Resistance in forgiveness
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We join you in lifting this burden before the Lord, for we know how heavy the weight of unforgiveness can be—and how stubborn the flesh is when it clings to bitterness, offense, or self-righteousness. The Scriptures are clear that forgiveness is not optional for the believer, but a command rooted in the very nature of God, who forgave us first through Christ. *"And be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving one another, just as God also in Christ forgave you"* (Ephesians 4:32, WEB). Resistance to forgiveness is resistance to the work of the Holy Spirit in us, and it grieves Him. Yet we take heart, for the Lord is faithful to complete the work He began in you (Philippians 1:6).
The tiredness you feel is the flesh warring against the Spirit, but the victory is already won in Christ. *"For if you live after the flesh, you must die; but if by the Spirit you put to death the deeds of the body, you will live"* (Romans 8:13, WEB). This is not a battle you fight alone—it is the Lord who breaks the chains of resentment when we surrender to Him. Let us also remember the warning of our Savior: *"For if you forgive men their trespasses, your heavenly Father will also forgive you. But if you don’t forgive men their trespasses, neither will your Father forgive your trespasses"* (Matthew 6:14-15, WEB). This is not a threat, but a revelation of how seriously God takes our obedience in this area.
We pray now with you, asking the Father to soften your heart where it has hardened, to expose any hidden roots of bitterness, and to fill you with His supernatural love that *chooses* to forgive even when feelings lag behind. May He remind you daily of the debt He canceled for you at Calvary, that you might extend that same grace to others. Let the Holy Spirit search your heart and reveal any areas where you’ve withheld forgiveness—whether toward others, yourself, or even God. Repentance is the doorway to freedom, and we declare that you will walk through it boldly, leaving no room for the enemy to accuse or torment you.
Father, we lift our sister before You, acknowledging her weariness in fighting the flesh. You know the depth of her struggle, the names and faces that rise in her mind when forgiveness is mentioned. Lord, we ask that You would break every chain of resistance in her heart. By Your Spirit, uproot every bitter thought, every justification for holding onto offense. Replace her stubbornness with Your meekness, her pain with Your peace. Let her taste the sweetness of release that comes only when we obey Your command to forgive—as You forgave us.
Remind her, Lord, that forgiveness is not excusing sin or pretending harm never occurred. It is surrendering the right to retaliate, trusting You to vindicate and heal. Give her the courage to speak forgiveness aloud, even if her emotions haven’t caught up. Let her experience the truth that *"the Lord’s servant must not quarrel, but be gentle towards all, able to teach, patient, in gentleness correcting those who oppose him: perhaps God may give them repentance leading to a full knowledge of the truth, and they may recover themselves out of the devil’s snare"* (2 Timothy 2:24-26, WEB). May she see that forgiveness is an act of worship, a declaration that Your justice is greater than her need for vengeance.
We rebuke the spirit of unforgiveness that seeks to bind her. In the name of Jesus, we command every stronghold of bitterness, resentment, and self-pity to be torn down. Fill her with Your love, which *"bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things"* (1 Corinthians 13:7, WEB). Let her walk in the freedom Christ purchased, unshackled from the past, with a heart fully surrendered to Your will.
And Father, we ask that You would transform her *totally*—mind, will, and emotions—to walk in Your ways without question or resistance. Let her flesh be crucified daily, that Christ may live through her. May she say with Paul, *"I have been crucified with Christ, and it is no longer I who live, but Christ lives in me. That life which I now live in the flesh, I live by faith in the Son of God, who loved me, and gave himself up for me"* (Galatians 2:20, WEB).
We thank You, Lord, for the work You are doing in her. Let her testify soon of the joy and lightness that comes when we release the weights we were never meant to carry. In Jesus’ mighty name, we pray—*the name above all names, by which every knee shall bow and every tongue confess that He is Lord*. Amen.
Sister, we encourage you to take practical steps in this journey. Write down the names of those you need to forgive and pray over that list daily, releasing them to God. Ask the Holy Spirit to show you if there are any ways you’ve sinned in response to being sinned against (e.g., gossip, anger, or withdrawal). Confess these to the Lord and receive His cleansing. And when the enemy whispers that forgiveness is too hard, remind him that *"with God, all things are possible"* (Matthew 19:26, WEB). You are not alone in this—we stand with you, and more importantly, *Christ in you* is your hope of glory (Colossians 1:27). Keep pressing in. The freedom you seek is found on the other side of obedience.
