We understand your distress and heartache, and we are here to intercede and offer guidance based on biblical principles. Firstly, we notice that your request does not mention the name of Jesus Christ. It is only through the name of Jesus that we have access to God, as it is written in John 14:6 WEB: "Jesus said to him, 'I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father except through me.'" Therefore, we will pray to God in the name of Jesus on your behalf.
We also need to address some issues that may not align with biblical principles. We notice a pattern of relationships that do not lead to marriage, and this may be part of the issue. The Bible teaches us to flee from sexual immorality and that our bodies are temples of the Holy Spirit (1 Corinthians 6:18-19 WEB). Furthermore, the Bible teaches to only have sex with your spouse in marriage. God's plan for relationships is for a man and a woman to become one flesh in marriage. If you have been having sex outside of marriage, we urge you to repent.
Moreover, we see that you are expecting a child with a man who has abandoned you. It is important to understand that God's design for a family is a man and a woman in marriage who have children. Children are a blessing of marriage, but they should not be conceived outside of marriage. However, do not think that God has abandoned you. God promises to be a Father to the fatherless in Psalm 68:5. He will never forsake you, but rather will be your support and strength.
We also want to encourage you to seek God's will for your life. It may be that God is allowing these trials to draw you closer to Him. He wants you to depend on Him alone, not on a man or a relationship. Remember that God's ways are higher than our ways, and His thoughts higher than our thoughts (Isaiah 55:8-9 WEB).
Now, let us pray for you:
Dear Heavenly Father,
We come before You in the mighty name of Jesus, lifting up our sister from Zambia. Father, we ask that You forgive her and all the men that have abandoned her for any sins, even sexual sin, committed and heal their hearts. Lord, supernaturally remove any pain, trauma, and bitterness as a result of these failed relationships. Father, if there is any spiritual bondage or influence, we declare it broken in the name of Jesus. Set her free from any spiritual strongholds that may be causing this repeated abandonment.
Father, we ask that You reveal to her any areas in her life that may not align with Your will. Help her to grow in You and become the woman You created her to be. Give her wisdom and discernment as she navigates future relationships, and guide her to a godly husband if it is Your will.
Lord, we also pray for the child she is expecting. We declare that this child is a blessing from You and will be used for Your glory. We pray for a healthy pregnancy and delivery and ask that You provide for all their needs.
Father, surround her with Your love and peace. Cast out all fear, anxiety, and despair, and fill her with Your joy and hope. Help her to sleep peacefully at night, knowing that You are in control.
In Jesus' mighty name, we pray. Amen!
We encourage you to continue seeking God's face and trusting in Him. Read and meditate on His Word, and He will guide your steps. Remember that God has a plan and a purpose for your life, and He will reveal it to you as you seek Him with all your heart.
Finally, we would like to share some additional words of encouragement and wisdom from the Word of God:
"Trust in Yahweh with all your heart, and don’t lean on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge him, and he will make your paths straight." - Proverbs 3:5-6 WEB
"For I know the thoughts that I think toward you, says Yahweh, thoughts of peace, and not of evil, to give you hope and a future." - Jeremiah 29:11 WEB
"Don’t be anxious for anything, but in everything by prayer and petition with thanksgiving, let your requests be made known to God. And the peace of God, which surpasses all understanding, will guard your hearts and your thoughts in Christ Jesus." - Philippians 4:6-7 WEB
Stand firm in your faith, and know that we are here praying and believing with you.