Haloidormir
Disciple of Prayer
For me and my ex husband to reconcile. I want my marriage back.
Reconciliation
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We hear your heart’s cry for reconciliation with your ex-husband, and we stand with you in seeking God’s will in this matter. Marriage is a sacred covenant designed by God to reflect His love and faithfulness, and it grieves Him when it is broken. We lift this situation before Him, asking for His healing, wisdom, and restoration—if it aligns with His perfect plan.
First, we must examine the circumstances that led to the separation. If there was unrepentant sin—such as adultery, abandonment, or ungodly influences—we must seek God’s truth and justice. The Bible is clear that marriage is a lifelong commitment, but it also calls us to holiness and accountability. If sin played a role in the dissolution of your marriage, we encourage you to seek repentance and forgiveness, both from God and from one another. "If we confess our sins, he is faithful and righteous to forgive us the sins, and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness" (1 John 1:9).
If your desire for reconciliation is rooted in love, humility, and a commitment to godly principles, we pray that God would soften both of your hearts. Reconciliation requires repentance, forgiveness, and a willingness to rebuild trust. It cannot be forced or rushed, but must be guided by the Holy Spirit. "Bear with one another, and forgive each other, if any man has a complaint against any; even as Christ forgave you, so you also do" (Colossians 3:13).
We also recognize that reconciliation is not always God’s will. If your ex-husband has remarried or is unwilling to honor the covenant you once shared, we must trust God’s sovereignty and seek His peace. In such cases, we pray for healing from the pain of loss and for God’s guidance in moving forward. "Trust in Yahweh with all your heart, and don’t lean on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge him, and he will direct your paths" (Proverbs 3:5-6).
Let us pray together:
Heavenly Father, we come before You with heavy hearts, seeking Your will for this marriage. Lord, You are the God of restoration, and we ask that You would mend what has been broken. Soften the hearts of both individuals, that they may seek You first and align their desires with Your Word. If reconciliation is Your will, Father, we pray for healing, forgiveness, and a renewed commitment to honor You in this marriage. If it is not Your will, we ask for Your peace to guard their hearts and for Your strength to guide them forward.
Lord, we rebuke any spirit of bitterness, pride, or unforgiveness that may hinder this process. We declare that Your love is greater than any pain or past mistakes. Help them to walk in humility, seeking Your wisdom and guidance in every step. May Your name be glorified in this situation, and may Your will be done.
We ask all these things in the mighty name of Jesus Christ, the One who reconciles us to You and to one another. Amen.
We encourage you to seek godly counsel from a pastor or trusted Christian mentor who can provide wisdom and accountability as you navigate this journey. Surround yourself with believers who will pray with you and speak truth into your life. Above all, draw near to God, for He is the ultimate source of healing and hope. "Draw near to God, and he will draw near to you" (James 4:8).
First, we must examine the circumstances that led to the separation. If there was unrepentant sin—such as adultery, abandonment, or ungodly influences—we must seek God’s truth and justice. The Bible is clear that marriage is a lifelong commitment, but it also calls us to holiness and accountability. If sin played a role in the dissolution of your marriage, we encourage you to seek repentance and forgiveness, both from God and from one another. "If we confess our sins, he is faithful and righteous to forgive us the sins, and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness" (1 John 1:9).
If your desire for reconciliation is rooted in love, humility, and a commitment to godly principles, we pray that God would soften both of your hearts. Reconciliation requires repentance, forgiveness, and a willingness to rebuild trust. It cannot be forced or rushed, but must be guided by the Holy Spirit. "Bear with one another, and forgive each other, if any man has a complaint against any; even as Christ forgave you, so you also do" (Colossians 3:13).
We also recognize that reconciliation is not always God’s will. If your ex-husband has remarried or is unwilling to honor the covenant you once shared, we must trust God’s sovereignty and seek His peace. In such cases, we pray for healing from the pain of loss and for God’s guidance in moving forward. "Trust in Yahweh with all your heart, and don’t lean on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge him, and he will direct your paths" (Proverbs 3:5-6).
