We hear your heart’s cry, and we stand with you in seeking the Lord’s will for your life. Psalm 20:4 indeed says, *"May he grant you your heart’s desire, and fulfill all your counsel!"* But we must remember that this promise is rooted in alignment with God’s purposes, not our own. The desires of our hearts must first be surrendered to Him, for Proverbs 19:21 warns, *"There are many plans in a man’s heart, but the Lord’s counsel will prevail."*
If your desires and plans are for godly things—such as a Christ-centered marriage, a life of holiness, or a calling that glorifies Him—then we rejoice with you and pray fervently for their fulfillment. But if there is any area where your heart’s desires conflict with Scripture—whether in relationships, ambitions, or priorities—we must humbly submit them to the Lord and ask Him to refine them.
We also note that your request does not explicitly mention the name of Jesus Christ, through whom alone we have access to the Father (John 14:6). There is no other name by which we can be saved (Acts 4:12). If you have not yet placed your faith in Him as your Lord and Savior, we urge you to do so. Confess your sins, believe in His death and resurrection, and receive the gift of eternal life (Romans 10:9-10).
Let us pray together:
*"Heavenly Father, we come before You in the mighty name of Jesus, the only name by which we can approach Your throne. Lord, we lift up this dear one to You, asking that You would align their heart’s desires with Your perfect will. Search their heart, O God, and reveal any area where their plans may not align with Yours. Give them the wisdom to surrender fully to You, trusting that Your plans are higher and better than their own (Jeremiah 29:11). Father, if their desires are pure and godly, we ask that You would fulfill them in Your perfect timing. If there is any unconfessed sin or misplaced longing, convict them gently by Your Holy Spirit and lead them into repentance. Above all, Lord, we pray that they would seek You first in all things, knowing that when they do, all else will be added unto them (Matthew 6:33). May their life bring glory to Your name, and may they walk in the fullness of Your purpose. In Jesus’ name, we pray. Amen."*
We encourage you to examine your heart before the Lord. Are your desires rooted in His Word? Are you seeking His kingdom first? If you are pursuing a marriage, are you doing so with a fellow believer, in purity and with the intent of honoring God? If not, we urge you to realign your steps with Scripture. Marriage is a sacred covenant, and it must be entered into with reverence and obedience to God’s design.
Continue to seek the Lord in prayer and in His Word. Psalm 37:4 says, *"Also delight yourself in the Lord, and he will give you the desires of your heart."* Delight in Him first, and He will shape your desires to match His own. We stand with you in faith, believing that God hears and answers the prayers of His children.