We are deeply grieved to hear of the spiritual and emotional torment you are enduring at the hands of this individual, whose behavior reflects the dark influence of evil rather than the light of Christ. The Scriptures warn us of such people, who are driven by malicious intent rather than love. In Ephesians 6:12, we are reminded, *"For our wrestling is not against flesh and blood, but against the principalities, against the powers, against the world’s rulers of the darkness of this age, and against the spiritual forces of wickedness in the heavenly places."* This is not merely a human conflict—it is a spiritual battle, and we must confront it with the authority of Jesus Christ.
The characteristics you describe—a lifeless gaze, relentless pursuit, and emotional manipulation—are hallmarks of one who is not walking in the Spirit but is instead being used as an instrument of the enemy. Proverbs 6:12-14 warns of such individuals: *"A worthless person, a man of iniquity, is he who walks with a perverse mouth; who winks with his eyes, who signals with his feet, who motions with his fingers; in whose heart is perverseness, who devises evil continually, who always sows discord."* This person’s actions are not of God, and we must stand firmly against them in the name of Jesus.
First, we urge you to examine your own heart and life to ensure there is no open door—whether through unconfessed sin, involvement in occult practices, or ungodly soul ties—that has given this individual a foothold in your life. If there is anything that needs repentance, we encourage you to bring it before the Lord now. 1 John 1:9 assures us, *"If we confess our sins, he is faithful and righteous to forgive us the sins, and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness."* Repentance breaks the enemy’s legal ground in our lives.
Next, we must take authority over this situation through prayer and the Word of God. Jesus has given us power to tread upon serpents and scorpions, and over all the power of the enemy (Luke 10:19). We do not need to fear, for *"God didn’t give us a spirit of fear, but of power, love, and self-control"* (2 Timothy 1:7). It is time to command this individual to be removed from your life in the name of Jesus, breaking every ungodly connection and closing every door that has been opened to his influence.
Let us pray together:
Heavenly Father, we come before You in the mighty name of Jesus Christ, our Lord and Savior. We lift up Your child who is under attack by this psychopathic individual, who is being used by the enemy to bring harm, fear, and emotional distress. Lord, we ask that You expose every hidden scheme of the devil and render his plans powerless. We bind every spirit of manipulation, control, and evil influence that is operating through this person, and we command them to be silenced and cast out in Jesus’ name.
Father, we ask that You sever every ungodly soul tie, every unholy connection, and every curse that has been spoken or sent against Your child. Let every word of manipulation and every attempt to bring harm be turned back upon the enemy’s head. We declare that no weapon formed against Your child shall prosper (Isaiah 54:17), and we command this individual to be permanently removed from their life. Let there be a divine separation, Lord—so complete that there is no opportunity for this person to return or continue their harassment.
We plead the blood of Jesus over every area of this situation. Let the blood of Christ be a wall of fire around Your child, protecting them from every attack of the enemy. Fill them with Your peace, which surpasses all understanding (Philippians 4:7), and let them walk in the confidence that You, Lord, are their defender and their strong tower (Proverbs 18:10).
We also pray for this individual who is being used by the enemy. Lord, if there is any part of him that can still be reached, we ask that You would convict his heart of his sin and bring him to repentance. But if he is fully given over to evil, we ask that You would remove him entirely from Your child’s life and neutralize his ability to cause further harm. Let him be exposed for who he truly is, and let his plans be thwarted at every turn.
Father, we ask for Your divine protection and provision. Surround Your child with godly people who will stand with them in prayer and support. Let them not walk in fear, but in the boldness and authority of Christ. Strengthen them, Lord, and let them know that You are with them always, even to the end of the age (Matthew 28:20).
We thank You, Father, for hearing our prayer. We trust in Your power and Your promises, knowing that You are faithful to deliver Your children from evil. We declare victory in this situation, and we give You all the glory. In the mighty and matchless name of Jesus Christ, we pray. Amen.
Finally, we encourage you to take practical steps to protect yourself. If this individual is physically present in your life, consider setting firm boundaries or, if necessary, involving authorities to ensure your safety. Do not engage with him or attempt to reason with him—his goal is not understanding but destruction. Instead, surround yourself with believers who can pray with you and support you. Psalm 91 is a powerful passage to declare over yourself daily, reminding you of God’s protection: *"He who dwells in the secret place of the Most High will rest in the shadow of the Almighty. ... You will not be afraid of the terror by night, nor of the arrow that flies by day"* (Psalm 91:1, 5).
Stay rooted in the Word of God and in prayer. The enemy fears the name of Jesus and the power of His blood. Keep speaking the name of Jesus over this situation, and trust that the Lord will fight this battle for you. He is your shield and your exceeding great reward (Genesis 15:1). Stand firm, and do not waver in your faith. The Lord is with you, and He will deliver you.