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Disciple of Prayer
I've been dating my partner for a while now but things are not going well. Anytime I feel like living and pray about it, it's like the Lord is asking me to stay. I need someone else to pray about it for me.
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We understand that you're going through a challenging time in your relationship and we're here to pray with you and provide biblical guidance. First, let's address your current situation. You mentioned that you've been dating your partner for a while, but things are not going well. We need to consider what God's Word says about relationships.
The Bible teaches that our ultimate goal in any relationship should be to glorify God and grow in our likeness to Christ. "But among you, as is proper among the saints, there must not be even a hint of sexual immorality, or of any kind of impurity, or of greed, because these are improper for God's holy people." Ephesians 5:3. Sexual immorality includes sex before marriage and any other sexual relationship outside of a marriage between a man and a woman.
Since you've been dating for a while, we want to encourage you to consider the purpose of your relationship. Dating or courtship should be a time to discern whether you both are suitable for and marriagable to each other, not just a boyfriend or girlfriend relationship with no end in sight. If your relationship is not aligned with God's principles, it might be causing the turmoil you're experiencing. God is a just and holy God and we are called to be holy as He is.
Regarding your prayers, it's important to remember that God speaks to us through His Word, and He wants us to use wisdom and discernment in our lives. If you feel that God is asking you to stay in the relationship, we encourage you to seek His will through His Word, making sure that the relationship aligns with His principles.
"If any of you lacks wisdom, let him ask of God, who gives to all liberally and without reproach, and it will be given to him. But let him ask in faith, with no doubting, for he who doubts is like a wave of the sea driven with the wind and tossed." James 1:5-6
"Do not be unequally yoked with unbelievers. For what fellowship has righteousness with lawlessness? And what communion has light with darkness?" 2 Corinthians 6:14
"Therefore, my beloved, flee from idolatry." 1 Corinthians 10:14
Now, let's pray together:
Heavenly Father, we come before You in the name of Jesus Christ, lifting up our dear friend who is seeking Your will for their relationship. Lord, grant them the wisdom and discernment they need to understand Your purpose for their life and for this relationship. Help them to see if this relationship is aligned with Your principles and if it's Your will for them to stay. Guide them through Your Word and give them the strength to follow Your path, even if it's difficult. Help them to make decisions that glorify and honor You and bless their lives. In Jesus name, we pray for Your guidance and strength for our friend who is struggling with their relationship.
We encourage you to continue praying and seeking God's will for your life.
Lastly, nowhere in your request did we see a reference to Jesus Christ, Jesus, Christ, or any variation such as IJN. In the Bible, Jesus said "I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father except through Me" John 14:6. Before we can have access to God, we must believe in Jesus Christ and His message of Salvation. Make sure to seek Jesus and include Him in your prayers.
The Bible teaches that our ultimate goal in any relationship should be to glorify God and grow in our likeness to Christ. "But among you, as is proper among the saints, there must not be even a hint of sexual immorality, or of any kind of impurity, or of greed, because these are improper for God's holy people." Ephesians 5:3. Sexual immorality includes sex before marriage and any other sexual relationship outside of a marriage between a man and a woman.
Since you've been dating for a while, we want to encourage you to consider the purpose of your relationship. Dating or courtship should be a time to discern whether you both are suitable for and marriagable to each other, not just a boyfriend or girlfriend relationship with no end in sight. If your relationship is not aligned with God's principles, it might be causing the turmoil you're experiencing. God is a just and holy God and we are called to be holy as He is.
Regarding your prayers, it's important to remember that God speaks to us through His Word, and He wants us to use wisdom and discernment in our lives. If you feel that God is asking you to stay in the relationship, we encourage you to seek His will through His Word, making sure that the relationship aligns with His principles.
"If any of you lacks wisdom, let him ask of God, who gives to all liberally and without reproach, and it will be given to him. But let him ask in faith, with no doubting, for he who doubts is like a wave of the sea driven with the wind and tossed." James 1:5-6
"Do not be unequally yoked with unbelievers. For what fellowship has righteousness with lawlessness? And what communion has light with darkness?" 2 Corinthians 6:14
"Therefore, my beloved, flee from idolatry." 1 Corinthians 10:14
Now, let's pray together:
Heavenly Father, we come before You in the name of Jesus Christ, lifting up our dear friend who is seeking Your will for their relationship. Lord, grant them the wisdom and discernment they need to understand Your purpose for their life and for this relationship. Help them to see if this relationship is aligned with Your principles and if it's Your will for them to stay. Guide them through Your Word and give them the strength to follow Your path, even if it's difficult. Help them to make decisions that glorify and honor You and bless their lives. In Jesus name, we pray for Your guidance and strength for our friend who is struggling with their relationship.
We encourage you to continue praying and seeking God's will for your life.
Lastly, nowhere in your request did we see a reference to Jesus Christ, Jesus, Christ, or any variation such as IJN. In the Bible, Jesus said "I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father except through Me" John 14:6. Before we can have access to God, we must believe in Jesus Christ and His message of Salvation. Make sure to seek Jesus and include Him in your prayers.
We're here for you, too. It's tough when things aren't going well in a relationship, but remember, God is always there, ready to guide and comfort you. We've been praying for you, asking God to give you clarity and wisdom. We know it's hard, but trust that God has a purpose in all this.
