Release from the bondage of this divorce and marriage

Hiartarurlaire

Disciple of Prayer
I’ve been going through a divorce since December 2024 so this is 10 months so far. The same woman and I have been married for 17 years and we were separated six years ago for 12 months as well. The whole legal process that I’ve went through and the temporary support that I’ve had to pay her for nearly 24 months of the last six years is not an easy task. I have no desire to reconcile this marriage and I just feel like the woman is purposely trapping me in the marriage to try to maybe punish me for my reactions to our life circumstances. I know that there’s been financial purposes of what could be leading her decisions as the temporary support has been very high in both cases and a minimum $10,000 or more a month she gets temporary support and the court finally just lowered that to a reasonable amount. More than anything just wanna move on with my life the separation affects my kids and me and the future of my life in the direction I’m wanting to head. We owe the IRS over a half $1 million and the longer she delays the more racket penalties and interest. We owe this money primarily from a time when I was embezzled on and a woman that managed my Payroll was not paying my payroll taxes both my spouse and I are responsible for this tax amount, and although she has tried to get out of it, it’s amazing as she tries to get out of all the debts, but wants half of the assets if not more. I also have a business that I’ve worked so hard for and it’s an enormous difficulty to go through this many months of being separated and try to run a business and keep your staff positive, especially those that are close to you that he must have access to to help with such a legal proceeding. I don’t doubt that I’ve learned much from all of this personally and I am not angry with her I don’t think and hold no resentment. I just want to be done with it and be over and move on with my life. I pray for God’s protection over this situation and I pray that he protect everything that I’ve ever worked for and all equal equities, and how they should be distributed in a fair manner without manipulation. The woman wants to get her alimony and now suddenly I own half of my business it’s just not the way the system works. I’ve owned the business independently for 17 years and I know that the courts and honorable mediators and judges know how to rule in ways and such matters mediation would be the quickest resolution to this situation And I would prefer to try to get her to agree with me with terms without attorneys because the attorney fees that she has so far equal over $50,000. To me there’s just so many things that are out of bounds with the circumstance but more than anything. I just want to move on with my life I do And I pray for an honest fair team to be surrounded by me. I also have not been very happy with some of the ways in which my current attorney is operating I appreciate all of your prayers and reading my words. - ###
 
We hear the deep weariness and longing in your heart for freedom from this prolonged divorce, and we join you in lifting this burden before the Lord. The weight of financial strain, legal battles, and the emotional toll of this season is immense, and we know God sees your pain. Yet, we must first address something critical: your prayer does not invoke the name of Jesus Christ, through whom alone we have access to the Father. The Scriptures are clear—*"There is salvation in no one else, for there is no other name under heaven that is given among men, by which we must be saved!"* (Acts 4:12, WEB). It is only through Jesus that we can boldly approach the throne of grace (Hebrews 4:16), and it is in His name that we pray with authority. Without calling upon Him, our prayers lack the power and alignment with God’s will that we desperately need. We urge you to surrender this entire situation to *Jesus Christ*, trusting Him as Lord over every detail—your finances, your business, your children, and your future.

The bitterness of this divorce is compounded by the injustice you describe—financial manipulation, delayed resolutions, and the threat to what you’ve built. Yet Scripture warns us not to let anger or resentment take root, even when wronged. *"Be angry, and don’t sin. Don’t let the sun go down on your wrath, and don’t give place to the devil"* (Ephesians 4:26-27, WEB). You’ve expressed that you hold no resentment, and we commend that posture, for unforgiveness only binds *us*, not the offender. However, we must also examine whether there is any unconfessed sin in your own heart—whether in past reactions, business dealings, or marital failures—that may be giving the enemy a foothold. *"Examine yourselves, whether you are in the faith. Test your own selves"* (2 Corinthians 13:5, WEB). Repentance and humility before God open the door for His deliverance.

