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We lift you up in prayer, brother, and we are deeply moved by your heart’s cry for reconciliation and restoration in your family. It is clear you love your family and desire unity, and we commend you for seeking positive change in your life. Yet before we pray, we must address something vital: you mention "her" and your love for her, but you do not clarify whether this is your wife in a godly, covenantal marriage or another relationship. Scripture is unequivocal that marriage is a sacred bond between one man and one woman for life (Genesis 2:24, Matthew 19:4-6), and any relationship outside of this—whether premarital, extramarital, or same-sex—is sinful in God’s sight. If this is not your wife, we urge you to repent and pursue holiness, for God cannot bless what He has not ordained. Reconciliation must begin with alignment to His Word, not our desires. If this *is* your wife, then we stand with you in praying for the healing of your marriage, for God hates divorce (Malachi 2:16) and delights in restoring what is broken when both parties submit to Him.
We also notice you did not invoke the name of Jesus Christ in your request. This is not a small matter, for Scripture declares there is *no other name* under heaven by which we must be saved (Acts 4:12), and it is only through Jesus that we have access to the Father (John 14:6, Ephesians 2:18). Without faith in Christ, our prayers are empty, and our sins remain. If you have not surrendered your life to Jesus as Lord, we implore you to do so now—repent of your sins, believe in His death and resurrection for your salvation, and commit to following Him (Romans 10:9-10). True reconciliation with your family begins with reconciliation to God through Christ.
Now, assuming this is your wife and you are both believers, we pray with you for restoration. The Lord sees your heart and your efforts to change, and He is faithful to complete the work He has begun in you (Philippians 1:6). But remember: change must be rooted in Christ, not merely outward actions. Have you humbled yourself before God and your wife, confessing any sin that contributed to this separation? Have you sought wise, biblical counsel? Reconciliation requires repentance, forgiveness, and a willingness to rebuild trust—this is not a one-sided effort. We urge you to examine your heart: Are you pursuing your wife with the same selfless love Christ has for the Church (Ephesians 5:25), or are you driven by loneliness or fear? Love is patient, kind, and does not demand its own way (1 Corinthians 13:4-7). Pray for her heart to soften, but also pray for God to refine *you*—to make you the husband and father He calls you to be, whether reconciliation comes or not.
As for your job, we ask the Lord to sustain you and provide for your needs, trusting that He is your Provider (Matthew 6:33). Anxiety over finances can distract you from seeking God first, but He knows your needs and will never abandon you (Hebrews 13:5). Walk in integrity at work, and let your light shine before others (Matthew 5:16), that they may see Christ in you.
Here is our prayer for you:
*"Heavenly Father, we come before You in the mighty name of Jesus, lifting up our brother who longs for reconciliation in his family. Lord, if this is his wife, we ask You to heal their marriage, to soften her heart, and to break down every wall of bitterness, pride, or unforgiveness. Convict both of them of sin, lead them to repentance, and restore what the enemy has sought to destroy. Give our brother wisdom to lead his family in Your ways, and grant his wife a spirit of humility and grace to forgive as You have forgiven us. If this is *not* his wife, Lord, we pray You would expose any sin in his life and bring him to repentance, that he may honor You in his relationships. Purify his heart and redirect his desires to Your will.
Father, we thank You for the changes he is making, but we ask that these changes would flow from a transformed heart, not mere outward effort. Let him abide in You, that his life may bear fruit that lasts (John 15:5). Protect his job, Lord, and provide for his every need. Remove fear and replace it with faith in Your sovereignty. Give him strength to persevere, even if reconciliation tarries, and let him trust You in the waiting.
Most of all, Father, draw him—and his entire family—closer to You. Save those who do not know Christ, and revive those who have strayed. Let this trial be a refining fire that produces holiness, not hardness. We rebuke the schemes of the enemy to steal, kill, and destroy (John 10:10), and we declare that Your will shall prevail in this family. Bind every spirit of division, confusion, or rebellion, and loose Your peace, unity, and love.
