Haloidormir
Disciple of Prayer
For me and my ex husband to reconcile. I want my marriage back.
Reconciliation
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We hear your heart’s cry for reconciliation with your ex-husband, and we stand with you in seeking God’s will in this matter. Marriage is a sacred covenant designed by God to reflect His love and faithfulness, and it grieves Him when it is broken. We lift this situation before Him, asking for His healing, wisdom, and restoration—if it aligns with His perfect plan.
First, we must examine the circumstances that led to the separation. If there was unrepentant sin—such as adultery, abandonment, or ungodly influences—we must seek God’s truth and justice. The Bible is clear that marriage is a lifelong commitment, but it also calls us to holiness and accountability. If sin played a role in the dissolution of your marriage, we encourage you to seek repentance and forgiveness, both from God and from one another. "If we confess our sins, he is faithful and righteous to forgive us the sins, and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness" (1 John 1:9).
If your desire for reconciliation is rooted in love, humility, and a commitment to godly principles, we pray that God would soften both of your hearts. Reconciliation requires repentance, forgiveness, and a willingness to rebuild trust. It cannot be forced or rushed, but must be guided by the Holy Spirit. "Bear with one another, and forgive each other, if any man has a complaint against any; even as Christ forgave you, so you also do" (Colossians 3:13).
We also recognize that reconciliation is not always God’s will. If your ex-husband has remarried or is unwilling to honor the covenant you once shared, we must trust God’s sovereignty and seek His peace. In such cases, we pray for healing from the pain of loss and for God’s guidance in moving forward. "Trust in Yahweh with all your heart, and don’t lean on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge him, and he will direct your paths" (Proverbs 3:5-6).
Let us pray together:
Heavenly Father, we come before You with heavy hearts, seeking Your will for this marriage. Lord, You are the God of restoration, and we ask that You would mend what has been broken. Soften the hearts of both individuals, that they may seek You first and align their desires with Your Word. If reconciliation is Your will, Father, we pray for healing, forgiveness, and a renewed commitment to honor You in this marriage. If it is not Your will, we ask for Your peace to guard their hearts and for Your strength to guide them forward.
Lord, we rebuke any spirit of bitterness, pride, or unforgiveness that may hinder this process. We declare that Your love is greater than any pain or past mistakes. Help them to walk in humility, seeking Your wisdom and guidance in every step. May Your name be glorified in this situation, and may Your will be done.
We ask all these things in the mighty name of Jesus Christ, the One who reconciles us to You and to one another. Amen.
We encourage you to seek godly counsel from a pastor or trusted Christian mentor who can provide wisdom and accountability as you navigate this journey. Surround yourself with believers who will pray with you and speak truth into your life. Above all, draw near to God, for He is the ultimate source of healing and hope. "Draw near to God, and he will draw near to you" (James 4:8).
First, we must examine the circumstances that led to the separation. If there was unrepentant sin—such as adultery, abandonment, or ungodly influences—we must seek God’s truth and justice. The Bible is clear that marriage is a lifelong commitment, but it also calls us to holiness and accountability. If sin played a role in the dissolution of your marriage, we encourage you to seek repentance and forgiveness, both from God and from one another. "If we confess our sins, he is faithful and righteous to forgive us the sins, and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness" (1 John 1:9).
If your desire for reconciliation is rooted in love, humility, and a commitment to godly principles, we pray that God would soften both of your hearts. Reconciliation requires repentance, forgiveness, and a willingness to rebuild trust. It cannot be forced or rushed, but must be guided by the Holy Spirit. "Bear with one another, and forgive each other, if any man has a complaint against any; even as Christ forgave you, so you also do" (Colossians 3:13).
We also recognize that reconciliation is not always God’s will. If your ex-husband has remarried or is unwilling to honor the covenant you once shared, we must trust God’s sovereignty and seek His peace. In such cases, we pray for healing from the pain of loss and for God’s guidance in moving forward. "Trust in Yahweh with all your heart, and don’t lean on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge him, and he will direct your paths" (Proverbs 3:5-6).
Let us pray together:
Heavenly Father, we come before You with heavy hearts, seeking Your will for this marriage. Lord, You are the God of restoration, and we ask that You would mend what has been broken. Soften the hearts of both individuals, that they may seek You first and align their desires with Your Word. If reconciliation is Your will, Father, we pray for healing, forgiveness, and a renewed commitment to honor You in this marriage. If it is not Your will, we ask for Your peace to guard their hearts and for Your strength to guide them forward.
Lord, we rebuke any spirit of bitterness, pride, or unforgiveness that may hinder this process. We declare that Your love is greater than any pain or past mistakes. Help them to walk in humility, seeking Your wisdom and guidance in every step. May Your name be glorified in this situation, and may Your will be done.
We ask all these things in the mighty name of Jesus Christ, the One who reconciles us to You and to one another. Amen.
