We lift you up before the Lord with deep compassion, knowing that the struggles you face are heavy, but we serve a God who is near to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit. Your honesty about your depression, trauma, and anxiety is a brave step, and we commend you for seeking both spiritual and professional help. It is wise to recognize that while Jesus is our ultimate Healer, He often works through means such as therapy, medicine, and the support of others to bring restoration. The apostle Luke was a physician (Colossians 4:14), and we see in Scripture that God uses people and their gifts to bring healing—whether physical, emotional, or spiritual.
You mentioned that in the past, you rejected diagnoses because of your faith in Jesus’ healing power. While it is absolutely true that Jesus heals—whether instantly, progressively, or ultimately in eternity—we must also remember that He has given us wisdom, medicine, and counselors as tools for our well-being. Proverbs 11:14 says, *"Where there is no wise guidance, the nation falls, but in the multitude of counselors there is safety."* Similarly, Proverbs 19:20 reminds us, *"Listen to counsel and receive instruction, that you may be wise in your latter days."* Seeking therapy is not a lack of faith; it can be an act of stewardship over the life God has given you.
At the same time, we must be discerning. Not all therapy aligns with biblical truth, so we encourage you to pray for a therapist who respects your Christian values and can integrate faith into your healing process where appropriate. Ask the Lord to give you wisdom to recognize whether the counsel you receive is helpful and godly. *"If any of you lacks wisdom, let him ask of God, who gives to all liberally and without reproach; and it will be given to him"* (James 1:5). Trust that God will guide you in this decision, whether it’s therapy, other forms of support, or a combination of both.
We also want to gently address something important: you did not mention the name of Jesus in your request. While we understand that your faith is genuine, it is critical to remember that our access to God the Father is *only* through Jesus Christ. Jesus Himself said, *"I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father, except through me"* (John 14:6). It is in His name that we pray, and it is by His authority that we find healing, wisdom, and strength. If you have not already, we urge you to surrender every part of your struggle to Him, acknowledging Him as your Lord and Savior. There is no shame in your pain, but there is *power* in His name to overcome it.
Now, let us pray for you:
Heavenly Father, we come before You on behalf of Your beloved child who is burdened by depression, trauma, and anxiety. Lord, You are the God who sees their pain, who collects their tears in a bottle (Psalm 56:8), and who promises to never leave them nor forsake them. We ask that You would grant them clarity and wisdom as they seek professional help. Guide their therapist to discern the root of their struggles and to provide godly, effective counsel. Give them the courage to face each step of this journey, knowing that You are with them.
Father, we rebuke the spirits of fear, despair, and confusion that have sought to oppress them. We declare that *"God hasn’t given us a spirit of fear, but of power, love, and self-control"* (2 Timothy 1:7). Let Your peace, which surpasses all understanding, guard their heart and mind in Christ Jesus (Philippians 4:7). Remove any shame or stigma they may feel about seeking help, and remind them that even the great prophet Elijah experienced deep despair—yet You met him in his brokenness (1 Kings 19).
Lord, if there are areas of unforgiveness, bitterness, or unconfessed sin contributing to their pain, bring conviction and the grace to repent. If there are lies they have believed about themselves or about You, replace them with Your truth. Let them meditate on Your promises, such as *"The Lord is close to the brokenhearted, and saves those who are crushed in spirit"* (Psalm 34:18) and *"Come to me, all you who labor and are heavily burdened, and I will give you rest"* (Matthew 11:28).
We pray for their Christian friend, that You would use them as a source of encouragement and accountability. Give them wisdom to speak Your truth in love and to point them continually to You. Surround them with a community of believers who will uplift them in prayer and walk alongside them in this season.
Finally, Father, we ask that You would restore their joy and hope. Let them taste and see that You are good (Psalm 34:8), even in the midst of their struggles. May they find their identity not in their pain, but in being Your beloved child, redeemed by the blood of Jesus. We ask all these things in the mighty and holy name of Jesus Christ, our Healer and Redeemer. Amen.
As you move forward, we encourage you to immerse yourself in Scripture, which is *"living, and active, and sharper than any two-edged sword"* (Hebrews 4:12). Memorize verses that combat the lies of depression and anxiety. Worship, even when you don’t feel like it, for *"the joy of the Lord is your strength"* (Nehemiah 8:10). And never forget: your struggle does not define you. You are *more than a conqueror* through Christ who loves you (Romans 8:37).
If you have not already, consider sharing your burdens with your church community or a mature believer who can pray with you and hold you accountable. Isolation often deepens despair, but community brings light. We are standing with you in prayer, believing that God will bring beauty from these ashes (Isaiah 61:3). Stay anchored in Him, and trust that He who began a good work in you will complete it (Philippians 1:6).