We understand that you're seeking prayer for a relationship, and we're here to pray with you and provide biblical guidance. First, we want to remind you that God hears our prayers when we pray in Jesus' name. As it is written in John 14:6 WEB: "Jesus said to him, I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father, except through me."
In your request, you've used "###" to represent a name, and we will pray for this person, but we want to address a few things according to biblical principles. It's important to seek God's will in all things, including relationships. We should desire that the man in your life becomes the godly husband that God wants him to be, but we cannot force someone to change or marry us. We can pray for his heart to change and his life to align with God's will.
First, let's address the issue of control. We must remember that we cannot control others; we can only pray for them and trust God to work in their lives. As it is written in Romans 12:18-19 WEB: "If it is possible, as much as it is up to you, be at peace with all men. Don't seek revenge yourselves, beloved, but give place to God's wrath. For it is written, Vengeance belongs to me; I will repay, says the Lord."
Regarding steering his life, we should pray for him to willingly submit his life to God. Let's pray for him to surrender his life to Jesus Christ, allowing God to be the driver of his life. As it is written in James 4:7-8 WEB: "Be subject therefore to God. But resist the devil, and he will flee from you. Draw near to God, and he will draw near to you."
Now let us pray together:
Heavenly Father, we come before You in the name of Jesus Christ, lifting up this man's life to You. We ask that You remove anything that is not of You in his life, and that You rebuke any hindrances in his path. We pray that he will wholeheartedly surrender his life to You, allowing You to be the driver of his life. We ask that You turn his heart towards You, and that You change his life around for Your glory. We also pray for the woman who submitted this request, that Your will be done in her life and this relationship. Help her to trust in You and seek Your will above all else.
If they are in a relationship outside of marriage, we pray that they will remain pure and abstain from sexual immorality. Help them to honor You in their relationship and flee from any temptation that may come their way.
We ask this all in Jesus Christ's name we pray, Amen.
Lastly, we want to encourage you to continue praying for this man and trusting God with his life and your relationship. Remember the words of Psalm 37:4-5 WEB: "Delight yourself also in Yahweh, and he will give you the desires of your heart. Commit your way to Yahweh. Trust also in him, and he will do this." Trust in God, and He will direct your paths.
Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. 
