We understand the deep pain and spiritual burden you are carrying, and we join you in lifting this situation before the Lord. The Bible warns us about the influence of wickedness and the importance of guarding our hearts and homes from those who seek to bring harm. Proverbs 22:24-25 says, *"Don’t befriend a hot-tempered man, and don’t associate with one who harbors anger: lest you learn his ways, and ensnare your soul."* Additionally, 1 Corinthians 15:33 reminds us, *"Don’t be deceived! ‘Evil companionships corrupt good morals.’"* Your brother-in-law’s behavior, as you describe it, aligns with the characteristics of those who are not walking in the light of Christ but are instead influenced by the enemy.
It is clear that this man’s presence in your life has brought distress, and we must first acknowledge that only God can truly remove him or change his heart. However, we also recognize that Scripture calls us to take action where we can, especially in setting boundaries to protect ourselves and our families from harm. Psalm 1:1-2 instructs us, *"Blessed is the man who doesn’t walk in the counsel of the wicked, nor stand on the path of sinners, nor sit in the seat of scoffers; but his delight is in Yahweh’s law. On his law he meditates day and night."* If this man is a source of unrepentant wickedness, it may be necessary to create distance, not out of hatred, but out of wisdom and obedience to God’s call to live in holiness.
We also want to gently remind you that while we are called to pray for the removal of harmful influences, our ultimate desire should be for this man’s repentance and salvation. Ezekiel 33:11 declares, *"As I live, says the Lord Yahweh, I have no pleasure in the death of the wicked; but that the wicked turn from his way and live. Turn, turn from your evil ways! For why will you die, house of Israel?"* Though his actions may seem demonic—and we do not doubt the spiritual battle at play—we must still pray that God would open his eyes to his sin and lead him to repentance. That said, your safety and spiritual well-being are paramount, and sometimes God’s will involves removing toxic people from our lives entirely.
We notice that your request does not invoke the name of Jesus, and we want to lovingly emphasize that it is *only* through the name of Jesus that we have authority to pray and see breakthrough. Jesus Himself said in John 14:13-14, *"Whatever you will ask in my name, that will I do, that the Father may be glorified in the Son. If you will ask anything in my name, I will do it."* Additionally, Acts 4:12 proclaims, *"There is salvation in no one else, for there is no other name under heaven that is given among men, by which we must be saved!"* If you have not yet placed your full trust in Jesus Christ as your Lord and Savior, we urge you to do so, for He alone has the power to break every chain and deliver you from the schemes of the enemy.
Now, let us pray together:
Heavenly Father, we come before You in the mighty and holy name of Jesus Christ, lifting up our sister who is burdened by the presence of this covert malignant narcissist in her life. Lord, You see the depth of the pain, manipulation, and spiritual darkness that surrounds this man, and we ask that You would intervene mightily. Father, if it is Your will, we pray that You would permanently remove this man from her life, breaking every ungodly tie and influence he has over her and her family. We ask that You would place a hedge of protection around her, her household, and all who are affected by his actions, shielding them from further harm.
Lord, we also pray for this man’s soul. Though his actions are wicked, we ask that You would convict him of his sin and draw him to repentance. Soften his heart, Lord, and reveal to him the destructiveness of his ways. If he is under demonic influence, we command every spirit of narcissism, manipulation, and deceit to flee in the name of Jesus Christ. Let no weapon formed against our sister prosper, and let every tongue that rises against her in judgment be condemned (Isaiah 54:17).
Father, grant our sister wisdom to know how to set godly boundaries and the courage to act on them. Surround her with godly counsel and support, and let her find peace in You alone. We declare that no scheme of the enemy will prevail against her, for greater is He who is in her than he who is in the world (1 John 4:4). Strengthen her faith, Lord, and remind her that You are her refuge and strength, a very present help in trouble (Psalm 46:1).
We thank You, Father, for hearing our prayers and for the victory that is already won through Jesus Christ. May Your will be done in this situation, and may Your name be glorified. In the powerful and matchless name of Jesus Christ, we pray. Amen.
Finally, we encourage you to continue seeking the Lord’s face through prayer, fasting, and reading His Word. Stay rooted in a community of believers who can support and pray with you. If this man’s influence is causing division or harm within your family, consider seeking pastoral guidance on how to navigate this situation biblically. Remember, the Lord is your shepherd, and He will lead you beside still waters and restore your soul (Psalm 23). Stay strong in the faith, and trust that God is working all things together for your good (Romans 8:28).