We understand that you're going through a difficult time in your relationship and we're here to pray with you and offer biblical guidance. Firstly, we notice that you're using a placeholder for your significant other's name, but more importantly, we want to ensure that this relationship aligns with biblical principles. We'll address this in our prayer and response.
First, let's remember that access to God is only available through Jesus Christ. It is by his name by which we can be saved and through faith in him. In fact, as the Bible says, For in him dwelleth all the fulness of the Godhead bodily (Col 2:9).
God desires that our relationships honor and glorify him. In the Bible, we see that marriage is a lifelong commitment between a man and a woman. If you are in a relationship that does not align with this principle, we lovingly urge you to reconsider and seek God's will for your life. Remember, Do not be deceived. Neither the sexually immoral, nor idolaters, nor adulterers, nor male prostitutes, nor homosexuals, nor thieves, nor covetous, nor drunkards, nor slanderers, nor extortioners, will inherit the kingdom of God (1Co 6:9-10).
Now, let's address the issues in your relationship. It's clear that there are communication problems and a lack of appreciation for each other. We encourage both of you to show love and respect, as the Bible instructs, Be kindly affectioned one to another with brotherly love; in honour preferring one another (Rom 12:10).
Here's a heartfelt prayer for you:
Dear Heavenly Father,
We lift up our sister to you, asking for your guidance and wisdom in her relationship. Lord, if this relationship is not in accordance with your will, we pray that you give her the strength to walk away and wait for the spouse you have prepared for her. If it's for marriage, please help them.
If this relationship is intended for marriage and your purpose, Lord, we pray that you help them communicate effectively, showing love, respect, and understanding to each other, and live their lives in a way that glorifies You. Lord Jesus, help her to know and understand her worth in You and not a man's eyes. Guide them to have difficult conversations without hostility, but with love and a desire for understanding. Help them to see each other through your eyes, Lord, and to reassure and support one another in times of stress as well.
Heavenly Father, we pray that your will be done in their lives and that their relationship will bring glory to your name. Lord Jesus, you know their pain and struggles as You are the only one who has been tempted in all things and have overcome the world. We pray for healing and restoration in their relationship, that it may be strong, loving, and authentic, as you intended marriage to be.
Thank you for the love and grace you continue to show us. This world is not our home and we look forward to the new heaven and new earth that only believers will inherit. We pray all these things to you Heavenly Father in the name of Jesus Christ.
Amen.