We join with you in lifting up this urgent and heartfelt cry for your daughter and family, standing firmly on the truth of God’s Word. Your prayers are aligned with His will, and we echo them with the authority of Christ, knowing that He hears and acts on behalf of His children. Let us first praise you for coming before the Lord in the name of Jesus, for it is only through Him that we have access to the Father and the power to see transformation. As Scripture declares, *"There is salvation in no one else, for there is no other name under heaven that is given among men, by which we must be saved!"* (Acts 4:12, WEB). Your faith in calling upon Jesus is the foundation of this battle, and we stand with you in His mighty name.
The situation you describe is deeply troubling, for it reflects a rebellion not only against your family but against the righteous standards of God. The young man’s behavior—and the enabling of his parents—has led your daughter into a lifestyle that dishonors the Lord. Living together outside of marriage is fornication, and Scripture is clear: *"Don’t you know that the unrighteous will not inherit God’s Kingdom? Don’t be deceived. Neither the sexually immoral, nor idolaters, nor adulterers, nor male prostitutes, nor homosexuals, nor thieves, nor covetous, nor drunkards, nor slanderers, nor extortionists, will inherit God’s Kingdom"* (1 Corinthians 6:9-10, WEB). This is not a matter of judgment but of love—God’s love calls us out of sin and into holiness. Your daughter is being deceived, and the enemy is using this relationship to pull her away from her faith, her family, and her God-given purpose.
We also address the spiritual warfare at play here. The young man’s mother is actively poisoning your daughter against her family, her career, her studies, and her self-worth. This is not merely human conflict; it is a scheme of the devil to destroy. *"For our wrestling is not against flesh and blood, but against the principalities, against the powers, against the world’s rulers of the darkness of this age, and against the spiritual forces of wickedness in the heavenly places"* (Ephesians 6:12, WEB). We must combat this with the full armor of God—truth, righteousness, the Gospel of peace, faith, salvation, and the Word of God.
Your prayer for your daughter to see the chaos and walk away is righteous. We plead with the Lord to open her eyes to the truth: this man is not her "significant other" but a tool of distraction and destruction. *"The heart is deceitful above all things, and it is exceedingly corrupt. Who can know it?"* (Jeremiah 17:9, WEB). Only God can reveal the deception and break the idolization of this man and his family. We pray that she will turn back to the Lord with repentance, for *"if we confess our sins, he is faithful and righteous to forgive us the sins, and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness"* (1 John 1:9, WEB).
We also pray for the young man and his parents. Though their actions are harmful, we ask God to convict their hearts. *"Or do you despise the riches of his goodness, forbearance, and patience, not knowing that the goodness of God leads you to repentance?"* (Romans 2:4, WEB). May they come to understand the damage they are causing and turn from their enabling ways. We rebuke the spirit of manipulation, control, and rebellion in Jesus’ name, commanding it to flee from your daughter’s life.
As for your prayer for godly spouses for your daughters, we wholeheartedly agree. Marriage is a sacred covenant before God, designed to reflect Christ’s love for the Church. *"Wives, be subject to your own husbands, as to the Lord. For the husband is the head of the wife, and Christ also is the head of the assembly, being himself the savior of the body. But as the assembly is subject to Christ, so let the wives also be to their own husbands in everything. Husbands, love your wives, even as Christ also loved the assembly, and gave himself up for it"* (Ephesians 5:22-25, WEB). We pray that your daughters will wait upon the Lord, seeking husbands who are grounded in faith, committed to biblical marriage, and who will lead them in godliness.
Finally, we declare restoration over your family this holiday season. *"Don’t be anxious for anything, but in everything, by prayer and petition with thanksgiving, let your requests be made known to God. And the peace of God, which surpasses all understanding, will guard your hearts and your thoughts in Christ Jesus"* (Philippians 4:6-7, WEB). May this season be filled with the peace, joy, and love that only Christ can provide. May your daughter return home swiftly, her heart renewed and her mind clear of the enemy’s lies. May your family be united in faith, gratitude, and love for one another and for the Lord.
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**Our Prayer:**
Heavenly Father, we come before You in the mighty name of Jesus, lifting up this family and the urgent needs they face. Lord, You see the deception, the rebellion, and the spiritual attacks aimed at destroying this daughter and this family. We ask for Your divine intervention, Lord. Break the chains of fornication, idolization, and manipulation that have ensnared her. Open her eyes to the truth, convict her heart, and draw her back to You in repentance.
Father, we rebuke the spirits of deception, control, and rebellion operating through this young man and his mother. We command these spirits to flee in Jesus’ name. Lord, expose their schemes and bring conviction to their hearts. Let them no longer enable or encourage sinful behavior.
We pray for this daughter to have the strength and courage to walk away from this ungodly living arrangement. Restore her mind, her self-worth, and her faith in You. Bring her back home, Lord, where she can be surrounded by love, truth, and godly influence. Renew her gratitude for her family, her career, her studies, and most of all, her relationship with You.
Father, we pray for godly spouses for these daughters—men who will love them as Christ loves the Church, who will lead them in righteousness, and who will honor You in their marriage. Prepare their hearts to wait upon You and to seek Your will above all else.
We declare Your peace, joy, and restoration over this family during this holiday season. Guard their hearts and minds in Christ Jesus. Let Your love saturate their home, and let Your light shine so brightly that no darkness can remain.
In the powerful name of Jesus, we pray. Amen.