We hear your cry for help and lift you up before the throne of grace, where our Heavenly Father sees your pain, your struggles, and your heart’s desire for freedom and healing. You have taken a bold and beautiful step in confessing your faith in Jesus Christ, and we rejoice in that decision. However, we must address the deep wounds and spiritual battles you are facing with truth and love, for the enemy seeks to steal, kill, and destroy, but Jesus came that you may have life—and have it abundantly (John 10:10).
First, we must rebuke the lies and manipulation you are enduring. Your mother’s actions—turning off your fridge, withholding support, and attempting to label you as "sick" to justify her neglect—are not of God. The Bible is clear: "But if anyone does not provide for his own, and especially for those of his own house, he has denied the faith and is worse than an unbeliever" (1 Timothy 5:8). This is not a condemnation but a call to truth. You are not a burden, and your needs are valid in the eyes of the Lord. The enemy wants you to believe you are alone, but God promises, "I will never leave you nor forsake you" (Hebrews 13:5). We also rebuke the spiritual deception in your mother’s life, as Scripture warns against false teachings and those who lead others astray (Matthew 24:24). A Catholic minister, while perhaps well-intentioned, cannot offer the fullness of salvation that comes only through faith in Jesus Christ alone. There is no other name under heaven by which we must be saved (Acts 4:12).
We must also address the bondage you mentioned—drugs, alcohol, and the weight of hatred. These are not just struggles; they are chains the enemy has used to keep you from walking in the freedom Christ died to give you. Jesus said, "The Spirit of the Lord is on me, because he has anointed me to preach good news to the poor. He has sent me to heal the brokenhearted, to proclaim release to the captives, and recovering of sight to the blind, to deliver those who are crushed" (Luke 4:18). You are not defined by these battles. You are a child of God, called to walk in victory. But victory requires action on your part. You must flee from temptation (1 Corinthians 6:18), seek godly community (Hebrews 10:24-25), and renew your mind with the Word of God (Romans 12:2). If you are in a place where you can access biblical counseling or a Christ-centered recovery program, we strongly encourage you to do so. The Lord often works through His people to bring healing and restoration.
As for your desire for a new life, we declare that over you in Jesus’ name. The apostle Paul wrote, "If anyone is in Christ, he is a new creation. The old things have passed away. Behold, all things have become new" (2 Corinthians 5:17). This is not just a future hope; it is a present reality. But transformation requires surrender. You must lay down your burdens at the feet of Jesus and trust Him to carry them. We also encourage you to seek out a local church where you can grow in your faith, find support, and be discipled. The body of Christ is designed to bear one another’s burdens (Galatians 6:2), and you should not walk this path alone.
Now, let us pray for you:
Heavenly Father, we come before You with heavy hearts, lifting up this precious daughter of Yours. Lord, You see her pain, her struggles, and her desire for freedom. We ask that You would break every chain of addiction, bitterness, and despair in her life. Fill her with Your Holy Spirit, that she may walk in the power and victory that is hers through Christ Jesus. Father, we rebuke the spirit of manipulation and control operating in her mother’s life. We ask that You would soften her mother’s heart, open her eyes to the truth of Your Word, and bring conviction where there is sin. Lord, provide for this sister’s needs—food, shelter, and safety—according to Your riches in glory. Surround her with godly men and women who will speak life into her, encourage her, and help her grow in her faith.
Father, we also pray for her as a mother. Strengthen her to raise her child in the ways of the Lord, that this little one may know Your love and truth. Protect her from the schemes of the enemy and give her wisdom to make decisions that honor You. Lord, we ask that You would restore what has been broken—her relationships, her health, and her hope. Let her see that her identity is found in You alone, not in the lies of the enemy or the words of those who seek to harm her.
We declare that she is more than a conqueror through Christ who loves her (Romans 8:37). We speak healing over her mind, body, and spirit. We ask that You would open doors of opportunity for her—jobs, housing, and godly friendships—that will help her walk in the new life You have for her. And Lord, we pray that she would continue to seek You with all her heart, knowing that You are faithful to complete the good work You have begun in her (Philippians 1:6).
In the mighty name of Jesus, we pray. Amen.
We encourage you to hold fast to the promises of God, even when circumstances seem impossible. The road to freedom is not always easy, but it is worth it. Seek out a Bible-believing church where you can find community and accountability. If you are struggling with addiction, consider reaching out to a Christian recovery program or counselor who can walk with you through this journey. You are not alone, and the Lord is fighting for you. Keep pressing into Him, and He will lead you into the new life He has prepared for you.