We join you in lifting up your heart to the Lord, giving thanks for His faithfulness in your life and the lives of your children. It is beautiful to see your gratitude for the Trinity—Father, Son, and Holy Spirit—and your prayers for Jerusalem, America, and those around you. We also praise God that you are seeking Him in Jesus’ name, for it is only through Christ that we have access to the Father and find salvation. As Scripture declares, *"There is salvation in no one else, for there is no other name under heaven that is given among men, by which we must be saved!"* (Acts 4:12, WEB).
Your situation is heavy with the pain of broken trust, manipulation, and the strain of a marriage that has strayed far from God’s design. We grieve with you over the ways your spouse has acted against you—through drunkenness, bullying, turning your children against you, and fostering division. The Lord sees the injustice and the weariness you carry. He is a God of justice, and He cares deeply for the oppressed. *"The Lord executes righteous acts, and justice for all who are oppressed."* (Psalm 103:6, WEB). You are not alone in this fight, and we stand with you in prayer for God’s intervention, wisdom, and protection over you and your children.
First, we must address the state of your marriage. Marriage is a covenant before God, intended to reflect Christ’s love for the Church (Ephesians 5:22-33). Yet, your spouse’s actions—drunkenness, bullying, manipulation, and turning your children against you—are not only harmful but sinful. Scripture is clear: *"Don’t be deceived! ‘Evil companionships corrupt good morals.’"* (1 Corinthians 15:33, WEB). Your spouse’s behavior has not only harmed you but is now influencing your children to rebel against you, which is a grievous sin. While divorce is not God’s ideal, Scripture acknowledges that in cases of unrepentant sin, abandonment, or abuse, separation may be necessary for safety and godliness (1 Corinthians 7:15, Matthew 19:9). You have taken a difficult but necessary step in filing for divorce, and we pray God grants you clarity, strength, and righteousness in this process.
We also urge you to seek godly counsel—whether from a pastor, biblical counselor, or trusted believers—who can walk with you through this season. *"Where there is no counsel, plans fail; but in a multitude of counselors they are established."* (Proverbs 15:22, WEB). This is not a battle you should fight alone, and the body of Christ is meant to support and uphold you in truth.
Regarding your children, we pray fervently that the Lord breaks the chains of manipulation your spouse has placed on them. *"Fathers, don’t provoke your children to anger, but nurture them in the discipline and instruction of the Lord."* (Ephesians 6:4, WEB). Your spouse’s actions are provoking your children to anger and division, which is not of God. We pray the Holy Spirit opens their eyes to the truth, softens their hearts toward you, and protects them from further emotional harm. *"Don’t let anyone despise your youth, but be an example to those who believe, in word, in your way of life, in love, in spirit, in faith, and in purity."* (1 Timothy 4:12, WEB). May your children see the love of Christ in you and turn away from the deception being sown in their hearts.
We also notice your prayers for reconciliation with someone you refer to as "###". You mention caring for this person, praying for their relationship with another, and desiring unbroken communication. Beloved, we must speak truth in love here. If this person is someone other than your spouse, we urge you to examine this relationship carefully in light of Scripture. If you are not yet divorced, pursuing emotional or romantic connections outside your marriage is adultery in God’s eyes (Matthew 5:28). Even if you are separated, God calls us to purity and faithfulness. *"Marriage is honorable in all, and the bed is undefiled; but God will judge the sexually immoral and adulterers."* (Hebrews 13:4, WEB). If this is a friendship, ensure it is above reproach and not emotionally entangled in ways that could lead to sin. If this is a potential romantic relationship, we strongly encourage you to wait until your divorce is finalized—and even then, to pursue relationships only with believers who honor God’s design for marriage.
If this person is a friend or family member, we pray for godly, healthy relationships that honor the Lord. But if there is any hint of romantic or emotional attachment while you are still married, we must rebuke this strongly. *"Let marriage be held in honor among all, and let the bed be undefiled; for God will judge the sexually immoral and adulterers."* (Hebrews 13:4, WEB). Your focus now must be on seeking the Lord’s will for your marriage, your children, and your own healing—not on pursuing another relationship. Repent if there has been any emotional or physical infidelity, and turn fully to the Lord for fulfillment.
