We stand with you in this spiritual battle for your daughter’s freedom, well-being, and future, and we lift this situation before the Lord with urgency and authority in the name of Jesus Christ. Your heart cry aligns with the Word of God, which warns us against unequally yoked relationships and the dangers of financial and emotional bondage. The Scriptures are clear: *"Don’t be unequally yoked with unbelievers, for what fellowship has righteousness with unrighteousness? What communion has light with darkness?"* (2 Corinthians 6:14, WEB). While we do not know if this young man is a believer, his actions reveal a heart that is not submitted to Christ—selfishness, control, and exploitation are not fruits of the Spirit but of the flesh. Your daughter is trapped in a cycle of sacrifice that is draining her spiritually, emotionally, and financially, and this is not God’s will for her life.
We also recognize the authority you have exercised in the name of Jesus, rebuking the toxic influences and spiritual attacks against your family. The Word declares, *"Submit therefore to God. Resist the devil, and he will flee from you"* (James 4:7, WEB). You have taken a bold stand, and we join you in commanding every demonic stronghold of manipulation, greed, and resentment to be broken in Jesus’ name. The blood of Jesus is our ultimate protection, and we agree with your declaration that no weapon formed against your family shall prosper (Isaiah 54:17).
Yet we must also address the deeper spiritual condition of your daughter’s heart. While we pray for her physical and emotional return to safety, we must also pray for her *spiritual* repentance and surrender. She has allowed this young man to become an idol in her life, placing his desires above her own well-being and—more critically—above her obedience to God. The Bible warns, *"Little children, keep yourselves from idols"* (1 John 5:21, WEB). Her financial submission to him is not just unwise; it is a form of worship given to someone who does not deserve it. We pray that the Holy Spirit will convict her of this truth and lead her to repentance, so she may break free from this emotional and spiritual bondage.
We also pray for the young man and his family. Though their actions are harmful, we do not war against flesh and blood but against the spiritual forces behind their behavior (Ephesians 6:12). We ask God to open their eyes to the destruction they are causing—not just to your daughter, but to their own souls. If they are believers, we pray for conviction and repentance. If they are not, we pray that the Lord would draw them to Himself, for *"God desires all people to be saved and come to full knowledge of the truth"* (1 Timothy 2:4, WEB). However, we do not pray for reconciliation in this relationship, for it is built on a foundation of sin and control. Instead, we pray for a *complete severing* of this ungodly tie, in Jesus’ name.
As for your daughter’s future, we declare the promise of God over her life: *"‘For I know the plans that I have for you,’ says Yahweh, ‘plans of peace, and not of evil, to give you hope and a future’* (Jeremiah 29:11, WEB). She is not meant to live in exhaustion and sacrifice but in the abundant life Christ offers (John 10:10). We pray that the Lord will restore what has been stolen from her—her peace, her financial stability, her joy—and that He will prepare her heart for a *godly* spouse, a man who fears the Lord and will cherish her as Christ cherishes the Church (Ephesians 5:25). But first, she must be fully surrendered to God, walking in obedience and wisdom.
Finally, we encourage you to continue standing in the gap for your daughter through prayer and fasting, if led. Do not grow weary in doing good, for *"in due season we will reap, if we don’t give up"* (Galatians 6:9, WEB). Surround her with godly counsel, Scripture, and the support of a strong Christian community. If she is resistant, pray that the Lord will send laborers into her life who will speak truth to her in love.
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**Our Prayer:**
Heavenly Father, we come before You in the mighty name of Jesus Christ, lifting up this mother’s heartfelt cry for her daughter. Lord, You see the bondage she is in—the financial control, the emotional manipulation, the spiritual deception. We ask that You *break every chain* holding her captive (Psalm 107:14). Expose the lies she has believed and replace them with Your truth. Convict her heart of the idolatry in this relationship and lead her to repentance. Give her the strength to walk away completely, even if it is painful, knowing that Your plans for her are good.
Lord, we rebuke the spirit of greed, control, and deception operating through this young man and his family. We command every demonic influence to flee in Jesus’ name. If they are believers, convict them deeply of their sin. If they are not, soften their hearts to receive Your salvation. But do not allow them to continue harming Your daughter. Cut off their access to her finances, her emotions, and her future. Let every door of opportunity for them to exploit her be *permanently* shut by the power of the Holy Spirit.
Father, we pray for supernatural intervention. Make a way for this young man to move out of her life entirely. Restore what he has stolen—her money, her peace, her health. Provide for her needs, Lord, and open her eyes to see that You alone are her Provider (Philippians 4:19). Surround her with godly friends and mentors who will speak Your Word into her life and help her stand firm.
We declare that no weapon formed against this family shall prosper. We plead the blood of Jesus over every member, binding every curse, every scheme of the enemy, and every word spoken against them in malice. Fill their home with Your peace, which surpasses all understanding (Philippians 4:7).
Lastly, Father, prepare Your daughter for the godly spouse You have for her. Heal her heart from this betrayal, restore her trust in You, and teach her to wait on Your perfect timing. Let her next steps be guided by Your wisdom, not by loneliness or fear.
We thank You, Lord, for hearing our prayers. We trust in Your power to bring freedom, restoration, and victory. In the mighty and matchless name of Jesus Christ, our Savior and Redeemer, we pray. **Amen.**
Col 1:9-12: "We keep asking to be filled with the knowledge of His will in all spiritual wisdom and understanding, so we may walk in a manner worthy of the Lord, to please Him in all respects, bearing fruit in every good work, increasing in the knowledge of God, strengthened with all power, according to His glorious might, for the attaining of all perseverance and patience; joyously giving thanks to the Father". ... I pray in Jesus' Name, Amen.
