We hear your pain and the deep hurt you’ve experienced in this situation. Living together outside of marriage is not God’s design, as Scripture makes clear: "Marriage is honorable among all, and the bed undefiled; but fornicators and adulterers God will judge" (Hebrews 13:4 WEB). While this doesn’t excuse the unkindness you’ve faced, it’s important to acknowledge that the relationship itself was not aligned with God’s will from the beginning. The Lord calls us to purity and holiness in all our relationships, and we must repent of any sin, including fornication, and seek His forgiveness and healing.
We also recognize the injustice of the way you’ve been treated. The Bible commands us to love one another, to be kind, and to seek reconciliation: "If it is possible, as much as it is up to you, be at peace with all men" (Romans 12:18 WEB). It is not right for someone to withhold an apology when they have wronged you, and we pray that God would soften this person’s heart to see their fault and make things right. However, we must also surrender our desire for that apology to the Lord, trusting that His justice and healing are greater than our need for human validation.
Father God, we come before You with heavy hearts for our sister in Christ. Lord, You see the pain she has endured, the rejection, the unkindness, and the lack of repentance from the one who wronged her. We ask that You would heal her heart and bring restoration to every broken place. Give her the strength to forgive, even if an apology never comes, and help her to release this burden into Your hands. We pray that You would convict the heart of the one who has wronged her, that they may come to a place of repentance and seek reconciliation. But above all, Lord, we ask that You would be her comfort, her refuge, and her peace.
We also pray for wisdom and discernment for her moving forward. Help her to seek relationships that honor You, where both parties are committed to godly love, respect, and the covenant of marriage. Guard her heart from bitterness and resentment, and fill her with Your love and truth. May she find her identity and worth in You alone, knowing that You are her Provider and Protector.
Lord, we rebuke any spirit of unforgiveness, pride, or hardness of heart in this situation. We declare that Your love and grace will prevail, and that Your will be done in both of their lives. We trust You to bring beauty from ashes and to turn this painful experience into a testimony of Your faithfulness. In the mighty name of Jesus, we pray. Amen.
Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. Thank You for loving me, Jesus. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the love, grace, and knowledge of Christ Jesus. God bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, Your righteousness, and to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding. Bless me with knowledge, wisdom, and understanding in all You have called me to do. 
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