In the precious name of Jesus, our Redeemer and Restorer, we pray. Amen."*
Brother, we encourage you to immerse yourself in Scripture, especially passages on marriage (Ephesians 5:22-33), forgiveness (Colossians 3:13), and trust in God’s provision (Philippians 4:19). Seek a biblical counselor or pastor to walk with you through this. And never stop praying—God hears you, and He is able to do far more than you ask or imagine (Ephesians 3:20). Stay steadfast, and may the Lord grant you peace as you wait on Him.
We also notice you did not invoke the name of Jesus Christ in your request. This is not a small matter, for Scripture declares there is *no other name* under heaven by which we must be saved (Acts 4:12), and it is only through Jesus that we have access to the Father (John 14:6, Ephesians 2:18). Without faith in Christ, our prayers are empty, and our sins remain. If you have not surrendered your life to Jesus as Lord, we implore you to do so now—repent of your sins, believe in His death and resurrection for your salvation, and commit to following Him (Romans 10:9-10). True reconciliation with your family begins with reconciliation to God through Christ.
Now, assuming this is your wife and you are both believers, we pray with you for restoration. The Lord sees your heart and your efforts to change, and He is faithful to complete the work He has begun in you (Philippians 1:6). But remember: change must be rooted in Christ, not merely outward actions. Have you humbled yourself before God and your wife, confessing any sin that contributed to this separation? Have you sought wise, biblical counsel? Reconciliation requires repentance, forgiveness, and a willingness to rebuild trust—this is not a one-sided effort. We urge you to examine your heart: Are you pursuing your wife with the same selfless love Christ has for the Church (Ephesians 5:25), or are you driven by loneliness or fear? Love is patient, kind, and does not demand its own way (1 Corinthians 13:4-7). Pray for her heart to soften, but also pray for God to refine *you*—to make you the husband and father He calls you to be, whether reconciliation comes or not.
As for your job, we ask the Lord to sustain you and provide for your needs, trusting that He is your Provider (Matthew 6:33). Anxiety over finances can distract you from seeking God first, but He knows your needs and will never abandon you (Hebrews 13:5). Walk in integrity at work, and let your light shine before others (Matthew 5:16), that they may see Christ in you.
Here is our prayer for you:
*"Heavenly Father, we come before You in the mighty name of Jesus, lifting up our brother who longs for reconciliation in his family. Lord, if this is his wife, we ask You to heal their marriage, to soften her heart, and to break down every wall of bitterness, pride, or unforgiveness. Convict both of them of sin, lead them to repentance, and restore what the enemy has sought to destroy. Give our brother wisdom to lead his family in Your ways, and grant his wife a spirit of humility and grace to forgive as You have forgiven us. If this is *not* his wife, Lord, we pray You would expose any sin in his life and bring him to repentance, that he may honor You in his relationships. Purify his heart and redirect his desires to Your will.
Father, we thank You for the changes he is making, but we ask that these changes would flow from a transformed heart, not mere outward effort. Let him abide in You, that his life may bear fruit that lasts (John 15:5). Protect his job, Lord, and provide for his every need. Remove fear and replace it with faith in Your sovereignty. Give him strength to persevere, even if reconciliation tarries, and let him trust You in the waiting.
Most of all, Father, draw him—and his entire family—closer to You. Save those who do not know Christ, and revive those who have strayed. Let this trial be a refining fire that produces holiness, not hardness. We rebuke the schemes of the enemy to steal, kill, and destroy (John 10:10), and we declare that Your will shall prevail in this family. Bind every spirit of division, confusion, or rebellion, and loose Your peace, unity, and love.
In the precious name of Jesus, our Redeemer and Restorer, we pray. Amen."*
Brother, we encourage you to immerse yourself in Scripture, especially passages on marriage (Ephesians 5:22-33), forgiveness (Colossians 3:13), and trust in God’s provision (Philippians 4:19). Seek a biblical counselor or pastor to walk with you through this. And never stop praying—God hears you, and He is able to do far more than you ask or imagine (Ephesians 3:20). Stay steadfast, and may the Lord grant you peace as you wait on Him.
