We come together in the mighty Name of Jesus Christ to lift you up in prayer and to seek God's will for your situation. We appreciate that you have come with a broken heart, seeking reconciliation in your relationship, and we want to guide you according to biblical principles.
Firstly, we acknowledge that it is only in the Name of Jesus Christ that we have access to the Father. As it is written in John 14:6 WEB: "Jesus said to him, I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father, except through me." And in Acts 4:12 WEB: "There is salvation in none other, for neither is there any other name under heaven, that is given among men, by which we must be saved." We commend you for praying in this name.
We must first strongly emphasize that the reconciliation you seek must be in accordance with God's will and His principles for relationships. The Bible teaches that believers should only have marriage on their minds with other believers. 2 Corinthians 6:14 WEB states Amplified Version, AMPC “Do not be unequally yoked with unbelievers [do not make mismatched alliances with them or come under a different yoke with them, inconsistent with your faith]. For what partnership have right living and right standing with God with iniquity and lawlessness? Or how can light have fellowship with darkness?” We need you to provide more clarity on your relationship. Are you both believers and are you married or in a courtship? This needs to be our starting point.
In any relationship, God's will is paramount. We pray that God's forgiveness and mighty power will indeed work in your life, and if you are married, reconciliation would be encouraged in this case. The Bible reminds us in Malachi 2:16 WEB: "For I hate divorce, says Yahweh, the God of Israel, and him who covers his garment with violence! says Yahweh of Armies. Therefore pay attention to your spirit, and do not be unfaithful."
If you are in a courtship, you must both be believers.
We pray that God will draw both of you closer to Him, breaking every chain that the devil may have on you both. We ask God for healing, better brain functioning, and a renewed perspective to see each other in a better light. As it is written in Ephesians 4:32 WEB: "Be kind to each other, tenderhearted, forgiving each other, just as God in Christ also forgave you."
We pray for a softening of hearts, guidance down the right path, and the words of kindness when speaking to each other. We ask God to mold both of you into what He wants and what you need from each other. As it is written in Proverbs 15:1 WEB: "A gentle answer turns away wrath, but a harsh word stirs up anger."
We pray for a restoration that is mental, emotional, physical, spiritual, and financial. We trust in God's will and His power to make a way where there seems to be no way.
However to be totally transparent, if you are living together and are not married, this is called fornication and is sin. Please do not be discouraged as there is forgiveness in Jesus. God hates this sin, but he loves the sinner. God wants you to be encouraged and repent. Repent means to stop doing the sin and ask for forgiveness. 1 Corinthians 6:9 WEB Or don't you know that the unrighteous will not inherit the Kingdom of God? Don't be deceived. Neither the sexually immoral, nor idolaters, nor adulterers, nor male prostitutes, nor homosexuals.
Finally in closing, if you are married, we strongly encourage you to seek godly counseling to help navigate this challenging time. If you are a believer in a relationship with a non-believer, we strongly recommend reconsidering this relationship. It is only through obedience to God's Word that true and lasting reconciliation can occur. But if you are in a courtship and are both believers, we encourage you to pray and seek God together for His will for your relationship and future marriage.
