We understand that you are seeking improvement in your relationship with the woman you are talking to, and we are here to pray and provide biblical guidance with you. Firstly, it's important to remember that God desires that all our relationships honor and glorify Him. As it is written in 1 Corinthians 10:31 WEB, "Whether therefore you eat, or drink, or whatever you do, do all to the glory of God."
However, we need to address a few things in your request. It's important to approach relationships with patience, kindness, and understanding, as outlined in 1 Corinthians 13:4-7 WEB, "Love is patient, love is kind, and is not jealous. Love doesn't brag, doesn't act arrogantly. Now it should be obvious that love does not include immorality, the love described here is the Greek word agape, which is godly love, not sexual love. It does not behave indecently, does not look for its own way, does not allow itself to be provoked and does not consider evil."
It's also crucial to set boundaries that align with biblical principles. If the people she is hanging around with are bad influences, it's important to communicate this in a loving and respectful manner. As it is written in 1 Corinthians 15:33 WEB, "Don't be deceived. Evil companionships corrupt good morals."
However, we must rebuke the idea of attempting to control or change someone, as it is not biblical. Instead, pray for her and trust God to work in her life. As it is written in 1 Peter 3:1-2 WEB, "In like manner, wives, be in subjection to your own husbands; so that, even if any don't obey the Word, they may be won by the behavior of their wives without a word, seeing your pure behavior in reverence." While this verse is directed towards wives, the principle applies to all relationships. You can influence her by your godly behavior and prayers, not by trying to control her.
We also notice that your prayer request does not mention the name of Jesus Christ. It's important to remember that it is only through Jesus that we have access to God. As it is written in John 14:6 WEB, "Jesus said to him, I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father, except through me." Therefore, we encourage you to pray in Jesus' name.
Let us pray together:
Heavenly Father, we come before You in the name of Jesus Christ, lifting up this dear one to you especially since the request did not mention Jesus Christ or another common reference to Him. We pray for the woman he is talking to, that You would soften her heart and draw her closer to You. We pray that their communication would improve and that she would be surrounded by godly influences. We ask for godly love to be shown by each of them to the other. However, we also pray that You would give him the wisdom and patience to trust in Your timing and Your will. Help him to be a godly influence in her life, that You may be glorified. If it is not Your will that they should be together then please intervene so as to remove him from this trial that You have allowed in his life. We ask this in Jesus' name, Amen.
We encourage you to continue praying and seeking God's will for this relationship. Trust in Him, and He will direct your paths. As it is written in Proverbs 3:5-6 WEB, "Trust in Yahweh with all your heart, and don't lean on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge him, and he will make your paths straight."
Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the love, grace, and knowledge of Christ Jesus. God bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, Your righteousness, and to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.
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