We're right there with you, brother, as you long for your family to be reconciled and brought back home. We understand the love you have for them and the desire for unity. Let's lift our hearts together in prayer.
First, we ask that you would humble yourself before God and your family, confessing any sin that may have contributed to this separation. Remember, true reconciliation begins with repentance and humility. We also encourage you to seek wise, biblical counsel to help navigate this situation.
Now, let's pray together:
"Dear Heavenly Father, we come before You today, lifting up our ### and his family. Lord, we ask that You would soften the hearts of all involved, breaking down walls of bitterness, pride, or unforgiveness. Convict each one of sin, lead them to repentance, and restore what the enemy has sought to destroy.
Father, if this is our ###'s wife, we ask that You would heal their marriage. Give our ### wisdom to lead his family in Your ways, and grant his wife a spirit of humility and grace to forgive as You have forgiven us. If this is not his wife, Lord, we pray that You would expose any sin in his life and bring him to repentance, purifying his heart and redirecting his desires to Your will.
We thank You for the changes our ### is making, but we ask that these changes would flow from a transformed heart, not mere outward effort. Let him abide in You, that his life may bear fruit that lasts.
Protect his job, Lord, and provide for his every need. Remove fear and replace it with faith in Your sovereignty. Give him strength to persevere, even if reconciliation tarries, and let him trust You in the waiting.
Most of all, Father, draw our ### and his entire family closer to You. Save those who do not know Christ, and revive those who have strayed. Let this trial be a refining fire that produces holiness, not hardness. We rebuke the schemes of the enemy to steal, kill, and destroy, and we declare that Your will shall prevail in this family. Bind every spirit of division, confusion, or rebellion, and loose Your peace, unity, and love.
In the precious name of Jesus, our Redeemer and Restorer, we pray. Amen."
###, keep trusting in God's plan and purpose. Stay steadfast, and may the Lord grant you peace as you wait on Him.
First, we ask that you would humble yourself before God and your family, confessing any sin that may have contributed to this separation. Remember, true reconciliation begins with repentance and humility. We also encourage you to seek wise, biblical counsel to help navigate this situation.
Now, let's pray together:
"Dear Heavenly Father, we come before You today, lifting up our ### and his family. Lord, we ask that You would soften the hearts of all involved, breaking down walls of bitterness, pride, or unforgiveness. Convict each one of sin, lead them to repentance, and restore what the enemy has sought to destroy.
Father, if this is our ###'s wife, we ask that You would heal their marriage. Give our ### wisdom to lead his family in Your ways, and grant his wife a spirit of humility and grace to forgive as You have forgiven us. If this is not his wife, Lord, we pray that You would expose any sin in his life and bring him to repentance, purifying his heart and redirecting his desires to Your will.
We thank You for the changes our ### is making, but we ask that these changes would flow from a transformed heart, not mere outward effort. Let him abide in You, that his life may bear fruit that lasts.
Protect his job, Lord, and provide for his every need. Remove fear and replace it with faith in Your sovereignty. Give him strength to persevere, even if reconciliation tarries, and let him trust You in the waiting.
Most of all, Father, draw our ### and his entire family closer to You. Save those who do not know Christ, and revive those who have strayed. Let this trial be a refining fire that produces holiness, not hardness. We rebuke the schemes of the enemy to steal, kill, and destroy, and we declare that Your will shall prevail in this family. Bind every spirit of division, confusion, or rebellion, and loose Your peace, unity, and love.
In the precious name of Jesus, our Redeemer and Restorer, we pray. Amen."
###, keep trusting in God's plan and purpose. Stay steadfast, and may the Lord grant you peace as you wait on Him.
The Encourager
The Encourager
I prayed that God in Jesus' name will answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. God Loves You. Thank You Jesus!!!
Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.
Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the love, grace, and knowledge of Christ Jesus. God bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, Your righteousness, and to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.
God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by The Encourager-Prayer Warrior-Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach.
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Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.
Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the love, grace, and knowledge of Christ Jesus. God bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, Your righteousness, and to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by The Encourager-Prayer Warrior-Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach.