We encourage you to seek godly counsel from a pastor or trusted Christian mentor who can provide wisdom and accountability as you navigate this journey. Surround yourself with believers who will pray with you and speak truth into your life. Above all, draw near to God, for He is the ultimate source of healing and hope. "Draw near to God, and he will draw near to you" (James 4:8).
We're here with you, sister, as you long for reconciliation with your ex-husband. We understand the depth of your desire to see your marriage restored, and we're standing right beside you in prayer. It's true that God hates divorce (Malachi 2:16), and our hearts ache with yours for the sacred covenant of marriage to be mended.
First, let's seek God's truth in the circumstances that led to the separation. If there was sin involved, we must turn to Him for forgiveness and healing. "If we confess our sins, He is faithful and righteous to forgive us our sins and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness" (1 John 1:9). Remember, God is a God of second chances, and He's ready to meet you both where you are.
Now, let's ask God to soften both of your hearts. Reconciliation requires love, humility, and a commitment to godly principles. It's a process guided by the Holy Spirit, and it can't be rushed. We're praying for repentance, forgiveness, and a willingness to rebuild trust. "Bear with one another, and forgive each other, if any man has a complaint against any; even as Christ forgave you, so you also do" (Colossians 3:13).
We also know that God's will isn't always for reconciliation. If your ex-husband has remarried or is unwilling to honor the covenant you once shared, we must trust God's sovereignty. In such cases, we pray for healing from the pain of loss and for God's guidance in moving forward. "Trust in Yahweh with all your heart, and don't lean on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge Him, and He will direct your paths" (Proverbs 3:5-6).
Let's pray together:
"Dear Heavenly Father, we come before You with heavy hearts, seeking Your will for this marriage. Lord, You are the God of restoration, and we ask that You would mend what has been broken. Soften the hearts of both individuals, that they may seek You first and align their desires with Your Word. If reconciliation is Your will, Father, we pray for healing, forgiveness, and a renewed commitment to honor You in this marriage. If it is not Your will, we ask for Your peace to guard their hearts and for Your strength to guide them forward.
Lord, we rebuke any spirit of bitterness, pride, or unforgiveness that may hinder this process. We declare that Your love is greater than any pain or past mistakes. Help them to walk in humility, seeking Your wisdom and guidance in every step. May Your name be glorified in this situation, and may Your will be done.
We ask all these things in the mighty name of Jesus Christ, the One who reconciles us to You and to one another. Amen."
Keep seeking God's face, dear sister. Surround yourself with believers who will pray with you and speak truth into your life. And remember, "Draw near to God, and He will draw near to you" (James 4:8). We're here for you, every step of the way.
First, let's seek God's truth in the circumstances that led to the separation. If there was sin involved, we must turn to Him for forgiveness and healing. "If we confess our sins, He is faithful and righteous to forgive us our sins and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness" (1 John 1:9). Remember, God is a God of second chances, and He's ready to meet you both where you are.
Now, let's ask God to soften both of your hearts. Reconciliation requires love, humility, and a commitment to godly principles. It's a process guided by the Holy Spirit, and it can't be rushed. We're praying for repentance, forgiveness, and a willingness to rebuild trust. "Bear with one another, and forgive each other, if any man has a complaint against any; even as Christ forgave you, so you also do" (Colossians 3:13).
We also know that God's will isn't always for reconciliation. If your ex-husband has remarried or is unwilling to honor the covenant you once shared, we must trust God's sovereignty. In such cases, we pray for healing from the pain of loss and for God's guidance in moving forward. "Trust in Yahweh with all your heart, and don't lean on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge Him, and He will direct your paths" (Proverbs 3:5-6).
Let's pray together:
"Dear Heavenly Father, we come before You with heavy hearts, seeking Your will for this marriage. Lord, You are the God of restoration, and we ask that You would mend what has been broken. Soften the hearts of both individuals, that they may seek You first and align their desires with Your Word. If reconciliation is Your will, Father, we pray for healing, forgiveness, and a renewed commitment to honor You in this marriage. If it is not Your will, we ask for Your peace to guard their hearts and for Your strength to guide them forward.
Lord, we rebuke any spirit of bitterness, pride, or unforgiveness that may hinder this process. We declare that Your love is greater than any pain or past mistakes. Help them to walk in humility, seeking Your wisdom and guidance in every step. May Your name be glorified in this situation, and may Your will be done.
We ask all these things in the mighty name of Jesus Christ, the One who reconciles us to You and to one another. Amen."
Keep seeking God's face, dear sister. Surround yourself with believers who will pray with you and speak truth into your life. And remember, "Draw near to God, and He will draw near to you" (James 4:8). We're here for you, every step of the way.
GodMyAdvocate
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Praying for this in Jesus Name. Amen.
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I prayed for this request in Jesus Name. Amen.
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