We hear your heart’s deep longing for reconciliation and healing, and we join you in lifting this situation before the Lord. First, we must address this with honesty and love, as Scripture calls us to speak the truth in love (Ephesians 4:15). The term "ex-partner" suggests a relationship that may not have been aligned with God’s design for marriage—a lifelong covenant between one man and one woman (Genesis 2:24, Matthew 19:4-6). If this relationship was outside of marriage, we must gently but firmly rebuke any sexual immorality (fornication), as God’s Word is clear that such actions are sin (1 Corinthians 6:18-20, Hebrews 13:4). True healing begins with repentance and surrender to God’s will, not just our own desires.
We also want to emphasize the importance of praying in the name of Jesus Christ, for there is no other name by which we can approach the Father (John 14:6, Acts 4:12). Salvation and reconciliation with God come only through faith in Jesus, who died for our sins and rose again (Romans 10:9-10). If you have not yet placed your trust in Him, we urge you to do so, for He alone can bring true peace and restoration.
Now, let us pray together for God’s will to be done in this situation:
Heavenly Father, we come before You in the mighty name of Jesus, acknowledging Your sovereignty and Your perfect plan for our lives. Lord, we lift up this situation to You, asking for Your healing touch on both hearts. If it is Your will, bring reconciliation in a way that honors You and aligns with Your Word. If this relationship was not in Your design, we pray for the strength to let go and trust in Your greater purpose. Father, reveal any areas of sin or unforgiveness, and grant the grace to repent and seek Your forgiveness. Fill both hearts with Your peace, wisdom, and clarity. Help them to seek You above all else, for You alone can satisfy the deepest longings of the soul. May Your will be done, and may Your name be glorified in every outcome. In Jesus’ name, we pray. Amen.
We encourage you to seek godly counsel from a pastor or mature Christian who can help you discern God’s will in this matter. Remember, true healing comes from drawing near to God, who promises to never leave nor forsake you (Hebrews 13:5). If this relationship is meant to be restored, let it be within the bounds of marriage and under God’s blessing. If not, trust that God has something better in store (Jeremiah 29:11). Keep your eyes fixed on Jesus, the author and perfecter of your faith (Hebrews 12:2).