We join with you in lifting up your family before the Lord, standing in agreement that His will be done in every area of your lives. Your heart for your children is evident, and we commend you for seeking the Lord’s protection and intervention with such fervency. It is clear you are fighting a spiritual battle, and we stand with you in the authority of Christ to see victory.
First, we praise God that you have invoked the name of Jesus in your prayer, for it is only through Him that we have access to the Father and the power to overcome the enemy. As Scripture declares, *"There is salvation in no one else, for there is no other name under heaven that is given among men, by which we must be saved!"* (Acts 4:12, WEB). Your faith in the blood of Jesus is your strongest weapon, and we affirm that no scheme of the enemy can stand against it when we stand firm in Christ.
Your concern for your older daughter is heavy on our hearts. The situation you describe—her isolation from the family, the manipulative and controlling influence of this young man and his mother, and the ungodly living arrangement—is deeply troubling. Scripture is clear that we are not to be unequally yoked with unbelievers (2 Corinthians 6:14, WEB), and the behavior you’ve described does not reflect the fruit of the Spirit but rather the works of the flesh: *"Now the works of the flesh are obvious, which are: adultery, sexual immorality, uncleanness, lustfulness, idolatry, sorcery, hatred, strife, jealousies, outbursts of anger, rivalries, divisions, heresies, envyings, murders, drunkenness, orgies, and things like these; of which I forewarn you, even as I also forewarned you, that those who practice such things will not inherit God’s Kingdom."* (Galatians 5:19-21, WEB).
This relationship, as you’ve described it, is not honoring to God. It is built on control, deception, and rebellion—qualities that are contrary to the love, respect, and purity that should characterize a godly courtship leading to marriage. We must speak the truth in love: if this young man is not a believer who is submitted to Christ, or if he is leading your daughter into sin, she must be delivered from this bondage. The Word of God commands, *"Don’t be conformed to this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind, so that you may prove what is the good, well-pleasing, and perfect will of God."* (Romans 12:2, WEB). Your daughter’s mind must be renewed by the truth of God’s Word, not the lies of the enemy.
We also address the fact that she is living with this young man outside of marriage. This is fornication, and Scripture is unequivocal: *"Marriage is honorable in all, and the bed is undefiled; but God will judge the sexually immoral and adulterers."* (Hebrews 13:4, WEB). *"Flee sexual immorality! ‘Every sin that a man does is outside the body,’ but he who commits sexual immorality sins against his own body. Or don’t you know that your body is a temple of the Holy Spirit who is in you, whom you have from God? You are not your own, for you were bought with a price. Therefore glorify God in your body and in your spirit, which are God’s."* (1 Corinthians 6:18-20, WEB). Your daughter must repent and turn away from this sin, for her own sake and for the glory of God. The enemy seeks to destroy her through this relationship, but Jesus came to set the captives free (Luke 4:18, WEB).
We pray that the Holy Spirit will convict your daughter’s heart and open her eyes to the truth. May she recognize the snare she is in and have the courage to break free, returning to the protection and love of her family. We pray that every ungodly soul tie between her and this young man be severed in the name of Jesus. May the Lord place a hedge of thorns around this relationship so that she can no longer tolerate the bondage and will seek freedom in Christ. We also pray that the Lord will expose the schemes of this young man and his mother, frustrating their plans and bringing their manipulations to nothing. *"No weapon that is formed against you will prevail; and you will condemn every tongue that rises against you in judgment. This is the heritage of Yahweh’s servants, and their righteousness is from me,” says Yahweh."* (Isaiah 54:17, WEB).
For your son, we lift him up to the Lord, asking for divine healing and peace over his mind and emotions. Autism, PTSD, and anxiety are not too difficult for our God, who is the Great Physician. We pray that the Lord will calm his thoughts and surround him with His supernatural peace, which transcends all understanding (Philippians 4:7, WEB). May he rest securely in the knowledge that he is fearfully and wonderfully made (Psalm 139:14, WEB), and may the Lord restore his mind and emotions to wholeness. We rebuke every spiritual attack against him and declare that the peace of God will guard his heart and mind in Christ Jesus.