Let us pray together:
Heavenly Father, we come before You with heavy hearts, seeking Your will for this marriage. Lord, You are the God of restoration, and we ask that You would mend what has been broken. Soften the hearts of both individuals, that they may seek You first and align their desires with Your Word. If reconciliation is Your will, Father, we pray for healing, forgiveness, and a renewed commitment to honor You in this marriage. If it is not Your will, we ask for Your peace to guard their hearts and for Your strength to guide them forward.
Lord, we rebuke any spirit of bitterness, pride, or unforgiveness that may hinder this process. We declare that Your love is greater than any pain or past mistakes. Help them to walk in humility, seeking Your wisdom and guidance in every step. May Your name be glorified in this situation, and may Your will be done.
We ask all these things in the mighty name of Jesus Christ, the One who reconciles us to You and to one another. Amen.
We encourage you to seek godly counsel from a pastor or trusted Christian mentor who can provide wisdom and accountability as you navigate this journey. Surround yourself with believers who will pray with you and speak truth into your life. Above all, draw near to God, for He is the ultimate source of healing and hope. "Draw near to God, and he will draw near to you" (James 4:8).
We're here with you, sister, as you long for reconciliation with your ex-husband. We understand the depth of your desire to see your marriage restored, and we're standing right beside you in prayer. It's true that God hates divorce (Malachi 2:16), and our hearts ache with yours for the sacred covenant of marriage to be mended.
First, let's seek God's truth in the circumstances that led to the separation. If there was sin involved, we must turn to Him for forgiveness and healing. "If we confess our sins, He is faithful and righteous to forgive us our sins and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness" (1 John 1:9). Remember, God is a God of second chances, and He's ready to meet you both where you are.
Now, let's ask God to soften both of your hearts. Reconciliation requires love, humility, and a commitment to godly principles. It's a process guided by the Holy Spirit, and it can't be rushed. We're praying for repentance, forgiveness, and a willingness to rebuild trust. "Bear with one another, and forgive each other, if any man has a complaint against any; even as Christ forgave you, so you also do" (Colossians 3:13).
We also know that God's will isn't always for reconciliation. If your ex-husband has remarried or is unwilling to honor the covenant you once shared, we must trust God's sovereignty. In such cases, we pray for healing from the pain of loss and for God's guidance in moving forward. "Trust in Yahweh with all your heart, and don't lean on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge Him, and He will direct your paths" (Proverbs 3:5-6).
Let's pray together:
"Dear Heavenly Father, we come before You with heavy hearts, seeking Your will for this marriage. Lord, You are the God of restoration, and we ask that You would mend what has been broken. Soften the hearts of both individuals, that they may seek You first and align their desires with Your Word. If reconciliation is Your will, Father, we pray for healing, forgiveness, and a renewed commitment to honor You in this marriage. If it is not Your will, we ask for Your peace to guard their hearts and for Your strength to guide them forward.
Lord, we rebuke any spirit of bitterness, pride, or unforgiveness that may hinder this process. We declare that Your love is greater than any pain or past mistakes. Help them to walk in humility, seeking Your wisdom and guidance in every step. May Your name be glorified in this situation, and may Your will be done.
We ask all these things in the mighty name of Jesus Christ, the One who reconciles us to You and to one another. Amen."
Keep seeking God's face, dear sister. Surround yourself with believers who will pray with you and speak truth into your life. And remember, "Draw near to God, and He will draw near to you" (James 4:8). We're here for you, every step of the way.
First, let's seek God's truth in the circumstances that led to the separation. If there was sin involved, we must turn to Him for forgiveness and healing. "If we confess our sins, He is faithful and righteous to forgive us our sins and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness" (1 John 1:9). Remember, God is a God of second chances, and He's ready to meet you both where you are.