Healed Spirit Soul And Body
Healed Spirit Soul And Body
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Praying for you and your request in Jesus. Did you know the book of Hosea has promises we can claim in Jesus over ourselves, our spouses, our children, our relationships?
Do you Believe Jesus died for our sins, is Risen from the dead, is Preparing a place for us and is about to call us to join Him?
Are you watching for Jesus in the Clouds of Glory? Jesus is about to call us to join Him!
We can do everything Jesus did and more! We can speak; sickness leave in Jesus! Be healed by Jesus stripes! I am healed by Jesus stripes! Amen! Thank You Lord Jesus!
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There is nothing that happens for us that is bad. All things work for our good in Jesus! Look at everything as good!
Sing through out your days Thank You Jesus, Praise You Jesus, Glory to You Lord Jesus or anything that is on your heart to sing to Jesus! It doesn't matter how we sound, Angels will join in with us and Jesus will join in with us as well as fight for us, knock down walls for us, open locks for us, save people for us, evil will flee from us, He heals us and He will over flow His Holy Peace in us.
Praying for others on here and reading your Bible will help you tremendously.
I wanted to commit suicide once, I even came up with a plan. Right before I headed out the door I posted a prayer on here and hoping there might be help from God one last time I opened the Bible and only read take no thought for your life. I read that before at least 100 times but never really could understand how. This time I took it to heart, all right God I will end my life by not thinking about it. I take no thought, I take no thought, I take no thought over and over and over again I take no thought was my only thought that day. All of a sudden I noticed something, Jesus showed up, all my pains were gone, no neck ache, no back pain, no leg pain from many many accidents I had over the years and no pain in my heart as my wife had left me. I started singing praises and thanks to Jesus and my life has never been the same. It is our obedience to God from His Holy Instructions that makes a difference to His Power of His Promises in our lives.
Be a doer of Jesus friend, it really makes a difference! Thank You Lord Jesus!
Search the Bible for Jesus' Promises friend, do them and claim them in Jesus! Amen! Thank You Lord Jesus!
Powerful healing promise hidden in Proverbs 3:7-8, I am not wise in my own eyes, I fear You Lord, I depart from evil, especially my own evil thoughts and my flesh is healed and my body is refreshed in Jesus.
Praying for others especially in your situation will help you tremendously in yours friend.
Take no thought for your life dear friend and Jesus will take thought for you. Sing praises and thanks to Jesus and He will overflow His Holy Spirit in you and so much more. He will fight for you and give you the desires of your heart.
Pray this prayer look up the verses and pray it again with your friends and family and let's mount up with wings as eagles and soar. Soar with me.
Let Us Pray: God I ask in Jesus' name, bless me to grow closer to You. I long for a more intimate relationship with You. God I take You at Your Word, if I will draw closer to You, You will draw closer to me (James 4:8). Show me how to draw closer to You. Bless me daily to cast off and forsake my thoughts and ways for my life, and exchange them for Your thoughts and ways for my life. Let me think Your thoughts and dream Your dreams for my life. God bless me to live and walk in Your love, mercy and forgiveness (Isaiah 55:7). I confess, I will take no thought for my life. I will trust You Father God to take thought for me and take care of me (Mathew 6:25-34). I will not be wise in my own eyes, I will fear You Lord and depart from evil and my flesh will be healed and my body will be refreshed (Proverbs 3:7-8) daily. Thank You Jesus for Your Promises! Lord make me the Child of God You need me to be in Christ for all those around me and for the world to see (Psalms 128:3). Not by my might, nor by my power, but by Your Spirt Christ Jesus (Zechariah 4:6) this shall happen. And it will happen, it is happening now in Your timing, Power, Strength, Might, and Spirit, Christ Jesus. God all that I have asked of you in this prayer please do the same for all those I love, care about, and every faithful prayer warrior on this site. Thank You, Thank You, Thank You Lord Jesus, my Savior and Lord for answering this prayer with a Yes and Amen.
Bless us to sing praises and thanks to You Lord Jesus so You can fill us with the wine of the Spirit in Jesus Name, Amen.
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