Regarding your marriage, you’ve made it clear you do not desire reconciliation, and we acknowledge the brokenness that has led to this point. Marriage is a covenant before God, and divorce is a painful consequence of sin’s destruction (Malachi 2:16). Yet even in this, God’s grace is sufficient. Your focus now must be on honoring Him in the dissolution process—seeking fairness, avoiding bitterness, and protecting your children from further harm. *"Fathers, don’t provoke your children to anger, but nurture them in the discipline and instruction of the Lord"* (Ephesians 6:4, WEB). Your kids need to see Christ’s love and integrity in you, even amid this storm.

The financial burdens you carry—the IRS debt, legal fees, and your wife’s demands—are overwhelming, but remember: *"My God will supply every need of yours according to his riches in glory in Christ Jesus"* (Philippians 4:19, WEB). This is not a promise of easy resolution, but of *divine provision*. We pray that God would expose any dishonesty in the legal process, that He would give you wisdom to navigate mediation without further exploitation, and that He would provide a godly, competent attorney if needed. *"The lot is cast into the lap, but its every decision is from Yahweh"* (Proverbs 16:33, WEB). Trust that God is sovereign over judges, mediators, and even your wife’s heart.

As for your business, we pray for protection over what you’ve built. *"Unless Yahweh builds the house, they who build it labor in vain"* (Psalm 127:1, WEB). Ask God to guard your staff from division, your reputation from slander, and your work from sabotage. If your wife is seeking an unjust share, pray that truth would prevail—*"The Lord detests differing weights, and dishonest scales are not pleasing to him"* (Proverbs 20:23, WEB).

Finally, brother, we sense a deep weariness in your spirit. You long to *"move on with your life,"* and we pray that God would renew your strength as you wait on Him (Isaiah 40:31). But be cautious: moving on *without* God’s healing and direction can lead to further bondage. Now is the time to draw near to Him, to seek His face in repentance and surrender. *"Humble yourselves therefore under the mighty hand of God, that he may exalt you in due time; casting all your worries on him, because he cares for you"* (1 Peter 5:6-7, WEB).

**Let us pray together:**

Heavenly Father, we come before You in the mighty name of *Jesus Christ*, lifting up our brother who is trapped in the snare of this divorce. Lord, You see the injustice, the financial oppression, and the emotional exhaustion he carries. We ask for Your supernatural intervention—break every chain of delay, expose every scheme of the enemy, and bring a swift and *fair* resolution to this divorce. Protect his business, his finances, and his children from further harm. Give him wisdom beyond his own understanding as he navigates mediation and legal battles. Father, if there is any sin in his heart—unconfessed anger, pride, or bitterness—reveal it and cleanse him by the blood of Jesus. Surround him with godly counsel, not greedy attorneys, and let Your justice prevail.

Lord, we rebuke the spirit of manipulation and greed operating through his wife. Soften her heart or remove her influence if she refuses to act justly. Provide for every financial need, even the IRS debt, in ways that surpass human logic. Restore what the locusts have eaten (Joel 2:25) and guard his future from further attacks.

Most of all, Father, draw him closer to You in this desert. Let him not rush ahead of Your timing, but find his peace and identity in *You alone*. Renew his strength, his hope, and his faith. May this trial produce in him a testimony of Your faithfulness.

We declare *freedom* from this bondage in Jesus’ name. No weapon formed against him shall prosper (Isaiah 54:17). Let Your will be done, Lord—not his, not his wife’s, but *Yours*. We trust You to redeem this story for Your glory.

In the powerful name of *Jesus Christ*, our Savior and Redeemer, we pray. **Amen.**

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Brother, we encourage you to immerse yourself in Scripture daily, especially Psalms of deliverance (e.g., Psalm 34, 37, 91) and the promises of God’s provision (Matthew 6:25-34). Fast and pray for breakthrough. And if you haven’t already, seek a *biblically sound* church community or men’s group to stand with you in this fight. You are not alone—*"The Lord is near to those who have a broken heart, and saves those who have a crushed spirit"* (Psalm 34:18, WEB). Stand firm. The battle is the Lord’s.
 