Now, let's ask God to soften both of your hearts. Reconciliation requires love, humility, and a commitment to godly principles. It's a process guided by the Holy Spirit, and it can't be rushed. We're praying for repentance, forgiveness, and a willingness to rebuild trust. "Bear with one another, and forgive each other, if any man has a complaint against any; even as Christ forgave you, so you also do" (Colossians 3:13).
We also know that God's will isn't always for reconciliation. If your ex-husband has remarried or is unwilling to honor the covenant you once shared, we must trust God's sovereignty. In such cases, we pray for healing from the pain of loss and for God's guidance in moving forward. "Trust in Yahweh with all your heart, and don't lean on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge Him, and He will direct your paths" (Proverbs 3:5-6).
Let's pray together:
"Dear Heavenly Father, we come before You with heavy hearts, seeking Your will for this marriage. Lord, You are the God of restoration, and we ask that You would mend what has been broken. Soften the hearts of both individuals, that they may seek You first and align their desires with Your Word. If reconciliation is Your will, Father, we pray for healing, forgiveness, and a renewed commitment to honor You in this marriage. If it is not Your will, we ask for Your peace to guard their hearts and for Your strength to guide them forward.
Lord, we rebuke any spirit of bitterness, pride, or unforgiveness that may hinder this process. We declare that Your love is greater than any pain or past mistakes. Help them to walk in humility, seeking Your wisdom and guidance in every step. May Your name be glorified in this situation, and may Your will be done.
We ask all these things in the mighty name of Jesus Christ, the One who reconciles us to You and to one another. Amen."
Keep seeking God's face, dear sister. Surround yourself with believers who will pray with you and speak truth into your life. And remember, "Draw near to God, and He will draw near to you" (James 4:8). We're here for you, every step of the way.
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May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy.
Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.
Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the love, grace, and knowledge of Christ Jesus. God bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, Your righteousness, and to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.
God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by The Encourager-Prayer Warrior-Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach. www.theencourager.net
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Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.
Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the love, grace, and knowledge of Christ Jesus. God bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, Your righteousness, and to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by The Encourager-Prayer Warrior-Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach. www.theencourager.net
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We want to thank you for the privilege of standing with you in prayer for reconciliation with your ex-husband. It has been our heartfelt desire to lift this request before the Lord, asking Him to soften hearts, restore love, and mend what has been broken. We have prayed earnestly that God would work in both of your lives, drawing you closer to Him and to each other, if it be His will.
If the Lord has moved in this situation and you’ve seen His hand at work—whether through renewed communication, healing, or even the first steps toward reconciliation—we would be overjoyed to hear your praise report. Please share with us how God is answering this prayer so we can rejoice together in His faithfulness.
If, however, you haven’t yet seen the answer you’re hoping for, we encourage you to post this request again. We are committed to continuing in prayer with you, trusting that God hears and is at work even when we cannot yet see the outcome. His timing is perfect, and His plans for you are good.
May the Lord bless you with patience, peace, and unwavering faith as you seek Him through His Son, Jesus Christ. We pray that He would fill you with His hope and surround you with His love as you wait on Him. In Jesus’ Name, Amen.
If the Lord has moved in this situation and you’ve seen His hand at work—whether through renewed communication, healing, or even the first steps toward reconciliation—we would be overjoyed to hear your praise report. Please share with us how God is answering this prayer so we can rejoice together in His faithfulness.
If, however, you haven’t yet seen the answer you’re hoping for, we encourage you to post this request again. We are committed to continuing in prayer with you, trusting that God hears and is at work even when we cannot yet see the outcome. His timing is perfect, and His plans for you are good.
May the Lord bless you with patience, peace, and unwavering faith as you seek Him through His Son, Jesus Christ. We pray that He would fill you with His hope and surround you with His love as you wait on Him. In Jesus’ Name, Amen.
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