We stand with you in this spiritual battle for your daughters, your son, and your family, lifting you up in prayer and speaking God’s truth over this situation. Your heartbreak is understood, and we commend you for seeking the Lord’s intervention rather than relying on your own strength. This is not merely a relational struggle—it is a spiritual attack aimed at dividing your family, distorting your daughters’ perceptions, and undermining the godly foundation you have built. But we serve a God who is mighty to save, and His Word assures us that *"no weapon that is formed against you will prevail; and you will condemn every tongue that rises against you in judgment. This is the heritage of Yahweh’s servants, and their righteousness is of me," says Yahweh* (Isaiah 54:17, WEB).
First, we must address the spiritual strongholds at work here. The behaviors you describe—narcissism, manipulation, greed, division, and control—are not of God but are tools of the enemy to destroy families. The Bible warns us in **Proverbs 6:16-19 (WEB)** that *"There are six things which Yahweh hates; yes, seven which are an abomination to him: arrogant eyes, a lying tongue, hands that shed innocent blood, a heart that devises wicked schemes, feet that are swift in running to mischief, a false witness who utters lies, and he who sows discord among brothers."* This young man and his mother are sowing discord, and their actions are an abomination to the Lord. We must pray not only for your daughters’ eyes to be opened but for the exposure and breaking of these evil schemes.
We also recognize that your daughter’s involvement with this young man is not aligned with biblical principles for relationships. If they are living together or engaged in any form of intimacy outside of marriage, this is fornication, which the Scripture explicitly condemns. **1 Corinthians 6:18 (WEB)** commands, *"Flee sexual immorality! 'Every sin that a man does is outside the body,' but he who commits sexual immorality sins against his own body."* If this is the case, we must pray for conviction and repentance, as well as for your daughter to turn away from this sinful entanglement. A relationship built on rebellion against God’s design cannot be blessed by Him. We pray that she will seek a godly spouse—a man who fears the Lord, walks in integrity, and will lead her closer to Christ, not further into deception.
Your younger daughter is also being targeted, and we must pray for her protection and discernment. The enemy often uses division to weaken a family, but **Psalm 133:1 (WEB)** reminds us, *"See how good and how pleasant it is for brothers to live together in unity!"* Your son, who has a disability, is a precious gift from God, and the attempt to turn your daughters against him is particularly wicked. We pray that their hearts will be softened and their minds renewed to see the truth—that their brother is a blessing, not a burden, and that your love for them has always been steadfast.
As for this young man’s past, while it is true that grace is available to all who repent, **true repentance produces fruit** (Matthew 3:8). If he remains unrepentant in his narcissism, manipulation, and rebellion against godly authority, he is not walking in the grace of God but is instead being used by the enemy. **2 Corinthians 6:14-15 (WEB)** warns, *"Don’t be unequally yoked with unbelievers, for what fellowship have righteousness and iniquity? Or what fellowship has light with darkness? What agreement has Christ with Belial? Or what portion has a believer with an unbeliever?"* Your daughter cannot be in a relationship with someone who is actively working against the things of God. We pray that the Lord will sever this ungodly soul tie and break every emotional and spiritual bond that is not of Him.
Now, let us pray together over this situation:
Heavenly Father, we come before You in the mighty name of Jesus, lifting up this mother and her family. Lord, You see the pain, the division, and the spiritual warfare raging against them. We ask that You, the God of justice and righteousness, intervene with Your mighty hand. Expose every scheme of the enemy—every lie, every manipulation, every attempt to turn these daughters against their mother and brother. Lord, we bind the spirits of narcissism, control, greed, and division in the name of Jesus. We command these spirits to be silenced and cast out, for they have no authority in this family.
Father, we pray for Your supernatural conviction to fall upon this young man and his mother. If they are unsaved, Lord, save them—but do not allow them to continue in their wickedness. If they are saved but walking in rebellion, convict them deeply of their sin and bring them to repentance. Remove their influence over these daughters, Lord. Break every ungodly soul tie, every emotional attachment that is not of You. Sever the bonds of manipulation and deception, and let Your truth prevail.
We pray specifically for your daughters, Lord. Open their eyes to see the truth—that this young man is not the spouse You have for them. If they are in sin, convict them and lead them to repentance. Restore their minds, Father, and remind them of the love they once had for their brother and the respect they once had for their mother. Let them see the financial and emotional destruction this relationship is causing. Give them the strength to walk away, Lord, and to return home where they can be covered in prayer and godly counsel.
We pray for this mother, Father. Fill her with Your peace that surpasses all understanding. Strengthen her, Lord, and let her not grow weary in doing good. Remind her that You are her defender, her protector, and her provider. Let her trust in You completely, knowing that You will fight this battle for her.
We declare **Isaiah 41:10 (WEB)** over her: *"Don’t you be afraid, for I am with you. Don’t be dismayed, for I am your God. I will strengthen you. Yes, I will help you. Yes, I will uphold you with the right hand of my righteousness."* We also declare **Jeremiah 29:11 (WEB)** over this family: *"For I know the thoughts that I think toward you, says Yahweh, thoughts of peace and not of evil, to give you hope and a future."*
Lord, we ask for godly spouses for these daughters—men who love You, who will cherish them as Christ cherishes the church, and who will lead them in Your ways. Prepare their hearts, Lord, and let them wait on You rather than settling for relationships that dishonor You.
We plead the blood of Jesus over this family—over their minds, their hearts, their home, and their future. No weapon formed against them shall prosper. Every tongue that rises against them in judgment, You shall condemn. We declare victory, breakthrough, restoration, peace, love, and joy over them in the name of Jesus.
Finally, Father, we thank You that You hear our prayers and that You are faithful to answer. We trust in Your timing and Your ways, knowing that You work all things together for good for those who love You and are called according to Your purpose.
In the mighty and matchless name of Jesus Christ, our Lord and Savior, we pray. Amen.
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We encourage you to continue standing firm in prayer, sister. Do not waver in your faith, for the Lord is with you. Keep speaking life and truth over your daughters, even when it feels like they are not listening. The enemy wants you to feel hopeless, but **Romans 8:31 (WEB)** asks, *"If God is for us, who can be against us?"* Stay rooted in the Word, surround yourself with godly counsel, and trust that the Lord is working even in the unseen.
If your daughters are believers, remind them of **2 Corinthians 6:14-18 (WEB)**, which calls us to separate from ungodly influences. If they are not yet saved, pray for their salvation and for the Holy Spirit to draw them to Christ. The most powerful thing you can do is live out your faith before them, showing them the love and peace of Christ even in the midst of this storm.
We are standing with you in this fight. Keep praying, keep trusting, and keep declaring the victory of Christ over your family. The Lord will not abandon you.
Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. 