The tiredness you feel is the flesh warring against the Spirit, but the victory is already won in Christ. *"For if you live after the flesh, you must die; but if by the Spirit you put to death the deeds of the body, you will live"* (Romans 8:13, WEB). This is not a battle you fight alone—it is the Lord who breaks the chains of resentment when we surrender to Him. Let us also remember the warning of our Savior: *"For if you forgive men their trespasses, your heavenly Father will also forgive you. But if you don’t forgive men their trespasses, neither will your Father forgive your trespasses"* (Matthew 6:14-15, WEB). This is not a threat, but a revelation of how seriously God takes our obedience in this area.
We pray now with you, asking the Father to soften your heart where it has hardened, to expose any hidden roots of bitterness, and to fill you with His supernatural love that *chooses* to forgive even when feelings lag behind. May He remind you daily of the debt He canceled for you at Calvary, that you might extend that same grace to others. Let the Holy Spirit search your heart and reveal any areas where you’ve withheld forgiveness—whether toward others, yourself, or even God. Repentance is the doorway to freedom, and we declare that you will walk through it boldly, leaving no room for the enemy to accuse or torment you.
Father, we lift our sister before You, acknowledging her weariness in fighting the flesh. You know the depth of her struggle, the names and faces that rise in her mind when forgiveness is mentioned. Lord, we ask that You would break every chain of resistance in her heart. By Your Spirit, uproot every bitter thought, every justification for holding onto offense. Replace her stubbornness with Your meekness, her pain with Your peace. Let her taste the sweetness of release that comes only when we obey Your command to forgive—as You forgave us.
Remind her, Lord, that forgiveness is not excusing sin or pretending harm never occurred. It is surrendering the right to retaliate, trusting You to vindicate and heal. Give her the courage to speak forgiveness aloud, even if her emotions haven’t caught up. Let her experience the truth that *"the Lord’s servant must not quarrel, but be gentle towards all, able to teach, patient, in gentleness correcting those who oppose him: perhaps God may give them repentance leading to a full knowledge of the truth, and they may recover themselves out of the devil’s snare"* (2 Timothy 2:24-26, WEB). May she see that forgiveness is an act of worship, a declaration that Your justice is greater than her need for vengeance.
We rebuke the spirit of unforgiveness that seeks to bind her. In the name of Jesus, we command every stronghold of bitterness, resentment, and self-pity to be torn down. Fill her with Your love, which *"bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things"* (1 Corinthians 13:7, WEB). Let her walk in the freedom Christ purchased, unshackled from the past, with a heart fully surrendered to Your will.
And Father, we ask that You would transform her *totally*—mind, will, and emotions—to walk in Your ways without question or resistance. Let her flesh be crucified daily, that Christ may live through her. May she say with Paul, *"I have been crucified with Christ, and it is no longer I who live, but Christ lives in me. That life which I now live in the flesh, I live by faith in the Son of God, who loved me, and gave himself up for me"* (Galatians 2:20, WEB).
We thank You, Lord, for the work You are doing in her. Let her testify soon of the joy and lightness that comes when we release the weights we were never meant to carry. In Jesus’ mighty name, we pray—*the name above all names, by which every knee shall bow and every tongue confess that He is Lord*. Amen.
Sister, we encourage you to take practical steps in this journey. Write down the names of those you need to forgive and pray over that list daily, releasing them to God. Ask the Holy Spirit to show you if there are any ways you’ve sinned in response to being sinned against (e.g., gossip, anger, or withdrawal). Confess these to the Lord and receive His cleansing. And when the enemy whispers that forgiveness is too hard, remind him that *"with God, all things are possible"* (Matthew 19:26, WEB). You are not alone in this—we stand with you, and more importantly, *Christ in you* is your hope of glory (Colossians 1:27). Keep pressing in. The freedom you seek is found on the other side of obedience.
We're right here with you, sister. It's tough, we know, but remember, forgiveness isn't about the other person; it's about setting yourself free. It's like Jesus said, "If you forgive others their trespasses, your heavenly Father will also forgive you." It's a powerful promise, and we claim it for you today.
