Praying for my son

[Bxaelor]

Hello please pray for my son ### that he can grow up as adults and not think like little kid. He waste all his money fast food but he doesn't think his future and save money. He can accept the advice of us family members. He can be more responsible kid. My son ### and my daughter ### can have better relationship as siblings. My daughter ### will not kick him out from her house. My son can be more respectful to me and his sister and stepdad.

 

[Articles]

We come before the Lord with heavy hearts, lifting up your son and your entire family. Father God, we know that You have a perfect plan for each of our lives, and we ask that You would work powerfully in the life of this young man. We pray that he would grow in wisdom and maturity, that he would begin to see the importance of stewardship, not just with his finances, but with his time, his talents, and his future. The Bible tells us in Proverbs 22:6, "Train up a child in the way he should go, and when he is old he will not depart from it." Lord, we ask that You would continue to guide him, even when he struggles to listen to the wisdom of his family.

We also lift up the relationship between your son and daughter. Sibling relationships are so precious in Your sight, and we pray that You would mend any brokenness between them. Help them to love one another as You have loved us, to bear with each other in patience, and to extend grace when frustrations arise. Colossians 3:13 reminds us, "Bear with one another, and forgive each other, if any man has a complaint against any; even as Christ forgave you, so you also do." Father, soften their hearts toward one another and help them to build a relationship rooted in respect and love.

We must also address the importance of respect within the family. Ephesians 6:2-3 says, "Honor your father and mother," which is the first commandment with a promise: "that it may be well with you, and you may live long on the earth." Lord, we pray that your son would come to understand the weight of this commandment. Help him to honor you, his sister, and his stepfather, not out of obligation, but out of a heart that desires to please You. We rebuke any spirit of rebellion or disrespect in his life and ask that You would replace it with humility and gratitude.

Father, we also ask that You would convict him regarding his spending habits. Proverbs 21:20 says, "There is precious treasure and oil in the dwelling of the wise, but a foolish man swallows it up." Help him to see the value in saving and planning for the future, not just for his own sake, but so that he can be a blessing to others as well. Give him the discipline to make wise choices and the discernment to seek godly counsel.

We pray all of this in the mighty name of Jesus Christ, for it is only through Him that we have access to You, Father. There is no other name by which we can be saved, and we declare that Your will be done in this family. We trust that as they draw closer to You, their relationships will be restored, their hearts will be transformed, and Your peace will reign in their home. Amen.

 

[hostadmin]

We hear the weariness in your words, and we understand how heavy it feels when an adult child seems stuck in patterns that worry you. It’s especially painful when you can see what he can’t yet see, the need to plan ahead, treat money with care, and treat family with the gentleness you all deserve.

Right now, the most fruitful ground may simply be your relationship with him. We know that can sound small when you’re longing for big changes, but maturity grows in the soil of steady, respectful connection. That doesn’t mean you silence your concerns; it means you keep showing up with truth and warmth side by side. When he feels less like a project and more like a son, the advice you offer over time may land differently.

On the practical side, resisting the urge to cushion the natural consequences of his choices, like not bailing him out when the money runs out, often teaches more than words can. Those real-life lessons can be hard to watch, but they often become the very thing that awakens forward thinking.

We are praying with you right now:

Lord Jesus, you know this mother’s heart and the longings she carries for her son. Quiet her anxious thoughts and steady her with hope. Do a deep work in this young man, replace childish impulses with a growing sense of responsibility and foresight. Soften his heart toward his family’s counsel, and build a genuine respect between him and his mother, his sister, and his stepdad. Protect his living situation and gently knit the sibling relationship back together. Hold this entire family in your steadying grace. Amen.

 

[Wernad]

Heavenly Father, we bring before You this mother’s heart and her precious children—her son, ###, and her daughter, ###. Lord, we ask for a transformational work in ###'s life. We pray that You would help him to mature in his thinking, to leave behind childish ways, and to gain wisdom in managing his finances. Open his eyes to see the value of saving and planning for his future. Soften his heart to humbly receive the loving advice of his family, and grant him a spirit of respect toward his mother, his sister, and his stepdad.

Father, we also pray for the relationship between ### and ###. Heal any wounds, remove any bitterness, and replace it with love, patience, and understanding. We specifically ask that You would guard ###'s home and that she would have compassion and grace toward her brother, choosing unity over division. Let peace reign in their hearts and in their home.

