
If this is a friendship or family relationship, we still urge you to seek God’s wisdom. *"If it is possible, as much as it is up to you, be at peace with all men"* (Romans 12:18, WEB). However, even in these relationships, we must never compromise on righteousness or enable sinful behavior. Restoration must be pursued in a way that honors God, not merely for our own comfort or desire.
Now, let us pray together for you, asking the Lord to prepare your heart and this conversation, that His will may be done and His name glorified.
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Heavenly Father, we come before You in the mighty name of Jesus Christ, our Lord and Savior. We lift up our brother/sister who seeks restoration in this relationship. Lord, we ask first and foremost that You examine their heart and reveal any sin, motive, or desire that is not aligned with Your Word. Cleanse them, Father, and fill them with Your Spirit, that they may approach this conversation with wisdom, humility, and a heart fully surrendered to You.
If this relationship is one that honors You—whether in marriage, family, or godly friendship—we ask for Your divine intervention. Soften hearts, break down walls of pride or bitterness, and bring healing where there has been pain. *"The sacrifices of God are a broken spirit. A broken and contrite heart, O God, you will not despise"* (Psalm 51:17, WEB). Let Your love and truth guide every word spoken, and may Your peace, which surpasses all understanding, guard the hearts and minds of all involved.
But Father, if this relationship is not pleasing to You—if it is rooted in sin, unequally yoked, or outside of Your design—we pray for conviction and courage. Give our brother/sister the strength to walk away from what is not Your best for them, even if it is painful. *"No temptation has taken you except what is common to man. God is faithful, who will not allow you to be tempted above what you are able, but will with the temptation also make the way of escape, that you may be able to endure it"* (1 Corinthians 10:13, WEB). Let them find their fulfillment in You alone, trusting that Your plans for them are good, even when they require sacrifice.
Lord, we also pray for protection over this conversation. Bind any spirit of confusion, manipulation, or deception that may seek to derail Your will. Let Your truth prevail, and let Your glory be the ultimate goal. *"Let the words of my mouth and the meditation of my heart be acceptable in your sight, Yahweh, my rock, and my redeemer"* (Psalm 19:14, WEB).
Finally, Father, we ask that You remind our brother/sister of their identity in Christ. Whether this relationship is restored or not, may they find their worth, joy, and purpose in You. *"Delight yourself in Yahweh, and he will give you the desires of your heart. Commit your way to Yahweh. Trust also in him, and he will do this"* (Psalm 37:4-5, WEB).
We rebuked any fear, doubt, or ungodly soul tie that may be hindering Your work in this situation. By the power of the Holy Spirit, we declare that Your will shall be done, and that our brother/sister will walk in obedience, trusting You completely. In the precious and mighty name of Jesus Christ, we pray. Amen.
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After you have this conversation, we encourage you to spend time in Scripture, particularly in passages that speak to relationships, forgiveness, and God’s design for marriage and friendship. Reflect on 1 Corinthians 13, which defines love as patient, kind, and not self-seeking. Ask the Lord to cultivate this kind of love in you, whether toward this person or others in your life.
If this relationship involves romantic feelings outside of marriage, we strongly urge you to seek godly counsel and accountability. Flee from temptation, and pursue purity and holiness, knowing that God’s ways are higher than ours. *"Marriage is honorable in all, and the bed is undefiled; but God will judge the sexually immoral and adulterers"* (Hebrews 13:4, WEB). If marriage is not the intent or possibility in this relationship, it is not one that should be pursued.
Lastly, if you have not yet surrendered your life fully to Jesus Christ, we implore you to do so. True peace, restoration, and eternal life are found only in Him. *"That if you will confess with your mouth that Jesus is Lord, and believe in your heart that God raised him from the dead, you will be saved. For with the heart, one believes resulting in righteousness; and with the mouth confession is made resulting in salvation"* (Romans 10:9-10, WEB). If you have questions about salvation or need further guidance, please let us know—we are here to walk with you in truth and love.
May the Lord bless you and keep you as you seek Him above all else.
We're right there with you, praying for the restoration of this relationship. It's important to approach God with honesty and humility, so let's first ask Him to search our hearts and reveal any areas that need His touch. We believe that He wants the best for you and this relationship, and we trust that He will guide your conversation today.
Lord, we come before You in Jesus' name, asking for Your wisdom and guidance. Help us to speak and listen with love, patience, and understanding. Give us the courage to address any sin or wrongdoing, and the humility to receive correction if needed. We trust that You will use this conversation to bring healing, restoration, and glory to Your name. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.
Lord, we come before You in Jesus' name, asking for Your wisdom and guidance. Help us to speak and listen with love, patience, and understanding. Give us the courage to address any sin or wrongdoing, and the humility to receive correction if needed. We trust that You will use this conversation to bring healing, restoration, and glory to Your name. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.
EnricoLange
Beloved of All
Lord Jesus please richly bless, protect and guide them. Please help them in accordance with your perfect will Father. Thank you and praise you. In your holy name I pray. Amen.
The Encourager
The Encourager
I prayed that God in Jesus' name will answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. Thank You Jesus!!!
Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.
Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the love, grace, and knowledge of Christ Jesus. God bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, Your righteousness, and to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.
God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by The Encourager-Prayer Warrior-Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach.
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Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.
Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the love, grace, and knowledge of Christ Jesus. God bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, Your righteousness, and to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by The Encourager-Prayer Warrior-Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach.
Healed Spirit Soul And Body
Healed Spirit Soul And Body
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Praying for this request in Jesus Name.
Praying for this in Jesus Name. Amen.
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"May the Lord bless you and protect you. May the Lord smile on you and be gracious to you. May the Lord show you his favor and give you his peace." Numbers 6:24-26
"May the Lord bless you and protect you. May the Lord smile on you and be gracious to you. May the Lord show you his favor and give you his peace." Numbers 6:24-26
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