We're asking God to soften your heart, to help you see those you need to forgive through His eyes. We're praying for courage, too - courage to speak forgiveness even when emotions lag behind. And we're believing for a breakthrough, for the chains of resistance to fall off, and for you to walk in the freedom and joy that only He can give.
We're here, cheering you on. You're not alone in this. Keep taking those steps, keep pressing in. We're believing for a transformation, for you to walk totally in His ways, without question or resistance. Keep trusting, keep obeying. The freedom you seek is on the other side of obedience. You've got this, in Christ who strengthens you.
We're asking God to soften your heart, to help you see those you need to forgive through His eyes. We're praying for courage, too - courage to speak forgiveness even when emotions lag behind. And we're believing for a breakthrough, for the chains of resistance to fall off, and for you to walk in the freedom and joy that only He can give.
We're here, cheering you on. You're not alone in this. Keep taking those steps, keep pressing in. We're believing for a transformation, for you to walk totally in His ways, without question or resistance. Keep trusting, keep obeying. The freedom you seek is on the other side of obedience. You've got this, in Christ who strengthens you.
EnricoLange
Beloved of All
Father please help them, us and all in need. Thank you and praise you. In your holy name I pray Lord Jesus. Amen.
Cinu
Beloved of All
Lord, we pray for this prayer and family for blessings healing and salvation. Heal and bless. May their lives be a praise and glory unto thee.
Come to the Lord's holy presence. Seek him with all your heart. Cling to his Word and meditate on it moment by moment by positive thoughts and joy in the heart (James 1:2-4), knowing that the Lord is good and to him be all the praise. Seek first God's kingdom and his righteousness (Matthew 6:33). Even though life may feel hard, the Lord's hand will be on you, and he will answer in his time. I am praying for you. Amen.
Some resources that might help.
Needs: - But my God shall supply all your need according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19(KJV)
Salvation: - So they said "Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ and you will be saved you and your household." Acts 16:31(NKJV)
Healing: - But He was wounded for our transgressions, He was bruised for our iniquities; The chastisement for our peace was upon Him, And by His stripes we are healed. Isaiah 53:5(NKJV)
Fulfillment by the Holy Spirit: - Then he answered and spake unto me, saying, This is the word of the LORD unto Zerubbabel, saying, Not by might, nor by power, but by my spirit, saith the LORD of hosts. Zechariah 4:6(KJV)
Persecutions: - But I say unto you which hear, Love your enemies, do good to them which hate you, Bless them that curse you, and pray for them which despitefully use you. Luke 6:27-28(KJV)
Help in Prayer
Dwelling and Thriving in God’s grace where everything happens for good (Romans 8:28)
Pray that the Lord may open the eyes of the nations affected by coronavirus (Specifically forces against God’s people)
sermons
Be a Prayer Warrior: “Praying for others”
Come to the Lord's holy presence. Seek him with all your heart. Cling to his Word and meditate on it moment by moment by positive thoughts and joy in the heart (James 1:2-4), knowing that the Lord is good and to him be all the praise. Seek first God's kingdom and his righteousness (Matthew 6:33). Even though life may feel hard, the Lord's hand will be on you, and he will answer in his time. I am praying for you. Amen.
Some resources that might help.
Needs: - But my God shall supply all your need according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19(KJV)
Salvation: - So they said "Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ and you will be saved you and your household." Acts 16:31(NKJV)
Healing: - But He was wounded for our transgressions, He was bruised for our iniquities; The chastisement for our peace was upon Him, And by His stripes we are healed. Isaiah 53:5(NKJV)
Fulfillment by the Holy Spirit: - Then he answered and spake unto me, saying, This is the word of the LORD unto Zerubbabel, saying, Not by might, nor by power, but by my spirit, saith the LORD of hosts. Zechariah 4:6(KJV)
Persecutions: - But I say unto you which hear, Love your enemies, do good to them which hate you, Bless them that curse you, and pray for them which despitefully use you. Luke 6:27-28(KJV)
Help in Prayer
Dwelling and Thriving in God’s grace where everything happens for good (Romans 8:28)
Pray that the Lord may open the eyes of the nations affected by coronavirus (Specifically forces against God’s people)
sermons
Be a Prayer Warrior: “Praying for others”
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