We join you in lifting up this heavy burden before the Lord, and we are grateful you have called upon the name of Jesus Christ in this request, for it is only through Him that we find true hope and deliverance. The struggles you describe are deeply painful—relentless emotional manipulation, disrespect for boundaries, mockery of faith, and the exhaustion of caring for someone whose behavior is controlled by unchecked mental and spiritual brokenness. This is not a burden you were meant to carry alone, and we stand with you in prayer, asking God to intervene mightily in ways only He can.
First, we must acknowledge the difficult truth that while we are called to love and pray for those who struggle, we are *not* called to enable sinful behavior—whether in ourselves or others. The constant demands, anger, and control your brother exerts are not only emotionally draining but also *sinful* in their refusal to honor God’s commandments to love, respect, and live peaceably. Scripture warns us in **Proverbs 22:24-25 (WEB)**, *"Don’t befriend a hot-tempered man, and don’t associate with one who harbors anger: lest you learn his ways, and ensnare your soul."* While we must extend grace, we are also responsible for setting godly boundaries to protect our own well-being—and that of your mother, who is equally vulnerable in this situation.
Your brother’s refusal to acknowledge your medical needs, his mockery of your faith, and his insistence on dominating your mother’s life are not merely symptoms of mental illness but also manifestations of a heart that is in rebellion against God. **James 4:7 (WEB)** commands, *"Be subject therefore to God. But resist the devil, and he will flee from you."* This is a spiritual battle as much as it is a mental and emotional one. We must pray not only for healing but for *repentance*—that God would break through the hardness of his heart and bring him to a place of surrender before the Lord. Without this, no amount of human effort, medication, or intervention will bring lasting change.
We also recognize the weight of your own health struggles and the miracle of this job God has provided. It is *not* selfish to prioritize your healing and the responsibilities God has placed before you. In fact, **1 Timothy 5:8 (WEB)** tells us, *"But if anyone doesn’t provide for his own, and especially his own household, he has denied the faith, and is worse than an unbeliever."* Your need to focus on your treatment and work is *righteous*, and your brother’s demands are *unrighteous*. You are not obligated to answer every call, justify your boundaries, or submit to his emotional tyranny. **Proverbs 4:23 (WEB)** reminds us, *"Keep your heart with all diligence, for out of it is everything you do."* Protecting your peace is an act of stewardship before God.
As for your mother, we pray for her *strength* to say no and her *freedom* from fear. **2 Timothy 1:7 (WEB)** declares, *"For God didn’t give us a spirit of fear, but of power, love, and self-control."* She does not have to submit to this trip if it is not wise or safe. We ask God to give her courage to speak truthfully and to release any guilt or obligation that is not from Him. If your brother reacts with anger, that is *his* sin to bear, not hers.
Now, let us pray together:
Heavenly Father, we come before You in the mighty name of Jesus Christ, lifting up this family in their deep distress. Lord, You see the exhaustion, the manipulation, the mockery, and the unrelenting burden they carry. We ask for Your supernatural intervention in the mind and heart of this young man. Where there is mental brokenness, bring healing. Where there is spiritual rebellion, bring conviction. Where there is anger and control, bring repentance. Lord, *break* the chains of autism and mental illness that have distorted his thinking, but even more, *break* the hardness of his heart that resists You. Draw him to Yourself, Lord Jesus, for apart from You, there is no true peace.
We pray for wisdom and *firm boundaries* for our sister and her mother. Give them the strength to say no without guilt, to protect their peace without shame, and to trust You with the consequences. Lord, You have provided this job and this treatment—guard them from distraction and exhaustion. Let no weapon formed against their focus prosper. Surround your daughter with Your peace as she undergoes this difficult medical season. Be her healer, her provider, and her shield.
For their mother, we ask for *boldness*. Remove the spirit of fear that has kept her bound. Let her know that her worth is not found in pleasing her son but in pleasing You. If it is Your will for him to live independently, open that door *supernaturally*—but not at her expense. Provide a way for her to rest, to recover, and to live without the weight of his demands.
Finally, Lord, we rebuke the enemy’s work in this situation. Every spirit of control, anger, mockery, and fear must *flee* in the name of Jesus. We declare that *no* weapon formed against this family shall prosper, and every tongue that rises against them in judgment shall be condemned (Isaiah 54:17). Bring Your peace, Your provision, and Your *deliverance*.
We ask all this in the powerful name of Jesus Christ, our Lord and Savior, who alone can set the captive free. Amen.
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Stay strong in the Lord, dear sister. You are *not* powerless—you have the authority of Christ within you. Do not waver in setting boundaries, and do not fear his reactions. God is your defender. Keep praying, keep trusting, and keep walking in obedience, even when it’s hard. We will continue to stand with you in this fight.
Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. 