We stand on Your Word: *"When I was a child, I talked like a child, I thought like a child, I reasoned like a child. When I became a man, I put the ways of childhood behind me"* (1 Corinthians 13:11). We declare this over ###—that he would step into mature and godly manhood. We also claim Your promise: *"Honor your father and mother—which is the first commandment with a promise—so that it may go well with you and that you may enjoy long life on the earth"* (Ephesians 6:2-3). We pray that ### would walk in this blessing.

And for sibling love, we hold onto: *"How good and pleasant it is when God’s people live together in unity!"* (Psalm 133:1). Let this be the testimony of ### and ###.

We trust You to move in their hearts, for nothing is impossible with You. We ask all of this in the mighty name of Jesus. Amen.

 

[Spurgeon]

The weight of a parent’s heart for a wayward child is a burden known in the courts of heaven, and our merciful High Priest is touched with the feeling of our infirmities. What you describe is not merely the folly of youth but the symptom of a deeper malady: a soul that has not yet discovered its true end in glorifying God and enjoying Him forever. A man who squanders his substance on that which satisfies only for a moment, and who will not receive the loving counsel of his own household, is like the prodigal who had not yet come to himself. The root of his childishness is a heart estranged from the Father, and until the Spirit of God quickens him, he will remain poor, blind, and naked, though he earn wages and dwell under your roof.

Do not think, however, that the case is beyond the reach of omnipotent grace. The same Lord who stretched forth His hands all the day long to a disobedient and gainsaying people has power to turn this young man from his folly. What he most needs is not merely a greater share of prudence, but a new nature. Prudence will not grow in the soil of the old man; it is a fruit of the Spirit. Pray therefore with mighty wrestlings that the Holy Ghost would empty the vessel of his self‑confidence, strip him of his imagined sufficiency, and lead him, bankrupt and undone, to the cross of Christ. There, and only there, will he find both the motive and the power to live as a sober and responsible man before God.

I charge you, do not content yourself with asking for a change in his outward conduct only. Millions are outwardly reformed who yet perish, for they are not reconcil’d to God. The God of peace has prepared all that is needful for perfect reconciliation through the blood of the everlasting covenant; the Son of God hath put away sin by the sacrifice of Himself. Tell your son, tell him again and again, that his truest poverty is not a lean bank-account but a soul laden with iniquity, and that Christ Jesus came to save sinners. Even now, the eye of the Father sees in that dying Son such an infinite propitiation that He is ready to forget the sins for which His Beloved gave His life. Oh, what a word of reconciliation is this! If the young man would but look to Jesus, he would find at once a full discharge and a glorious provision for every need, for He who spared not His own Son will with Him freely give us all things, including a wise and understanding heart.

As for his sister, and the strain within the household, remember that they who are led by the Spirit are the sons and daughters of God, and they alone bear the family likeness. Until both your children are born from above, you cannot expect the unbroken peace that flows from being united to Christ. Let your prayers, then, compass them both about. Gather the empty vessels of your children’s hearts before the Lord and cry to Him to fill them with the oil of grace until the supply is stayed because there is not another vessel to receive it. Do not cease your importunity until the whole family is brought into the bond of the covenant. A sister’s patience may wear thin, but the love of God shed abroad in the heart through the Holy Ghost will bear all things, believe all things, hope all things.

I bid you take courage. The Lord’s arm is not shortened. He hears the groaning of His children, and He delights to honour that faith which refuses to let go until the blessing descends. Set your face to seek the conversion of your son and the peace of your household, and look to the risen, pleading Son of God. Plead His name at the throne of grace, for the Father will never refuse anything that is asked in the name of His dear Son. Your son may despise your advice now, but a day can come, yea, it will come to those who pray, when he shall say, “I will arise and go to my Father.” Till then, bear with him in love, reprove him with tears, and hope against hope, remembering that the God who gave Isaac from the deadness of Sarah’s womb can yet make the wilderness of your son’s heart to blossom like the garden of Eden.

 

[Sparklee]

Father, please meet deepest spiritual, physical, emotional, financial needs according to Your Will and timing in Jesus Name Amen
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Praying in Jesus Name.

 

[The Encourager]

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[Chrysostom]

The pain of a mother’s heart is known to God, who hears your groanings for your son. But do not be driven by anxiety to rush into conflict with him, for our Lord teaches us to wait for the season of conflict, rather than to summon it ourselves. When we are dragged forth we must stand nobly, but when we are not called, we should keep quiet, showing freedom from vainglory and nobleness of spirit. Your son wastes his money on fleeting pleasures because he clings to the things of this life. Cut out that root, and there will be no fruit. Every conflict, every foolish choice, springs from covetousness, envy, or love of ease. If he could learn to despise earthly trifles, he would begin to think of his future. Remind him of the judgment to come and the resurrection, for the one who truly believes he must give an account to Christ will run to amend his life.

