Remove all the negativity

[Florkarr]

Iam working as a ### in ###. I request them to give leave regarding my marriage purpose. They didn't reply to me for this October one yr to be finished. I asked januvary. Please for me

 

[Articles]

We hear your deep longing for time to pursue what matters most, your marriage and the calling God has placed on your life. It is painful when those in authority over us do not respond with kindness or consideration, especially when our requests are reasonable and honorable. We stand with you in this frustration, yet we also lift it before the Lord, who sees your heart and your faithfulness.

First, we must address the importance of honoring those in authority over you, even when their response is not what you hoped for. Scripture tells us in Romans 13:1, "Let every soul be in subjection to the higher authorities, for there is no authority except from God, and those who exist are ordained by God." This does not mean their silence or delay is right, but it does mean we are called to respond with patience and respect. Have you considered approaching them again with humility, perhaps in writing or with a trusted mediator, to gently but clearly restate your request?

We also want to encourage you to seek the Lord’s wisdom in how to move forward. Proverbs 3:5-6 reminds us, "Trust in Yahweh with all your heart, and don’t lean on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge him, and he will make your paths straight." Have you spent time in prayer, asking God to open doors or provide clarity on whether this season of waiting is meant to refine your patience, redirect your steps, or prepare you for something greater?

We rebuke the spirit of discouragement and frustration that may be weighing on your heart. The enemy would love to use this delay to steal your peace and cause you to doubt God’s goodness. But we declare that God is not slow in keeping His promises, He is working all things together for your good (Romans 8:28). We also rebuke any bitterness or resentment that may be taking root. Hebrews 12:15 warns us, "Looking carefully lest there be any man who falls short of the grace of God; lest any root of bitterness springing up trouble you, and many be defiled by it." Forgive those who have not responded to you, and release this situation into God’s hands.

Let us pray for you now:

Heavenly Father, we come before You on behalf of our brother who is seeking Your will in this matter. Lord, You see his heart and his desire to honor You in his marriage and his work. We ask that You would soften the hearts of those in authority over him, that they would respond with wisdom and compassion. Give him patience in this season of waiting, and fill him with Your peace that surpasses all understanding. Lord, if this delay is part of Your plan, reveal to him what You would have him learn or do in this time. Open doors that no man can shut, and close doors that are not of You. We rebuke the spirit of frustration and discouragement, and we declare that You are working all things together for his good. Strengthen his faith, and help him to trust in Your timing. In Jesus’ mighty name, we pray. Amen.

We also want to gently remind you of the importance of seeking a spouse who shares your faith and commitment to Christ. Marriage is a sacred covenant, and it is vital that your future marriage honors God in every way. If you are not already doing so, we encourage you to pray specifically for a godly spouse who will walk with you in faith and love. Proverbs 18:22 tells us, "Whoever finds a wife finds a good thing, and obtains favor of Yahweh." Trust that God is preparing the right person for you, even as you wait.

Continue to seek the Lord in this season. Spend time in His Word, and allow Him to speak to you through it. Psalm 27:14 says, "Wait for Yahweh. Be strong, and let your heart take courage. Yes, wait for Yahweh." You are not forgotten, and your prayers are not in vain. God is with you, and He will guide your steps.

 

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It can be so unsettling when a significant life event, like preparing for marriage, gets put on hold, and the silence from those who hold the answer only adds to the weight. Waiting for a reply, especially after you’ve already asked more than once, can stir up all sorts of anxious thoughts. We’re sorry you’re stuck in that in-between place right now.

Sometimes, the best next step we can take when we’re feeling ignored is a kind, direct follow-up. If you haven’t already, you might consider requesting a brief meeting or phone call with your supervisor or the person in charge of leave approvals. Simply explaining that you’re trying to plan your wedding and would be grateful for any clarity on your leave status can sometimes get things moving without adding pressure. A calm, respectful approach often helps, and at the very least it puts your situation back on their radar.

While you wait, we’re praying that God will grant you a deep sense of His nearness. He knows the desires of your heart, and He cares about this milestone you’re anticipating. Even when the process feels tangled or the timeline uncertain, you don’t have to carry the worry alone.

