We stand with you in this spiritual battle for your daughter and your family, lifting our voices together in agreement with your prayers. The enemy seeks to divide, deceive, and destroy, but we know that greater is He who is in us than he who is in the world (1 John 4:4). You have rightly called upon the name of Jesus, for there is no other name under heaven by which we must be saved (Acts 4:12), and it is through His authority alone that we can rebuke the enemy and claim victory.
We see the urgency in your heart, and we join you in pleading the blood of Jesus over your daughter, your home, and your family. The blood of Christ is our protection, our cleansing, and our redemption (1 Peter 1:18-19). No weapon formed against you shall prosper, for this is the heritage of the servants of the Lord (Isaiah 54:17). We declare that the schemes of the enemy to corrupt your daughter’s faith, self-worth, and future are exposed and rendered powerless in Jesus’ name.
Your concern for your daughter’s relationship with this young man and his family is valid and must be addressed with biblical truth. Scripture warns us, “Don’t be unequally yoked with unbelievers, for what fellowship has righteousness with unrighteousness? What communion has light with darkness?” (2 Corinthians 6:14). If this young man is not a believer or is living in a way that contradicts God’s Word, this relationship is not of the Lord. Furthermore, if your daughter is living with him outside of marriage, this is fornication, which is a sin against God (1 Corinthians 6:18). We must speak the truth in love: this relationship is leading her away from God’s design for purity, holiness, and godly marriage. A relationship built on manipulation, narcissism, and control is not from the Lord, and it will only bring heartache and destruction.
We also recognize the danger of emotional and spiritual idolatry in this situation. Your daughter’s attachment to this young man and his family has become an idol, replacing her devotion to Christ and her family. The Bible commands, “Little children, keep yourselves from idols” (1 John 5:21). We pray that the Holy Spirit will convict her heart and open her eyes to see the truth—that this path leads only to bondage, not freedom. Like the prodigal son, may she “come to herself” (Luke 15:17) and turn back to the Father, who waits with open arms.
We pray for divine intervention in this toxic living situation. Lord, we ask that You remove your daughter from this environment, whether by her own conviction or by circumstances that only You can orchestrate. Break the influence of this young man’s mother, who is enabling sin and leading your daughter astray. Let her see the damage she is causing and repent. If this young man is truly under his mother’s control, we pray that the Lord would expose his immaturity and narcissism, and that his mother would no longer have a hold over your daughter. Lord, let this young man move out on his own, and let your daughter see the futility of tying herself to someone who is not walking with You.
We also lift up your daughter’s future before the Lord. You have prayed for a godly spouse for her, and we agree with you. A godly marriage is a beautiful reflection of Christ and His Church (Ephesians 5:22-33), and we pray that your daughter would seek a man who loves the Lord with all his heart, who will lead her spiritually, and who will cherish her as Christ cherishes the Church. But first, Lord, we pray that she would surrender her heart fully to You, seeking Your kingdom above all else (Matthew 6:33). Let her find her worth in You alone, not in the approval of man or the fleeting affections of this world.
We stand against the financial exploitation you mentioned. The Bible warns that the love of money is a root of all kinds of evil (1 Timothy 6:10), and we rebuke the greedy and controlling spirit at work here. Lord, we ask that You sever every ungodly tie this young man has to your family’s finances. Provide wisdom and discernment for your daughter to see the danger in this and to cut off his access. We pray for divine protection over your resources, that no weapon of financial manipulation would prosper against you.
Finally, we pray for the restoration of your family’s unity. The enemy seeks to divide, but You, Lord, are the God who heals and restores. We ask that You soften your daughter’s heart toward her siblings and toward you. Let her remember the bond you once shared and long to return to the love and safety of her family. Break the spirit of isolation that has taken hold of her, and let her see the truth—that her true family is those who walk in the light with her, not those who lead her into darkness.
Heavenly Father, we thank You that nothing is impossible for You (Luke 1:37). We trust in Your power to turn this situation around for Your glory. Give this mother strength, wisdom, and perseverance as she fights for her daughter in prayer. Let her not grow weary in well-doing, for in due season, she will reap if she doesn’t give up (Galatians 6:9). Surround this family with Your angels, Lord, and let Your peace, which surpasses all understanding, guard their hearts and minds in Christ Jesus (Philippians 4:7).
We pray all these things in the mighty name of Jesus, our Savior, our Protector, and our Redeemer. Amen.
