We understand your heart’s cry for protection and peace, and we join you in lifting this burden before the Lord. However, we must first address something vital: your prayer does not invoke the name of Jesus Christ, through whom alone we have access to the Father. Scripture is clear that there is no other name under heaven by which we must be saved, and it is only through Jesus that our prayers are heard. *"Jesus said to him, ‘I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father, except through me’* (John 14:6, WEB). *"There is one God, and one mediator between God and men, the man Christ Jesus"* (1 Timothy 2:5, WEB). So we urge you—place your trust in Jesus Christ as your Lord and Savior if you have not already, for without Him, we have no standing before God.
Now, let us address the heart of your request. You are seeking protection from someone who appears to be causing you distress, and you are asking God to change her heart and bring peace. This is a righteous desire, for God calls us to love even our enemies and to pray for those who persecute us (Matthew 5:44). However, we must also examine our own hearts in this matter. The phrase *"put her at her place"* carries a tone that could reflect bitterness, anger, or a desire for vengeance—emotions that do not align with the spirit of Christ. Scripture warns us, *"Don’t say, ‘I will pay back evil.’ Wait for Yahweh, and he will save you"* (Proverbs 20:22, WEB). Instead, we are called to trust God’s justice and sovereignty, releasing any resentment or desire for retribution into His hands.
If this person has wronged you, remember that vengeance belongs to the Lord (Romans 12:19). Your role is to forgive, just as Christ forgave you (Colossians 3:13). This does not mean you must tolerate abuse or harm—you are wise to seek protection—but it does mean surrendering your heart to God’s will, trusting Him to work in her life and in yours. *"Don’t be overcome by evil, but overcome evil with good"* (Romans 12:21, WEB).
If there is unresolved conflict, we encourage you to seek reconciliation if it is safe and possible. *"If it is possible, as much as it is up to you, be at peace with all men"* (Romans 12:18, WEB). If this person is a believer, follow the steps of restoration outlined in Matthew 18:15-17. If she is not, let your actions and words be seasoned with grace, that she may see Christ in you.
Now, let us pray together for you and for this situation:
Heavenly Father, we come before You in the mighty name of Jesus Christ, our Lord and Savior. We lift up our brother/sister who is seeking Your protection and peace in the midst of this trial. Lord, You are a shield to those who take refuge in You, and we ask that You surround them with Your divine protection. Guard their heart, mind, and spirit from the schemes of the enemy, and let no weapon formed against them prosper (Isaiah 54:17).
Father, we also lift up the woman who has caused them distress. You alone know her heart, and You alone can transform it. Soften her spirit, Lord, and convict her of any wrongdoing. If there is bitterness, anger, or sin in her life, bring her to repentance. If she does not know You, draw her to Yourself, that she may experience Your saving grace. Let Your peace, which surpasses all understanding, reign in both of their lives (Philippians 4:7).
Lord, we ask that You remove any root of bitterness, anger, or unforgiveness from our brother’s/sister’s heart. Fill them with Your love, which covers a multitude of sins (1 Peter 4:8). Give them wisdom to know how to respond in a way that honors You, whether through forgiveness, setting boundaries, or seeking reconciliation. Let them rest in the assurance that You are their defender and that You will fight for them (Exodus 14:14).
We rebuked any spirit of strife, division, or retaliation in this situation. Let Your Holy Spirit bring conviction, healing, and restoration. May Your will be done in both of their lives, and may Your name be glorified through this trial.
Finally, Father, we pray that You would bring godly counsel and support into our brother’s/sister’s life. Surround them with believers who can encourage them, pray with them, and speak Your truth into their circumstances.
We ask all these things in the precious and powerful name of Jesus Christ, our Lord and Redeemer. Amen.
We encourage you to meditate on God’s promises and to continue seeking Him in prayer. *"Don’t be anxious for anything, but in everything, by prayer and petition with thanksgiving, let your requests be made known to God. And the peace of God, which surpasses all understanding, will guard your hearts and your thoughts in Christ Jesus"* (Philippians 4:6-7, WEB). Trust in His timing and His ways, for He is faithful. If this situation involves ongoing harm or danger, we also urge you to seek wise counsel from your church leadership or trusted believers who can help you navigate this with biblical wisdom. Stay rooted in Scripture, and let the Holy Spirit guide your steps.