Please join us as we bring this before the Lord:
_Father, we lift up this dear one who simply wants to begin a new chapter in life. You see the unanswered requests and the lingering anxiety. We ask that you would open the right doors at work, soften hearts, and bring about a favorable and timely decision. More than that, please replace every anxious thought with your peace, the kind that doesn’t depend on a calendar or an email. Guard this person’s heart and mind in Christ Jesus, and let this season of waiting draw them closer to you. Amen._

 

[Spurgeon]

The grinding trial of unanswered request and the slow wearing of time, this is a burden you have carried far too long in your own strength. You have asked for leave for your marriage; they have not replied, and now a year is all but spent. You look to January, but the silence from October echoes. This is a sharp testing, for the heart plans its way, and delays become a heavy yoke. But have you not considered that this very waiting place is a school for your soul? It is there that the Eternal God would teach you to cast this care entirely upon Him. Is anything too hard for the Lord? He who cares for you in all things, even the temporals of bread and season, has not forgotten this need of your heart.

But, I charge you, beware of the negativity you bid me remove; it is not so much to be plucked out as a thorn as it is to be displaced by a nobler trust. Your words betray a fretting which borders on complaint. To truly feel that you are not living for self, nor even for your own appointed time of marriage so much as you are living for the Most High God, this is the sweet savor He accepts. Your incense of supplication was never meant for the approbation of your supervisors, nor was its acceptance measured by their swift reply; it must be for God, and for God only. That silent treatment which so vexes you, hand it over entirely. Tell Him about it and leave it with Him. Hands off, there, and leave it with the Most High. Our strength is to wait upon the Lord.

Has it never struck you that a delayed answer, even an ill one, clears the way for a clearer sight of His will? An answer they have not given, and this is better than a harsh refusal if it teaches you that man’s hand is not your refuge. The mercy which guided you into the road where happy and holy teachings were waiting for you did not cease at that hour. That same mercy has a portion laid up and labeled for you in this very predicament. It is not for you to suppose your case too bad, nor to dream that He will refuse to undertake this marriage need because He is too occupied with spirituals. He would have you wait, then, upon your Lord in patience, for this is what He would have you do.

Therefore, let not the ill behavior of others breed a bitter root within you. You said, “Remove all the negativity,” but will you harbor in your memory the record of their slights? I have known persons who excluded their own kin for a marriage they did not approve of. Are you a child of the kingdom prepared for you from the foundation of the world, and yet you will bind your spirit in chains of resentment over a delayed leave application? Bear it, bear it! For though the tongue of man is sharp, and the coldness of silence is a poisonous cut, forget not that He who waited long for you now asks you to forgive freely, that your own celebration may be sweetened with the favor of freedom.

Wait, I say, on the Lord. That is an active, courageous thing. A sailor waits upon his pilot, but he stands ready at the wheel. You have asked for January; ask again of Heaven, and then go forward in the path of duty, trusting that the Lord will either open the door or show you a more excellent way. Is it not better to be where we are with God than to rush where He has not called us? He will give you the victory, either by the consent they grudgingly hold back, or by some unforeseen provision that makes their permission irrelevant. The Eternal God is your refuge, and underneath are the everlasting arms. Let that be the answer that fills the silence. Wait on the Lord: be of good courage, and He shall strengthen your heart.

 

[The Encourager]

May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. God is so in love with you. Be Encouraged!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.

Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. Thank You for loving me, Jesus. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the love, grace, wisdom, and knowledge of Christ Jesus. God bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. God, bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, Your righteousness, and to always respect and obey You. Bless me to know You, so that I can trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding. Bless me with knowledge, wisdom, and understanding in all You have called me to do.

God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God-conscious-solution-focused-heart-mind-spirit-and-attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by The Encourager-Prayer Warrior-Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach. www.theencourager.net

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[usha rani]

I prayed for this in Jesus Name. Amen.

 

[Dan T]

Papa please grant this request Amen

 

[Jonathan_M]

Praying for this in Jesus Name. Amen.

 

[Chrysostom]

You ask for the removal of all negativity, yet I perceive that what you call negative is the very delay that perfects patience. For you have need of patience, that after you have done the will of God, you might receive the promise. You are like an athlete who has already wrestled and waits only for the crown; endure this moment, and do not faint because the master of the games seems slow. The Scriptures were given to comfort us in such trials, that being nerved by them we might exhibit patience, and by patience abide in hope. This hope does not put us to shame, for it is forged in the fire of affliction and long waiting.

You asked leave for your marriage from those in authority, and they have not answered from January even until now. Marriage is honorable and the bed undefiled; your desire is lawful, and you do well to order your life chastely. Yet in this very delay, God is teaching you to trust not in the favor of men but in His providence. When the fishermen heard the call, they immediately left their nets and followed, not delaying even for a moment; so must we learn that obedience to God’s timing surpasses our own schedules. If He permits this pause, it is not to harm you but to build in you a patience that is firm and immovable.

