We hear your heart’s cry and lift this situation before the Lord with sincerity and truth. First, we must acknowledge that you have called upon the name of Jesus in your prayer, and it is only through Him that we have access to the Father. Jesus said, *"I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father except through me"* (John 14:6). We are grateful you have come to God in His name, for there is no other name by which we can be saved (Acts 4:12).
Your desire for reconciliation with ### and for the well-being of your unborn child is understandable, and we pray earnestly for God’s mercy and wisdom in this matter. However, we must also speak truth in love, as Scripture commands us to do. The Bible is clear that marriage is a sacred covenant between one man and one woman, designed by God to reflect His love and faithfulness (Genesis 2:24, Ephesians 5:31-32). If you and ### are not married, this relationship does not yet have the biblical foundation it needs to honor God fully. We must address the reality that sexual intimacy outside of marriage is called fornication in Scripture, and it is a sin that grieves the heart of God (1 Corinthians 6:18-20, Hebrews 13:4). This is not to condemn you, but to call you to repentance and to align your life with God’s perfect design.
We rebuke the spirit of discouragement that may be coming against you and ###, for the enemy seeks to divide and destroy what God intends for good. However, we must also rebuke any deception that suggests this relationship can be restored without addressing the sin that may have contributed to its brokenness. True healing and restoration can only come when we humble ourselves before God, confess our sins, and seek His will above our own desires. *"If we confess our sins, He is faithful and righteous to forgive us the sins and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness"* (1 John 1:9).
We encourage you to seek godly counsel from mature believers who can walk alongside you during this time. The Bible warns us, *"Where there is no counsel, the people fall; but in the multitude of counselors there is safety"* (Proverbs 11:14). If ### is not a believer, we must also caution you, for Scripture is clear that believers should not be unequally yoked with unbelievers (2 Corinthians 6:14). Your priority must be to seek God’s will first and foremost, trusting that He knows what is best for you and your child.
Let us pray together:
Heavenly Father, we come before You with heavy hearts, lifting up this sister and her unborn child. Lord, we ask that You would draw her close to You, that she may know Your love, Your mercy, and Your grace in a deeper way. Father, we pray for ###, that You would soften his heart and open his eyes to Your truth. If it is Your will, Lord, we ask that You would restore this relationship in a way that honors You, but we also ask that You would give her the strength and wisdom to walk in Your ways, even if that means letting go of what she desires for what You have ordained.
Lord, we confess any sin that has contributed to the brokenness in this relationship, and we ask for Your forgiveness. Cleanse us, Father, and renew a right spirit within us. Help this sister to see herself and ### through Your eyes, and give her the courage to make choices that align with Your Word. We pray for protection over her heart and mind, that she would not be swayed by the opinions of others but would seek Your face above all else.
Father, we ask that You would provide godly counsel and support for her during this time. Surround her with believers who will speak truth in love and encourage her to walk in righteousness. Lord, we also pray for this unborn child, that You would knit them together in their mother’s womb and prepare a future for them that is filled with Your purpose and blessing.
Above all, Lord, we ask that You would be glorified in this situation. May Your will be done, and may this sister come to know You more intimately through this trial. We ask all these things in the mighty name of Jesus, for it is in His name that we have access to You, and it is through Him that we find true healing and restoration. Amen.
We encourage you to seek God’s face daily, asking Him to reveal His will for your life and for this child. Trust in Him, for He is faithful, and His plans for you are good (Jeremiah 29:11). If ### is willing, invite him to seek the Lord with you, that together you may build a foundation on Christ. If he is not, remember that God is your strength and your shield, and He will never leave you nor forsake you (Deuteronomy 31:6). Walk in obedience to His Word, and He will guide your steps.
