Reconciliation in relationship
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We are deeply saddened to hear of the pain and heartbreak you are experiencing, and we want to lift you up in prayer and truth. First, we must address something critical—your request does not mention the name of Jesus Christ, and it is only through Him that we have access to the Father and the hope of reconciliation, healing, and salvation. The Bible declares in **John 14:6**, *"Jesus said to him, 'I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father, except through me.'"*) There is no other name under heaven by which we can be saved or find true peace (**Acts 4:12**). If you have not yet surrendered your life to Jesus Christ as your Lord and Savior, we urge you to do so now. He alone can heal your broken heart and give you eternal hope. Repent of your sins, believe in Him, and invite Him into your heart—this is the first step toward true restoration.
Now, regarding your marriage: we understand the devastation of being abandoned, especially when a wedding was planned. The Bible makes it clear that marriage is a sacred covenant before God, and abandonment by an unbelieving spouse is a grievous sin (**1 Corinthians 7:10-16**). However, we must also clarify that if your fiancé left you before the marriage was consummated, you were not yet married in God’s eyes. Engagement is a promise, but marriage is a lifelong covenant sealed by God (**Matthew 19:6**). If there was sexual immorality involved in your relationship before marriage, we urge you to repent, as fornication is a sin against God and your own body (**1 Corinthians 6:18-20**). True reconciliation can only happen when both parties are submitted to Christ and walking in obedience to His Word.
Your feelings of depression and suicidal thoughts are serious, and we want to speak life and truth over you. Satan is a liar and a thief who comes to steal, kill, and destroy (**John 10:10**), but Jesus came to give you life abundantly. Suicide is a permanent solution to a temporary problem, and it is not God’s will for you. The Bible says, *"Don’t you know that you are a temple of God and that God’s Spirit lives in you?"* (**1 Corinthians 3:16**). Your body belongs to Him, and He has a purpose for your life, even in this pain. Instead of giving in to despair, cry out to Jesus. **Psalm 34:18** says, *"Yahweh is near to those who have a broken heart and saves those who have a crushed spirit."* He sees your tears, and He cares deeply for you.
We also want to address any bitterness or unforgiveness in your heart. The Bible commands us to forgive others as Christ has forgiven us (**Colossians 3:13**). Holding onto resentment will only poison your soul and hinder your healing. Pray for your former fiancé—yes, even now. Ask God to soften their heart, to bring them to repentance, and to work in their life for His glory. If they are not a believer, pray for their salvation. If they are, pray for their restoration to faith and obedience. But most importantly, release them to God. Your trust must be in the Lord, not in this person or the hope of reconciliation apart from His will.
Now, let us pray for you:
Heavenly Father, we lift up this precious soul to You, knowing that You are the God who heals the brokenhearted and binds up their wounds (**Psalm 147:3**). Lord Jesus, we ask that You would draw near to this hurting brother/sister right now. Fill them with Your peace that surpasses all understanding (**Philippians 4:7**) and remind them that they are not abandoned—You will never leave them nor forsake them (**Hebrews 13:5**). Father, we rebuke the spirit of depression and suicide that is attacking them. Satan, we command you to flee in the name of Jesus Christ! You have no authority here. Holy Spirit, fill this beloved one with Your comfort and strength. Restore their joy and give them hope for the future.
Lord, we pray for wisdom and discernment. If this relationship was not honoring to You, reveal that to them. If there was sin involved, convict them and lead them to repentance. If this door is closed forever, help them to surrender it to You and trust in Your perfect plan. Father, if it is Your will for reconciliation, we ask that You would soften the heart of this fiancé and bring them back in a way that honors You. But above all, let Your will be done. Prepare this beloved one for the spouse You have for them, if that is Your plan, and let them walk in purity and faith until that day.
We also pray for godly community to surround them—believers who will encourage them, pray with them, and point them to You. Remove any ungodly influences or counsel that would lead them further from Your truth. Father, we ask that You would restore their faith and fill them with Your love. Let them know that their worth is found in You alone, not in another person’s approval or love.
Finally, Lord, we pray for their protection. Guard their mind from harmful thoughts and their heart from bitterness. Let them forgive as You have forgiven them. Give them the strength to move forward in You, one day at a time. We declare that You are their healer, their provider, and their hope. In the mighty name of Jesus Christ, our Lord and Savior, we pray. Amen.
Beloved, we encourage you to immerse yourself in God’s Word and in prayer. Read **Psalm 23**, **Psalm 37**, and **Jeremiah 29:11** to remind yourself of God’s promises. Seek out a Bible-believing church where you can find support and discipleship. If you are struggling with suicidal thoughts, please reach out to a trusted pastor or Christian counselor immediately—you are not meant to walk this path alone. God has not forgotten you. He is working all things together for your good, even when it feels impossible (**Romans 8:28**). Stay close to Him, and He will carry you through this storm.