You also mention working two jobs to provide for your family, and we commend your diligence. *"If anyone doesn’t provide for his own, and especially his own household, he has denied the faith, and is worse than an unbeliever."* (1 Timothy 5:8, WEB). We pray the Lord provides for your needs—housing, stability, and peace—as you seek custody of your children. *"Don’t be anxious for anything, but in everything, by prayer and petition with thanksgiving, let your requests be made known to God. And the peace of God, which surpasses all understanding, will guard your hearts and your thoughts in Christ Jesus."* (Philippians 4:6-7, WEB). Trust that He sees your sacrifices and will not abandon you.
Lastly, we join you in praying for maturity, wisdom, and the fruit of the Spirit in your life. *"But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faith, gentleness, and self-control. Against such things there is no law."* (Galatians 5:22-23, WEB). May the Lord fill you with His peace, replace your anger with His gentleness, and guard your heart against bitterness. *"Be angry, and don’t sin. Don’t let the sun go down on your wrath, and don’t give place to the devil."* (Ephesians 4:26-27, WEB). When conflicts arise, may the Holy Spirit give you the words to speak in love and truth.
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**Our Prayer for You:**
Heavenly Father, we come before You on behalf of our sister, lifting her burdens to Your throne of grace. Lord, You see the pain she carries—the betrayal, the manipulation, the weariness of fighting for her children and her home. We ask You to be her Defender, her Provider, and her Peace. *"The Lord is my rock, my fortress, and my deliverer; my God, my rock, in whom I take refuge; my shield, and the horn of my salvation, my high tower."* (Psalm 18:2, WEB).
Father, we pray for justice in her marriage. If there is any hope of repentance and restoration, convict her spouse deeply of his sins and lead him to true repentance. But if his heart remains hardened, Lord, grant her the strength to walk in obedience to You, even if that means separation. Protect her legally, financially, and emotionally as she files for divorce and seeks custody of her children. Provide a home for her and her children—open doors no man can shut, and supply all their needs according to Your riches in glory.
Lord, we rebuke the spirit of division and manipulation at work in her children’s hearts. Break every lie the enemy has sown through their father’s words. *"No weapon that is formed against you will prevail; and you will condemn every tongue that rises against you in judgment. This is the heritage of Yahweh’s servants, and their righteousness is from me," says Yahweh.* (Isaiah 54:17, WEB). Restore the bonds between her and her children, Lord. Soften their hearts and open their eyes to the truth. Let them see her love, her sacrifices, and her faith in You.
Father, we also pray for wisdom in her relationships. If there is any emotional or romantic entanglement outside her marriage, convict her deeply and lead her to repentance. Purify her heart, Lord, and guard her from temptation. *"Create in me a clean heart, O God. Renew a right spirit within me."* (Psalm 51:10, WEB). Let her find her fulfillment in You alone during this season.
We pray for her two jobs—that You would sustain her strength, grant her favor with her employers, and provide supernaturally for her needs. *"My God will supply every need of yours according to his riches in glory in Christ Jesus."* (Philippians 4:19, WEB). Let her not grow weary in doing good, but trust You to fight for her.
Fill her with Your Spirit, Lord. Let her walk in maturity, wisdom, and the fruit of the Spirit. When anger rises, let her respond in gentleness. When fear comes, let her rest in Your peace. *"Don’t be afraid, for I am with you. Don’t be dismayed, for I am your God. I will strengthen you. Yes, I will help you. Yes, I will uphold you with the right hand of my righteousness."* (Isaiah 41:10, WEB).
Finally, Father, we pray for the person she mentioned—if this relationship is pure and godly, bless it and use it for Your glory. But if it is not, Lord, expose it, convict her, and lead her to walk in holiness. Let her seek You first above all else.
We declare victory in her life, in her home, and in her children’s hearts. *"The thief only comes to steal, kill, and destroy. I came that they may have life, and may have it abundantly."* (John 10:10, WEB). Restore what the locusts have eaten, Lord. Bring beauty from these ashes.
In the mighty name of Jesus Christ, our Savior and Redeemer, we pray. Amen.
Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. 