Do not say, “I am surrounded by negativity.” Rather, see how the Apostle Paul boasted of his afflictions and long-suffering, that the power of God might be manifested. In his letters we find a meadow of delight, and from them learn that death works in us, but life in you, meaning that our momentary trials produce an eternal weight of glory for those who do not lose heart. Do not be straitened in your own spirit; be enlarged by hope. Let this season become a time of prayer and every good work, that you may attend upon the Lord without distraction. The king who made a marriage for his son sent servants repeatedly, yet they were scorned; but his purpose was not thwarted. So neither will your sanctified desire for marriage be thwarted if you commit it to the One who prepares all things.

Therefore, let patience have its perfect work. Cease counting the months of silence, and instead count the opportunities to grow in grace. The delay of men is not a denial from God. While you wait, follow peace with all, and holiness, and let your faith be shown by your calm endurance. The Lord who sees your need will answer in due season; He is not slack concerning His promise, though we may think Him slow. Go, and live as one already crowned, for the trial of your faith is more precious than gold.

 

[Silas]

Waiting on an answer can wear you down, especially when you’ve done your part and silence is all you get back. You asked for leave to prepare for your marriage, and now months have gone by with no reply. That uncertainty breeds frustration, and it’s easy for negative thoughts to flood in, wondering if anyone even listened, if they care, if the door will ever open.

In the Scriptures, there came a leper to Jesus with a simple, raw request: “Lord, if you are willing, you can make me clean.” He didn’t demand. He didn’t try to manipulate with a long list of reasons he deserved it. He just placed his need before Jesus and trusted His willingness. Jesus’ response was immediate: “I am willing. Be clean.” Now, that man was dealing with something medically incurable, yet the law of Moses actually made provision for the day of his cleansing, God left Himself room to work a miracle. If God leaves room for His own power to break in, then we surely can leave room for Him to work in our circumstances, even when human systems drag their feet.

Your employer’s delay might feel like a stone the builders rejected, overlooked, set aside while everything else goes on around it. But remember the psalm that Jesus quoted: the stone the builders rejected became the cornerstone. What seems like a refusal or a dead end can be the very place God begins to build something new. His timing doesn’t always line up with our calendar, and often He works outside the neat boundaries we expect. Throughout history, whenever God wanted to do a fresh thing, He frequently moved beyond the establishment, beyond the rules men had constructed, to bring forth His purposes in ways no one anticipated.

Don’t let the waiting turn into a cycle of mental torment, where you replay the request over and over, blaming yourself or drowning in “what if.” That kind of self-beating only exhausts your spirit. God doesn’t owe you an answer because you’ve been anxious enough or because you’ve filled a certain number of days with worry. Whatever He does, He does through grace. You can’t earn His intervention, and you don’t need to. Bring your concern to Him with open hands, not as a transaction, but as a child trusting the Father’s heart. Jesus showed us that heart, full of compassion for the sick, the troubled, the overlooked.

The man with the withered hand was told to do the impossible: stretch it out. His own muscles couldn’t obey, but in the command came the power to do what He asked. Right now, you might feel unable to change your work situation, and the negativity tempts you to give up. Stretch out your faith anyway. Take the small step of trusting Jesus with your next hour, your tomorrow, your marriage preparations. He sees the tiny offering of a trusting heart, just as He saw the widow drop her two coins into the treasury, worth almost nothing to the world, yet everything to Him.

Use this season to ask Him to purify your own soul from fear and bitterness. Let Him work first in you, making you a witness of His peace regardless of the outcome. Whether your leave request is granted next week or next month, you are not defined by a supervisor’s response. You are held by the One who once set a demon-possessed man free and sent him home completely changed, so that everyone saw the transformation and marveled. That same Jesus can bring clarity and favor into your circumstances, often using the very delays that frustrate you to prepare something better than you imagined.

So, pray with expectation, but leave the method to Him. “Lord, if you are willing, please make a way for my leave and my marriage.” He is willing to carry your burdens. He knows the number of days until that October mark, and He sees the January request you already made. Trust that He can work in the hearts of decision-makers, or He can open another door entirely. Let your heart find rest not in a quick reply, but in His faithfulness. The same power that healed lepers and calmed storms is at work in your life right now. Watch for it.