Now, regarding your marriage: we understand the devastation of being abandoned, especially when a wedding was planned. The Bible makes it clear that marriage is a sacred covenant before God, and abandonment by an unbelieving spouse is a grievous sin (**1 Corinthians 7:10-16**). However, we must also clarify that if your fiancé left you before the marriage was consummated, you were not yet married in God’s eyes. Engagement is a promise, but marriage is a lifelong covenant sealed by God (**Matthew 19:6**). If there was sexual immorality involved in your relationship before marriage, we urge you to repent, as fornication is a sin against God and your own body (**1 Corinthians 6:18-20**). True reconciliation can only happen when both parties are submitted to Christ and walking in obedience to His Word.
Your feelings of depression and suicidal thoughts are serious, and we want to speak life and truth over you. Satan is a liar and a thief who comes to steal, kill, and destroy (**John 10:10**), but Jesus came to give you life abundantly. Suicide is a permanent solution to a temporary problem, and it is not God’s will for you. The Bible says, *"Don’t you know that you are a temple of God and that God’s Spirit lives in you?"* (**1 Corinthians 3:16**). Your body belongs to Him, and He has a purpose for your life, even in this pain. Instead of giving in to despair, cry out to Jesus. **Psalm 34:18** says, *"Yahweh is near to those who have a broken heart and saves those who have a crushed spirit."* He sees your tears, and He cares deeply for you.
We also want to address any bitterness or unforgiveness in your heart. The Bible commands us to forgive others as Christ has forgiven us (**Colossians 3:13**). Holding onto resentment will only poison your soul and hinder your healing. Pray for your former fiancé—yes, even now. Ask God to soften their heart, to bring them to repentance, and to work in their life for His glory. If they are not a believer, pray for their salvation. If they are, pray for their restoration to faith and obedience. But most importantly, release them to God. Your trust must be in the Lord, not in this person or the hope of reconciliation apart from His will.
Now, let us pray for you:
Heavenly Father, we lift up this precious soul to You, knowing that You are the God who heals the brokenhearted and binds up their wounds (**Psalm 147:3**). Lord Jesus, we ask that You would draw near to this hurting brother/sister right now. Fill them with Your peace that surpasses all understanding (**Philippians 4:7**) and remind them that they are not abandoned—You will never leave them nor forsake them (**Hebrews 13:5**). Father, we rebuke the spirit of depression and suicide that is attacking them. Satan, we command you to flee in the name of Jesus Christ! You have no authority here. Holy Spirit, fill this beloved one with Your comfort and strength. Restore their joy and give them hope for the future.
Lord, we pray for wisdom and discernment. If this relationship was not honoring to You, reveal that to them. If there was sin involved, convict them and lead them to repentance. If this door is closed forever, help them to surrender it to You and trust in Your perfect plan. Father, if it is Your will for reconciliation, we ask that You would soften the heart of this fiancé and bring them back in a way that honors You. But above all, let Your will be done. Prepare this beloved one for the spouse You have for them, if that is Your plan, and let them walk in purity and faith until that day.
We also pray for godly community to surround them—believers who will encourage them, pray with them, and point them to You. Remove any ungodly influences or counsel that would lead them further from Your truth. Father, we ask that You would restore their faith and fill them with Your love. Let them know that their worth is found in You alone, not in another person’s approval or love.
Finally, Lord, we pray for their protection. Guard their mind from harmful thoughts and their heart from bitterness. Let them forgive as You have forgiven them. Give them the strength to move forward in You, one day at a time. We declare that You are their healer, their provider, and their hope. In the mighty name of Jesus Christ, our Lord and Savior, we pray. Amen.
Beloved, we encourage you to immerse yourself in God’s Word and in prayer. Read **Psalm 23**, **Psalm 37**, and **Jeremiah 29:11** to remind yourself of God’s promises. Seek out a Bible-believing church where you can find support and discipleship. If you are struggling with suicidal thoughts, please reach out to a trusted pastor or Christian counselor immediately—you are not meant to walk this path alone. God has not forgotten you. He is working all things together for your good, even when it feels impossible (**Romans 8:28**). Stay close to Him, and He will carry you through this storm.
We're here with you, dear friend, feeling your pain and heartache. We're sorry to hear about the sudden departure of your fiancé and the depression and suicidal thoughts that have followed. We want you to know that you're not alone, and we're lifting you up in prayer.
First, we want to remind you that God sees you, He knows your pain, and He cares deeply about what you're going through. In Psalm 34:18, it says, "The Lord is close to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit." He is near, and He wants to save you from this darkness.
We also want to encourage you to pour out your heart to God in prayer. He can handle your raw emotions and He wants to hear from you. There's a song that says, "Cast your cares upon the Lord, for He cares for you." (1 Peter 5:7) He is a safe place for you to lay down your burdens.
As for your relationship, we understand that it's hard to accept that it's over. But remember, God has a plan for your life, and sometimes that plan involves closed doors. It's okay to grieve the loss of the relationship, but try not to let bitterness take root in your heart. Forgive your fiancé, not because what they did was okay, but because holding onto unforgiveness will only hurt you more.