We've been thinking about something else from the Bible that might help. In Matthew 11:28-29, Jesus says, "Come to me, all you who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest. Take my yoke upon you and learn from me, for I am gentle and humble in heart, and you will find rest for your souls." Jesus is inviting you to come to Him, to find rest and strength in Him. Maybe it's time to take a step back, spend some time with Jesus, and let Him speak to your heart.
We'll keep praying for you, asking God to give you peace and wisdom. And remember, we're here for you, always. Let's keep trusting in God, one step at a time. In Jesus' name, we pray.
We've been thinking about something else from the Bible that might help. In Matthew 11:28-29, Jesus says, "Come to me, all you who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest. Take my yoke upon you and learn from me, for I am gentle and humble in heart, and you will find rest for your souls." Jesus is inviting you to come to Him, to find rest and strength in Him. Maybe it's time to take a step back, spend some time with Jesus, and let Him speak to your heart.
We'll keep praying for you, asking God to give you peace and wisdom. And remember, we're here for you, always. Let's keep trusting in God, one step at a time. In Jesus' name, we pray.
Cinu
Beloved of All
Lord, we pray for this prayer and family for blessings healing and salvation. Heal and bless. May their lives be a praise and glory unto thee.
Come to the Lord's holy presence. Seek him with all your heart. Cling to his Word and meditate on it moment by moment by positive thoughts and joy in the heart (James 1:2-4), knowing that the Lord is good and to him be all the praise. Seek first God's kingdom and his righteousness (Matthew 6:33). Even though life may feel hard, the Lord's hand will be on you, and he will answer in his time. I am praying for you. Amen.
Some resources that might help.
Needs: - But my God shall supply all your need according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19(KJV)
Salvation: - So they said "Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ and you will be saved you and your household." Acts 16:31(NKJV)
Healing: - But He was wounded for our transgressions, He was bruised for our iniquities; The chastisement for our peace was upon Him, And by His stripes we are healed. Isaiah 53:5(NKJV)
Fulfillment by the Holy Spirit: - Then he answered and spake unto me, saying, This is the word of the LORD unto Zerubbabel, saying, Not by might, nor by power, but by my spirit, saith the LORD of hosts. Zechariah 4:6(KJV)
Persecutions: - But I say unto you which hear, Love your enemies, do good to them which hate you, Bless them that curse you, and pray for them which despitefully use you. Luke 6:27-28(KJV)
Help in Prayer
Dwelling and Thriving in God’s grace where everything happens for good (Romans 8:28)
Pray that the Lord may open the eyes of the nations affected by coronavirus (Specifically forces against God’s people)
sermons
Be a Prayer Warrior: “Praying for others”
Come to the Lord's holy presence. Seek him with all your heart. Cling to his Word and meditate on it moment by moment by positive thoughts and joy in the heart (James 1:2-4), knowing that the Lord is good and to him be all the praise. Seek first God's kingdom and his righteousness (Matthew 6:33). Even though life may feel hard, the Lord's hand will be on you, and he will answer in his time. I am praying for you. Amen.
Some resources that might help.
Needs: - But my God shall supply all your need according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19(KJV)
Salvation: - So they said "Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ and you will be saved you and your household." Acts 16:31(NKJV)
Healing: - But He was wounded for our transgressions, He was bruised for our iniquities; The chastisement for our peace was upon Him, And by His stripes we are healed. Isaiah 53:5(NKJV)
Fulfillment by the Holy Spirit: - Then he answered and spake unto me, saying, This is the word of the LORD unto Zerubbabel, saying, Not by might, nor by power, but by my spirit, saith the LORD of hosts. Zechariah 4:6(KJV)
Persecutions: - But I say unto you which hear, Love your enemies, do good to them which hate you, Bless them that curse you, and pray for them which despitefully use you. Luke 6:27-28(KJV)
Help in Prayer
Dwelling and Thriving in God’s grace where everything happens for good (Romans 8:28)
Pray that the Lord may open the eyes of the nations affected by coronavirus (Specifically forces against God’s people)
sermons
Be a Prayer Warrior: “Praying for others”
The Encourager
The Encourager
May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. Thank You Jesus!!!
Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.
Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the love, grace, and knowledge of Christ Jesus. God bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, Your righteousness, and to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.
God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by The Encourager-Prayer Warrior-Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach.
Your Future Is In God’s Hands
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Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.
Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the love, grace, and knowledge of Christ Jesus. God bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, Your righteousness, and to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by The Encourager-Prayer Warrior-Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach.
Your Future Is In God’s Hands
My Future Is In Your Hands
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Thank you for giving us the privilege to pray for your relationship and for the guidance that you need. We are truly honored that you asked us to stand in agreement with you in prayer. If you have seen improvements in your relationship or felt the Lord's guidance, please share a praise report with us all. If things are still unclear or you feel the Lord asking you to stay and continue praying, please post an update or a new request. Let us continue to intercede for you and your partner. May God bless you both and grant you wisdom and discernment as you continue to seek Him through His Son, Jesus Christ. We're praying that His will be done in your relationship and that you both will grow closer to Him, no matter the outcome. We're standing with you in prayer, trusting that God is working things out for your good and His glory.
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