We're right there with you, brother. We can feel the weight of this divorce, the financial strain, and the emotional toll it's taking on you and your kids. We understand that you just want to move on with your life, and we're praying for that freedom for you.

First, let's claim the promise in Matthew 11:28-29, "Come to me, all you who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest. Take my yoke upon you and learn from me, for I am gentle and humble in heart, and you will find rest for your souls." Jesus sees your weariness, and He wants to give you rest.

Now, let's pray together:

"Dear Heavenly Father, we come to You in Jesus' name, asking for Your intervention in this situation. Lord, You see the injustice, the financial oppression, and the emotional exhaustion our ### is going through. We ask for Your supernatural intervention. Break every chain of delay, expose every scheme of the enemy, and bring a swift and fair resolution to this divorce.

Protect his business, his finances, and his children from further harm. Give him wisdom beyond his own understanding as he navigates mediation and legal battles. Father, if there's any sin in his heart - unconfessed anger, pride, or bitterness - reveal it and cleanse him by the blood of Jesus. Surround him with godly counsel, not greedy attorneys, and let Your justice prevail.

Lord, we rebuke the spirit of manipulation and greed operating through his wife. Soften her heart or remove her influence if she refuses to act justly. Provide for every financial need, even the IRS debt, in ways that surpass human logic. Restore what the locusts have eaten and guard his future from further attacks.

Most importantly, Father, draw him closer to You in this desert. Let him not rush ahead of Your timing, but find his peace and identity in You alone. Renew his strength, his hope, and his faith. May this trial produce in him a testimony of Your faithfulness.

In Jesus' name, we declare freedom from this bondage. No weapon formed against him shall prosper. Let Your will be done, Lord - not his, not his wife's, but Yours. We trust You to redeem this story for Your glory.

Amen."
 
I prayed that God in Jesus' name will answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. God Loves You. Thank You Jesus!!!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.


🙏Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the love, grace, and knowledge of Christ Jesus. God bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, Your righteousness, and to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.

God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so
. Prayer written by The Encourager-Prayer Warrior-Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach. www.theencourager.net

Healed Spirit Soul And Body

 
Lord Jesus please richly bless, protect and guide them. Please help them in accordance with your perfect will Father. Thank you and praise you. In your holy name I pray. Amen.
 
Lord, we pray for this prayer and family for blessings healing and salvation. Heal and bless. May their lives be a praise and glory unto thee.
Come to the Lord's holy presence. Seek him with all your heart. Cling to his Word and meditate on it moment by moment by positive thoughts and joy in the heart (James 1:2-4), knowing that the Lord is good and to him be all the praise. Seek first God's kingdom and his righteousness (Matthew 6:33). Even though life may feel hard, the Lord's hand will be on you, and he will answer in his time. I am praying for you. Amen.

Some resources that might help.

Needs: - But my God shall supply all your need according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19(KJV)

Salvation: - So they said "Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ and you will be saved you and your household." Acts 16:31(NKJV)

Healing: - But He was wounded for our transgressions, He was bruised for our iniquities; The chastisement for our peace was upon Him, And by His stripes we are healed. Isaiah 53:5(NKJV)

Fulfillment by the Holy Spirit: - Then he answered and spake unto me, saying, This is the word of the LORD unto Zerubbabel, saying, Not by might, nor by power, but by my spirit, saith the LORD of hosts. Zechariah 4:6(KJV)

Persecutions: - But I say unto you which hear, Love your enemies, do good to them which hate you, Bless them that curse you, and pray for them which despitefully use you. Luke 6:27-28(KJV)

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Dwelling and Thriving in God’s grace where everything happens for good (Romans 8:28)

Pray that the Lord may open the eyes of the nations affected by coronavirus (Specifically forces against God’s people)

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