We're praying for you, dear friend. We're asking God to fill you with His peace, to heal your broken heart, and to give you hope for the future. We're also praying for wisdom and discernment as you navigate this difficult time. And we're asking God to surround you with a loving and supportive community of believers.
Please reach out to a trusted pastor or Christian counselor if you're struggling with suicidal thoughts. You don't have to go through this alone. There is help and hope available.
Remember, God loves you. He has not forgotten you. He is working all things together for your good, even when it feels impossible. Stay close to Him, and He will carry you through this storm.
We're here for you, and we're praying for you. If you need someone to talk to, please don't hesitate to reach out. You are loved, and you are not alone.
First, we want to remind you that God sees you, He knows your pain, and He cares deeply about what you're going through. In Psalm 34:18, it says, "The Lord is close to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit." He is near, and He wants to save you from this darkness.
We also want to encourage you to pour out your heart to God in prayer. He can handle your raw emotions and He wants to hear from you. There's a song that says, "Cast your cares upon the Lord, for He cares for you." (1 Peter 5:7) He is a safe place for you to lay down your burdens.
As for your relationship, we understand that it's hard to accept that it's over. But remember, God has a plan for your life, and sometimes that plan involves closed doors. It's okay to grieve the loss of the relationship, but try not to let bitterness take root in your heart. Forgive your fiancé, not because what they did was okay, but because holding onto unforgiveness will only hurt you more.
We're praying for you, dear friend. We're asking God to fill you with His peace, to heal your broken heart, and to give you hope for the future. We're also praying for wisdom and discernment as you navigate this difficult time. And we're asking God to surround you with a loving and supportive community of believers.
Please reach out to a trusted pastor or Christian counselor if you're struggling with suicidal thoughts. You don't have to go through this alone. There is help and hope available.
Remember, God loves you. He has not forgotten you. He is working all things together for your good, even when it feels impossible. Stay close to Him, and He will carry you through this storm.
We're here for you, and we're praying for you. If you need someone to talk to, please don't hesitate to reach out. You are loved, and you are not alone.
The Encourager
The Encourager
I prayed that God in Jesus' name will answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. God Loves You. Thank You Jesus!!!
Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.
Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the love, grace, and knowledge of Christ Jesus. God bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, Your righteousness, and to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.
God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by The Encourager-Prayer Warrior-Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach.
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Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.
Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the love, grace, and knowledge of Christ Jesus. God bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, Your righteousness, and to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by The Encourager-Prayer Warrior-Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach.
Healed Spirit Soul And Body
Healed Spirit Soul And Body
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We want to thank you for allowing us the sacred privilege of lifting your heart before the Lord in this painful season. The betrayal and sudden loss you’re enduring cut deeply, and we have continued to pray for God’s comfort to wrap around you like a garment, guarding your heart against despair. The enemy would love nothing more than to isolate you in this grief, but we stand with you in the truth that Jesus is near to the brokenhearted and saves those crushed in spirit (Psalm 34:18).
We’ve been asking the Lord to restore what the locusts have eaten—whether that means reconciliation with your fiancé, if it aligns with His will, or a supernatural healing of your heart if this door has closed. We’ve also prayed for divine protection over your mind, that suicidal thoughts would be silenced by the hope of Christ, and that you’d feel His presence tangibly in the silence. You are not forgotten, and this pain is not the end of your story.
If God has begun to bring restoration or peace in ways you can see, we’d love to rejoice with you—please share a praise report so we can give Him glory together. If the weight still feels unbearable, know that we are here to keep interceding. Post an update, and we will continue to contend for you in prayer, believing for breakthrough.
In the meantime, we’re declaring Isaiah 61:3 over you—that He will give you beauty for ashes, the oil of joy for mourning, and a garment of praise for the spirit of heaviness. Cling to Him, even when it’s hard. He is faithful, and He is working, even now.
Praying for you still in Jesus’ name.
We’ve been asking the Lord to restore what the locusts have eaten—whether that means reconciliation with your fiancé, if it aligns with His will, or a supernatural healing of your heart if this door has closed. We’ve also prayed for divine protection over your mind, that suicidal thoughts would be silenced by the hope of Christ, and that you’d feel His presence tangibly in the silence. You are not forgotten, and this pain is not the end of your story.
If God has begun to bring restoration or peace in ways you can see, we’d love to rejoice with you—please share a praise report so we can give Him glory together. If the weight still feels unbearable, know that we are here to keep interceding. Post an update, and we will continue to contend for you in prayer, believing for breakthrough.
In the meantime, we’re declaring Isaiah 61:3 over you—that He will give you beauty for ashes, the oil of joy for mourning, and a garment of praise for the spirit of heaviness. Cling to Him, even when it’s hard. He is faithful, and He is working, even now.
Praying for you still in Jesus’ name.
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