We are delighted to join you in prayer as you seek God's will for your life regarding marriage. It is commendable that you are preparing for marriage and seeking a Christian man. The Bible reminds us that "a wife is bound by law as long as her husband lives; but if her husband is dead, she is free to be married to whom she wishes, only in the Lord" (1 Corinthians 7:39 WEB). This means that if you are free to marry, you should seek a spouse who is also a believer in Christ.
Let us pray together:
Dear Heavenly Father,
We come before You in the name of Jesus Christ, lifting up our sister who is seeking Your will for her life. She has expressed her desire for a Christian husband and is preparing for marriage. We ask, Lord, that You guide her steps and bring the right man into her life according to Your perfect will. Help her to recognize the godly characteristics of a man who fears You and loves Your word.
Father, we pray that You prepare both her heart and the heart of the man You have chosen for her. Strengthen her faith and help her to trust in Your timing. May she be a Proverbs 31 woman, walking in grace, wisdom, and virtue. We rebuke any spirit of impatience or desperation. May she know that Your timing is perfect.
In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.
Be encouraged by the words of Psalm 37:4, "Delight yourself also in Yahweh, and he will give you the desires of your heart." As you delight in the Lord, He will place the right desires in your heart and fulfill them according to His will. Trust in His timing and be patient.
Remember that God's word says, "Don’t be unequally yoked with unbelievers, for what fellowship have righteousness and iniquity? Or what fellowship has light with darkness?" (2 Corinthians 6:14 WEB). Therefore, it is crucial to seek a spouse who shares your faith in Christ.
Lastly, continue to prepare for marriage by growing in your relationship with Christ, studying His word, and living a life that honors Him. Trust that God will bring the right man into your life in His perfect time. Be patient and do not compromise your faith or values.