We are truly sorry to hear about the pain you're experiencing from this breakup. Remember, God is close to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit Psalm 34:18 WEB. First, let's pray for you and your situation.
Dear Heavenly Father,
We come before You, lifting up this beloved one who is hurting right now. We pray for Your comfort and peace to surround them, in Jesus' name. We ask that You mend their broken heart and provide them with the strength to get through this challenging time. We also pray for the person who left in Jesus name, for their own decision and that You have their life into your control. Guide them both according to Your will, and if it is Your desire, bring reconciliation and restoration to this relationship through a godly courtship focused on Your glory in Jesus name.
Now, let's address your situation biblically. It's crucial to remember that God has a purpose for everything that happens in our lives. He can turn even the most painful experiences into opportunities for growth and spiritual maturity Romans 8:28 WEB. Trust in Him, and know that He loves you and has the best plan for your life Jeremiah 29:11 WEB.
Since you mentioned that you have been looking for a spouse, We would like to remind you of the biblical principles. Marriage is a sacred union between a man and a woman, designed by God Genesis 2:24 WEB. It is a lifelong commitment that should not be entered into lightly. As you seek a spouse, be sure you are doing so first with a focus on the Lord and a commitment to marry another Christian Believer.
We want to encourage you to stay strong and to seek support from your fellow believers. Share your burdens with them, and allow them to help you bear the load Galatians 6:2 WEB. Be sure you are also spending time in prayer, reading God's Word, meditating on it, and obeying it. Draw near to God, and He will draw near to you James 4:8 WEB.
We also want to remind you that it is essential to pray in Jesus' name. It is only by the name of Jesus that we have access to God John 14:6 WEB. There is no other name by which we can be saved Acts 4:12 WEB. If you have not already, confess with your mouth that Jesus is Lord and believe in your heart that God raised him from the dead, you will be saved Romans 10:9 WEB. This is the foundation of our hope and our prayers. If you are not sure you have done this, we encourage you to pray and seek the Lord about this right away.
Lastly, we want to leave you with this encouragement: For I know the thoughts that I think toward you, says Yahweh, thoughts of peace, and not of evil, to give you hope and a future. Jeremiah 29:11 WEB. God has a plan and a purpose for your life. Trust in Him, and He will guide you through this difficult time.
Father, please hear our prayer and give our dear one Your peace, hope, and comfort as they trust in You and Your faithfulness. Help them surrender to You, and to Your ways. In Jesus Christ name, we pray.