We join with you in lifting up your daughter and this urgent situation, for we know the Lord hears the cries of His people and acts powerfully on their behalf. Your heart’s plea aligns with Scripture, which warns us not to be unequally yoked with unbelievers (2 Corinthians 6:14) and to guard our hearts above all else (Proverbs 4:23). This young man and his family’s behavior—marked by control, manipulation, and chaos—is not of God, for the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, and self-control (Galatians 5:22-23). What you describe is the opposite, and we must rebuke the enemy’s influence in this toxic bond that seeks to ensnare your daughter.
The idolization of this man and his family is a spiritual stronghold that must be broken in Jesus’ name. The Bible is clear: we are to worship God alone (Exodus 20:3-5), and no human relationship should take the place of our devotion to Him. Your prayer for your daughter to see the truth is righteous, for the Lord opens the eyes of the blind and sets the captives free (Isaiah 42:7). We declare that the scales will fall from her eyes, just as they did for Saul on the road to Damascus (Acts 9:18), and she will recognize this relationship for what it is—a distraction from God’s perfect will for her life.
You have also prayed wisely for this young man and his family to see his immaturity and for him to be removed from this ungodly living situation. While we pray for his repentance and salvation, we must also acknowledge that his actions are harmful, and separation is necessary for your daughter’s spiritual and emotional well-being. The Bible tells us to “flee from sexual immorality” and avoid even the appearance of evil (1 Corinthians 6:18, 1 Thessalonians 5:22). If this relationship involves cohabitation or any form of fornication, it is sin, and we must call it what it is—disobedience to God’s design for purity and marriage. Your daughter must turn away from this chaos and return to the safety of her family, where she can be covered in prayer and restored in the Lord.
We stand with you in praying for her future—one that includes a godly spouse who loves the Lord with all his heart and walks in integrity. Marriage is a sacred covenant before God, and we ask the Lord to prepare her heart to wait on Him, trusting that His timing is perfect (Psalm 37:4-5). Let her not settle for counterfeit love but hold out for the man who will lead her spiritually, cherish her as Christ loves the church, and build a home founded on God’s Word (Ephesians 5:25-33).
Your declaration of restoration is powerful, for the Lord promises to repay what the locusts have eaten (Joel 2:25). The enemy has sought to steal, kill, and destroy (John 10:10), but Jesus came to give life abundantly. We decree that every plan of the enemy against your daughter and your family is nullified by the blood of Jesus. No weapon formed against you will prosper (Isaiah 54:17), and the peace of God, which surpasses all understanding, will guard your hearts and minds in Christ Jesus (Philippians 4:7).
Now, let us pray together:
Heavenly Father, we come before You in the mighty name of Jesus, lifting up this mother’s cry for her daughter. Lord, You see the deception, the manipulation, and the chaos that has ensnared her. We ask You to break every ungodly soul tie between her and this young man, severing the emotional and spiritual bonds that have kept her bound. Father, open her eyes to see the truth—that this relationship is not from You and that her worth and identity are found in Christ alone. Convict her heart, Lord, and give her the strength to walk away without looking back, just as Lot’s wife was warned not to linger (Genesis 19:17).
We pray for divine intervention in this young man’s life and his family. Expose their sin, Lord, and bring conviction that leads to repentance. If it is Your will, cause circumstances to arise that remove him from this ungodly living situation and return him to his family, where he may face the consequences of his actions. Father, we ask that Your hand of protection be over this daughter, shielding her from further harm. Draw her back to her family, where she can be surrounded by love, prayer, and godly counsel.
Lord, we pray for her future spouse—a man after Your own heart, who will love her as You do and lead her in righteousness. Prepare her now, Father, to be a woman of prayer, purity, and patience, waiting on Your perfect timing. Restore what has been stolen from her—her peace, her joy, her confidence in You. Let her testimony be one of redemption, where You turned her mourning into dancing and clothed her with gladness (Psalm 30:11).
We declare Your divine protection over this entire family. No scheme of the enemy will prevail, for greater is He who is in us than he who is in the world (1 John 4:4). Fill their home with Your presence, Lord, and let Your peace reign in their hearts. We thank You, Father, for hearing our prayers and for the victory that is already won through Jesus Christ, our Lord.
In the mighty and matchless name of Jesus, we pray. Amen.
Finally, we encourage you to continue standing in faith, speaking life and truth over your daughter. Do not grow weary in prayer, for the effective, fervent prayer of a righteous person avails much (James 5:16). Keep declaring God’s promises over her, and trust that He is working even when you cannot see it. If your daughter is a believer, remind her of her identity in Christ and the freedom He offers. If she is not yet saved, pray for her salvation above all else, for apart from Christ, there is no true peace or fulfillment (John 14:6). Stay steadfast, for the Lord is faithful to complete the work He has begun (Philippians 1:6).
Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. 
