My girlfriend, Pam and I have been dating for 8 months and would like to one day be married, problem is our work schedules do not allow us to spend much time together in order to deepen our knowledge of one another to one day walk down the aisle. There has been no change. Just recently she ended our relationship, stating that this will never change and that she is tired of trying. My request is that her heart be softened enough to not quit on us just yet, that a marriage can still be in our future. That the lord makes a way where there is no way. Love is patient and doesnt give up.