We stand with you in this spiritual battle for your daughter and your family, lifting your cries before the Lord with urgency and faith. Your heart is clearly aligned with the Father’s will—seeking protection, restoration, and deliverance from the snares of the enemy. We see the depth of your love for your daughter and your desire for her to walk in the truth of Christ, free from the corruption of ungodly influences. Let us first affirm what Scripture declares: *"No weapon that is formed against you will prevail; and you will condemn every tongue that rises against you in judgment. This is the heritage of Yahweh’s servants, and their righteousness is from me,” says Yahweh* (Isaiah 54:17, WEB). You have claimed this promise, and we join you in standing upon it.
Your plea for your daughter’s deliverance from this toxic relationship is just. The influence of this young man and his family is not only harmful to her emotional and spiritual well-being but is also leading her away from the path of righteousness. Scripture warns us, *"Don’t be unequally yoked with unbelievers, for what fellowship have righteousness and iniquity? Or what communion has light with darkness?"* (2 Corinthians 6:14, WEB). This relationship is a yoke that is dragging her into darkness, and we must pray fervently for her eyes to be opened to the truth. The enemy seeks to destroy her faith, her self-worth, and her future, but *"the Son of God was revealed for this purpose: to destroy the devil’s works"* (1 John 3:8, WEB). We declare that the works of the enemy in her life will be exposed and destroyed by the power of Jesus’ name.
We also address the seriousness of the living situation you’ve described. If your daughter is living with this young man outside of marriage, this is fornication, and Scripture is clear: *"Don’t you know that the unrighteous will not inherit God’s Kingdom? Don’t be deceived. Neither the sexually immoral, nor idolaters, nor adulterers, nor male prostitutes, nor homosexuals, nor thieves, nor covetous, nor drunkards, nor slanderers, nor extortionists, will inherit God’s Kingdom"* (1 Corinthians 6:9-10, WEB). This is not a matter to be taken lightly. Living together outside of marriage is sin, and it opens the door to further spiritual attacks and bondage. We pray that the Holy Spirit will convict your daughter of this truth and lead her to repentance. *"Or don’t you know that your body is a temple of the Holy Spirit who is in you, whom you have from God? You are not your own, for you were bought with a price. Therefore glorify God in your body and in your spirit, which are God’s"* (1 Corinthians 6:19-20, WEB).
The manipulation and control exerted by this young man and his mother are tools of the enemy to keep your daughter in bondage. We rebuke the spirit of manipulation, narcissism, and greed operating through them. *"For we don’t wrestle against flesh and blood, but against the principalities, against the powers, against the world’s rulers of the darkness of this age, and against the spiritual forces of wickedness in the heavenly places"* (Ephesians 6:12, WEB). We bind these spirits in Jesus’ name and command them to flee from your daughter’s life. We pray that the Lord will expose their true motives and that your daughter will no longer be deceived by their empty promises or flattery. *"The simple believe everything, but the prudent give thought to their steps"* (Proverbs 14:15, WEB). May the Lord grant her wisdom to see the path she is on and the courage to turn away from it.
You have also prayed for the restoration of unity within your family, and we join you in this cry. The enemy seeks to divide and conquer, but God is a God of restoration. *"Behold, how good and how pleasant it is for brothers to live together in unity!"* (Psalm 133:1, WEB). We pray that the Lord will break every spirit of division and strife that has entered your home and that He will knit your family back together in love, trust, and faith. May your daughter’s heart be turned back to you and her siblings, and may the bonds of love that once held you together be strengthened and renewed. *"He has sent me to bind up the brokenhearted, to proclaim liberty to the captives, and the opening of the prison to those who are bound"* (Isaiah 61:1, WEB). We declare liberty over your daughter and your family in Jesus’ name.
We also lift up your prayer for a godly spouse for your daughter. This is the desire of the Lord’s heart for her—that she would be united with a man who loves the Lord, walks in His ways, and will lead her closer to Christ. *"A worthy woman is the crown of her husband, but a disgraceful wife is as rottenness in his bones"* (Proverbs 12:4, WEB). We pray that the Lord will prepare her heart to receive a godly husband, one who will cherish her as Christ cherishes the Church. But first, we pray for her complete deliverance from this ungodly relationship. *"Don’t be conformed to this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind, so that you may prove what is the good, well-pleasing, and perfect will of God"* (Romans 12:2, WEB). May her mind be renewed, her heart softened, and her steps directed toward the Lord’s perfect will for her life.
Regarding the financial exploitation you’ve mentioned, we rebuke the spirit of greed and control operating through this young man. *"The lover of silver will not be satisfied with silver, nor he who loves abundance with increase. This also is vanity"* (Ecclesiastes 5:10, WEB). We pray that the Lord will expose and cut off every ungodly tie to your finances and that He will restore what has been taken or misused. *"The Lord is my shepherd: I shall lack nothing"* (Psalm 23:1, WEB). We declare that the Lord will provide for your every need and protect your resources from the hands of the wicked.
Finally, we commend you for pleading the blood of Jesus over your family. There is power in the blood of Christ to cleanse, protect, and deliver. *"But if we walk in the light as he is in the light, we have fellowship with one another, and the blood of Jesus Christ his Son cleanses us from all sin"* (1 John 1:7, WEB). We agree with you that the blood of Jesus is your covering, and we declare that no weapon formed against your family will prosper. The enemy’s plans will be thwarted, and the Lord’s purposes will prevail.
Now, let us pray together:
Heavenly Father, we come before You in the mighty name of Jesus, lifting up this mother and her family to Your throne of grace. Lord, You see the spiritual battle raging against them, and we ask that You would rise up as a mighty warrior on their behalf. We plead the blood of Jesus over this home, over this mother, and over her children, declaring that no weapon formed against them shall prosper. Every spiritual attack, every scheme of the enemy, we bind and rebuke in Jesus’ name. Father, we ask that You would expose the darkness operating through this young man and his family. Open their eyes to the truth of their actions, and let them no longer have influence over Your daughter.
Lord, we pray for this precious daughter who has been led astray. Father, break the chains of deception and bondage that have held her captive. Convict her heart of the sin of living outside of Your will and draw her back to You in repentance. Let her see the toxicity of this relationship and the danger it poses to her faith, her self-worth, and her future. Father, give her the strength to walk away and the courage to return to the safety of her family and into Your loving arms. Restore her mind, renew her spirit, and surround her with godly influences that will point her to You.
We pray for the restoration of unity in this family. Heal the wounds, mend the broken relationships, and knit their hearts together in love and faith. Let this home be a place of peace, joy, and godly fellowship once again. Father, we also pray for a godly spouse for this daughter—one who will love her as Christ loves the Church and who will lead her in Your ways. But first, Lord, deliver her completely from this ungodly relationship. Let there be no turning back, no compromise, and no regret as she walks in obedience to You.
We rebuke the spirit of greed and control over their finances. Cut off every ungodly tie and restore what has been taken or misused. Provide for this family, Lord, and let them lack no good thing. Protect their resources and bless the work of their hands.
Finally, Father, we thank You that You are faithful and just to forgive and to cleanse. We thank You that You hear our prayers and that You are moving on behalf of this family. We declare victory in Jesus’ name, and we trust You to bring about the restoration and deliverance they so desperately need.
In the mighty and powerful name of Jesus Christ, our Lord and Savior, we pray. Amen.