For your younger daughter, we pray for divine health, protection, and favor over her life. May the Lord bless her with godly friendships that encourage her in her faith and prepare her for a future godly spouse. We pray that she will walk in purity and wisdom, keeping her heart guarded for the man that God has for her. May she find her worth and identity in Christ alone, growing in confidence and faith as she seeks Him first.
We also lift up your prayer for godly spouses for your daughters. Marriage is a sacred covenant ordained by God, and we pray that He will prepare your daughters to be wives who honor Him. May they seek first His Kingdom and His righteousness, trusting that He will add all things to them (Matthew 6:33, WEB). We pray that the Lord will bring godly young men into their lives who love Jesus with all their hearts and will lead them in righteousness. May these future marriages be built on the foundation of Christ, reflecting His love and holiness to the world.
As for your family’s unity and the upcoming holiday season, we declare that the Lord will restore joy, peace, and love among you. The enemy seeks to steal, kill, and destroy (John 10:10, WEB), but Jesus came to give life abundantly. We rebuke every spirit of division, strife, and confusion, and we pray that the Lord will fill your home with His presence. May this season be marked by laughter, gratitude, and the deep bond of love that comes from being rooted in Christ. *"Behold, how good and how pleasant it is for brothers to live together in unity! It is like the precious oil on the head, that ran down on the beard, even Aaron’s beard; that came down on the edge of his robes; like the dew of Hermon, that descends on the mountains of Zion: for there Yahweh gives the blessing, even life forever more."* (Psalm 133, WEB).
Finally, we stand with you in declaring the blood of Jesus over your home and family. May the Lord station His angels around you as a guard, and may His light drive out every shadow of darkness. We pray that your rest tonight will be deep and peaceful, free from fear or torment. May the Lord fill your home with His glory and grant you His peace that surpasses all understanding.
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**Our Prayer:**
Heavenly Father, we come before You in the mighty name of Jesus, lifting up this family and their needs. Lord, we thank You for Your faithfulness and for the power of the blood of Jesus that cleanses, protects, and delivers. We stand in agreement with this parent’s prayer, declaring Your victory over every scheme of the enemy.
Father, we pray for the older daughter who is ensnared in this ungodly relationship. Open her eyes to the truth, Lord, and break every chain of deception, manipulation, and control. Convict her heart of the sin of living with this young man outside of marriage, and grant her the strength to repent and walk away. Sever every ungodly soul tie and surround her with Your love and protection. Frustrate the plans of this young man and his mother, and expose their darkness, Lord. Let no weapon formed against her prosper, and may she return to her family in humility and obedience to You.
We pray for the son, asking for Your healing touch over his mind and emotions. Calm his anxiety, Lord, and grant him deep, restful sleep. Let him know that he is loved and valued by You, and may Your peace guard his heart and mind.
For the younger daughter, we ask for Your protection, healing, and favor. Prepare her for a future godly spouse, and surround her with friendships that honor You. May she walk in purity and wisdom, seeking You above all else.
Lord, we pray for unity and joy to be restored in this family. Let this holiday season be filled with Your love, laughter, and peace. Protect them from every divisive influence, and may their bond be stronger than ever, rooted in You.
We declare the blood of Jesus over their home, their minds, and their hearts. Station Your angels around them, Lord, and let Your light shine in every dark place. Grant them restful sleep tonight, free from fear, and fill their home with Your glory.
Father, we also pray for godly spouses for these daughters—men who love You wholeheartedly and will lead them in righteousness. Prepare their hearts, Lord, and guide their steps as they seek You first.
We thank You, Lord, for hearing our prayers and for Your faithfulness to answer. We trust in Your power and Your love, and we give You all the glory. In the mighty name of Jesus, we pray. Amen.
Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. 
