We join with you in lifting up your daughter and your family before the throne of grace, pleading the precious blood of Jesus Christ over every area of her life. Your heart’s cry for her healing, freedom, and restoration is heard by our Heavenly Father, who loves her even more than we can comprehend. We stand in agreement with you, declaring that the Lord will break every chain of bondage this toxic relationship has placed upon her and restore what the enemy has stolen.
First, we must address the spiritual gravity of the situation your daughter is in. The Word of God is clear that living together outside of marriage is fornication, which is a sin against God and a snare to the soul. *1 Corinthians 6:18* warns, *"Flee sexual immorality! 'Every sin that a man does is outside the body,' but he who commits sexual immorality sins against his own body."* This relationship is not only emotionally and financially destructive but spiritually dangerous. It is built on rebellion against God’s design for marriage and family, and it will only bring further heartache unless she turns away from it completely. The young man’s behavior—his control, manipulation, jealousy, and narcissism—is evidence of a heart that is not submitted to Christ. *Proverbs 22:24-25* says, *"Don’t befriend a hot-tempered man, and don’t associate with one who harbors anger: lest you learn his ways, and ensnare your soul."* Your daughter is in grave danger of being further ensnared, and we must pray urgently for her eyes to be opened to the truth.
We also commend you for recognizing that this young man is not ready for marriage—or any godly relationship. His actions reveal a heart of selfishness, pride, and rebellion, and his parents’ enabling of his behavior only compounds the problem. *2 Timothy 3:1-5* describes the last days as a time when people will be *"lovers of self, lovers of money, boastful, arrogant, blasphemers, disobedient to parents, unthankful, unholy, without natural affection, unforgiving, slanderers, without self-control, fierce, no lovers of good, traitors, headstrong, conceited, lovers of pleasure rather than lovers of God; holding a form of godliness, but having denied its power."* This young man’s behavior aligns with these warnings, and your daughter must be delivered from his influence before further damage is done.
Your prayer for her to return home is wise and aligned with Scripture. *1 Corinthians 15:33* reminds us, *"Don’t be deceived! 'Evil companionships corrupt good morals.'"* The longer she remains in this environment, the more her faith, self-worth, and relationships will suffer. We pray that the Lord will remove every obstacle preventing her from leaving and that He will give her the strength and courage to walk away without looking back. Like the prodigal son, may she come to her senses and return to the safety and love of her family, where she can be restored and healed.
We also lift up your prayer for her health. *James 5:14-15* tells us, *"Is any among you sick? Let him call for the elders of the assembly, and let them pray over him, anointing him with oil in the name of the Lord, and the prayer of faith will heal him who is sick, and the Lord will raise him up."* We ask the Lord to touch her body, to heal her cough, and to restore her strength. May He also provide the means for her to receive the medical care she needs, whether through restored insurance, a godly spouse, or another provision only He can orchestrate.
Your concern for her job is also valid. The enemy seeks to destroy her stability, but we declare *Jeremiah 29:11* over her: *"For I know the thoughts that I think toward you, says Yahweh, thoughts of peace, and not of evil, to give you hope and a future."* This young man’s jealousy and lies have no power over her career. We pray that the Lord will expose his deceit and that your daughter will see the truth—that her employer values her and that her achievements are a blessing from God, not something to be resented.
Most importantly, we pray for her salvation and spiritual awakening if she has not already surrendered her life to Christ. If she has strayed from her faith, we ask the Lord to draw her back to Himself with cords of love. *2 Chronicles 7:14* says, *"If my people, who are called by my name, will humble themselves, pray, seek my face, and turn from their wicked ways, then I will hear from heaven, will forgive their sin, and will heal their land."* Repentance is the first step to freedom. May she turn away from this sinful relationship and seek the Lord with all her heart. Only in Christ will she find the love, worth, and purpose she is searching for.
We also rebuke the spirit of division, manipulation, and chaos that this young man and his family have brought into your home. *Ephesians 6:12* reminds us that *"we don’t wrestle against flesh and blood, but against principalities, against powers, against the world’s rulers of the darkness of this age, and against the spiritual forces of wickedness in the heavenly places."* We bind these evil influences in the name of Jesus and command them to flee from your family. May the Lord place a hedge of protection around your home, your son with disabilities, and every member of your household. We pray for restored unity, peace, and joy in your family, and that the Lord will expose and thwart every scheme of the enemy against you.
Finally, we agree with your prayer for a godly spouse for your daughter—one who will love her as Christ loves the Church, who will cherish and protect her, and who will lead her closer to the Lord. *Proverbs 18:22* says, *"Whoever finds a wife finds a good thing, and obtains favor of Yahweh."* But this can only happen if she first surrenders this current relationship to God and seeks His will above her own desires. We pray that the Lord will prepare her heart for the husband He has for her, one who is grounded in faith and committed to biblical marriage.
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**Our Prayer:**
Heavenly Father, we come before You in the mighty name of Jesus Christ, lifting up this mother’s heartfelt cries for her daughter. Lord, You see the pain, the manipulation, and the spiritual danger she is in. We ask that You break every chain of bondage this toxic relationship has placed upon her. Open her eyes to the truth, Lord—let her see the destruction this young man is causing in her life, her faith, and her family. Convict her heart of the sin of living outside Your will, and give her the strength to flee from this fornication and rebellion.
We plead the blood of Jesus over her health, her mind, her emotions, and her spirit. Heal her body, Lord, and restore her strength. Provide for her financially, whether through a godly spouse, a new job, or another means only You can provide. Protect her current employment from the lies and jealousy of this young man, and let her see the truth—that her employer values her and that her achievements are gifts from You.
Father, we rebuke the spirits of control, manipulation, jealousy, and division that have infiltrated this family. We bind these evil forces in the name of Jesus and command them to flee. Place a hedge of protection around this mother, her son, and every member of her household. Restore unity, peace, and joy to their home, and let Your love cast out all fear and chaos.
Lord, we pray for this young man’s parents—that You would open their eyes to their enabling and that they would take responsibility for their son’s actions. Let them see the damage he is causing and the urgency of correcting his rebellious ways.
Most of all, Father, we pray for this daughter’s salvation and repentance. If she has not surrendered her life to Christ, draw her to Yourself. If she has strayed, bring her back to the fold. Prepare her heart for the godly spouse You have for her, one who will love her as Christ loves the Church. Let her seek You first, above all else, and trust in Your perfect plan for her life.
We thank You, Lord, for Your faithfulness. We declare that no weapon formed against this family shall prosper, and every tongue that rises against them in judgment shall be condemned. We trust in Your power to restore, redeem, and renew all that has been broken.
In the mighty and holy name of Jesus Christ, we pray. Amen.
Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. 