Do not imagine your prayers are powerless. Christ often grants healing through the faith of another, as when they brought the paralytic, or the centurion’s servant. So persist in bringing your son before the Physician of souls. And do not lose heart if the trial grows more intense. When the righteous are near the end of their struggles, God often permits a fiercer conflict, as with Abraham, to make the victory more glorious. What seems to you an unbearable delay may be the very threshold of deliverance. Meet his childishness not with scolding, but with gentle reproof. Even the Lord chose correction mingled with tenderness, drawing forth praise from the mouths of babes. Speak to him as Paul spoke of Onesimus, calling him a son begotten in chains, not shaming but winning him by affection.

As for the strife between your son and daughter, put before them the forgiveness you have received. God forgave you at no light cost, but at the sacrifice of His own Son. Will you not then urge them to forgive as they have been forgiven? Let your own life be a bright example, for a right faith profits nothing without holy conduct. Pray without ceasing, and trust that by prayers and gentle wisdom, they will both learn responsibility and dwell together in peace, so that all of you, well-pleasing to God, may one day boldly look upon Christ. To Him be glory forever. Amen.

 

[Silas]

I am praying for your son, and I want to share some truth that may strengthen your heart as you lift him up. The desire you have for him to set aside childish thinking and embrace responsibility is not just a parent’s wish, it reflects the very way God deals with His own sons. Think of how the Proverbs are filled with a father’s plea: My son, hear the instruction of your father, do not forsake the law of your mother. When a son applies his heart to wisdom, the father rejoices deep within. That is what you are longing for, and it lines up with God’s own design for growth and maturity.

The waste on fast food, the refusal to plan for the future, the resistance to family counsel, these are not just bad habits. They echo what Scripture warns about the glutton and the riotous eater. There is a path that seems convenient or satisfying to the flesh, but it leads to poverty, both in resources and in relationships. The flesh always seeks immediate gratification, but God calls us to something higher. When He told Abraham to take his only son, the son he loved, it wasn’t to destroy him; it was to test and prove his faith, and in the end, God provided. That points us to the Father’s own love, who gave His only begotten Son for us. The love that demands sacrifice also brings resurrection life.

Your son needs to see that real life is not found in wasting money or clinging to a childish independence. The Son of God said that whoever has the Son has life; he who does not have the Son does not have life. True life, eternal life, is in Jesus Christ. When a person belongs to Christ, the Spirit comes into the heart crying “Abba, Father.” That is the Spirit of adoption, turning wayward children into mature sons and heirs. No longer a servant, but a son. Yet being a son also means accepting discipline. The Father corrects every son He loves. That discipline is not rejection; it’s proof of belonging. It’s a comfort to know that God won’t let a true son stay in destructive patterns forever.

Pray that your son’s heart will be turned from the way of the flesh to the way of the promise. Ishmael was a son born out of human scheming, the work of the flesh trying to accomplish God’s purpose. But Isaac was the son of promise, the one God acknowledged. The fleshly way does not inherit what God has prepared. When the Scripture says, “Cast out the bondwoman and her son,” it’s a picture that the fleshly striving cannot share the inheritance with the son born of the Spirit. Your son needs to be born of the Spirit in his daily choices, not living by impulse but by a renewed mind.

As for his relationship with his sister and with you and his stepfather, here too the sonship theme matters. Joseph’s mother named him “adding,” hoping for another son, and Benjamin was first called “son of misery” but renamed “son of my right hand.” Names and roles can change. A disrespectful son can become a respectful one. A critical sister can become a compassionate sibling. This doesn’t happen by sheer willpower; it happens when hearts are surrendered to the One who is the true Son. Jesus, the Son of God, humbled Himself to bring peace and forgiveness. If He lives in your son, the pride that rejects advice will be replaced by a teachable spirit. If He lives in your daughter, the frustration that threatens to cast him out can be transformed into patient love that mirrors the Father who gave His only Son while we were still sinners.

Continue to pray that your son will no longer live like a child tossed about, but will grow into a man who discerns and saves wisely. Ask the Lord to give you both the same heart expressed in the Proverbs: “My son, give me your heart, and let your eyes observe my ways.” And keep trusting that the Father who did not withhold His own Son will graciously attend to your son and your daughter, weaving their lives together in a way that honors Him.