We lift up your brother before the Lord with deep compassion, knowing that mental suffering is a heavy burden for both him and your family. The struggles he faces—paranoia, obsessive thoughts, emotional instability, and controlling behaviors—are not only painful for him but also create great strain on those who love him. Yet we serve a God who is the Great Physician, the Prince of Peace, and the One who can renew minds and restore broken spirits. The Scriptures remind us that *"the Lord is near to those who are broken in heart, and saves those who are crushed in spirit"* (Psalm 34:18, WEB). He is not distant in this trial; He sees, He hears, and He longs to bring healing and wholeness.
We also recognize the spiritual battle at work here. The enemy seeks to steal, kill, and destroy (John 10:10, WEB), and mental torment is one of his cruelest weapons. But Jesus has already triumphed over darkness, and *"the weapons of our warfare are not of the flesh, but mighty before God to the throwing down of strongholds, throwing down imaginations and every high thing that is exalted against the knowledge of God, and bringing every thought into captivity to the obedience of Christ"* (2 Corinthians 10:4-5, WEB). We must stand firm in prayer, declaring that your brother’s mind and emotions are under the lordship of Christ, not the oppression of the enemy.
At the same time, we must address the practical and spiritual realities of this situation with wisdom. Your brother’s attempts to control your mother—preventing her from leaving the house or taking her medication—are not only harmful but also sinful if they stem from rebellion or a refusal to trust God’s provision. While his intentions may be rooted in fear or delusion, the Bible calls us to *"submit to one another out of reverence for Christ"* (Ephesians 5:21, WEB) and to honor our parents (Exodus 20:12). His actions are disrupting the peace and order God intends for your household, and this must be addressed with both love and firmness. If his behavior poses a risk to your mother’s health or safety, it may be necessary to seek professional intervention or, in extreme cases, temporary separation for the protection of all involved. This is not unloving; it is an act of stewardship over the lives God has entrusted to your family.
We also encourage your family to set healthy boundaries, not out of hardness of heart, but out of wisdom. Jesus Himself withdrew from crowds and even His disciples at times to rest and pray (Luke 5:16, WEB). It is not wrong to create space for renewal, especially when one person’s struggles are draining the entire family. You are not failing your brother by seeking respite; you are ensuring that you can continue to love and support him from a place of strength rather than exhaustion.
Most importantly, we rejoice that you have invoked the name of Jesus Christ in this request, for *"there is no other name under heaven that has been given among men, by which we must be saved"* (Acts 4:12, WEB). It is only through Jesus that we have access to the Father, and it is only through His power that true healing can come. If your brother does not yet know Jesus as his Savior, we pray earnestly that this trial would drive him to the foot of the cross, where he can find peace that surpasses all understanding (Philippians 4:7, WEB). Salvation is the foundation of all healing—spiritual, emotional, and physical.
Let us pray together:
Heavenly Father, we come before You in the mighty name of Jesus, lifting up this brother who is bound by mental torment. Lord, You know the depths of his suffering, the chaos in his mind, and the fear in his heart. We ask You to intervene supernaturally—calm his spirit, silence the voices of paranoia and obsession, and bring clarity where there is confusion. Rebuke every spiritual force that seeks to oppress him, for *"the one who is in you is greater than the one who is in the world"* (1 John 4:4, WEB). Let Your peace, which transcends all understanding, guard his heart and mind in Christ Jesus.
Lord, we also pray for wisdom and strength for this family. Give them discernment to know how to love him well while also protecting themselves and their mother. Show them when to speak, when to listen, and when to seek outside help. May they not grow weary in doing good, but trust You to sustain them (Galatians 6:9, WEB). If there are doors that need to be opened—whether for treatment, a change in living arrangements, or divine connections—open them widely. And if there are doors that would lead to greater harm, shut them firmly.
Father, we ask that You would draw this brother to Yourself. If he does not know You, soften his heart to receive Your love and salvation. If he has wandered from You, call him back with a love that is irresistible. Remind him that *"God has not given us a spirit of fear, but of power, love, and self-control"* (2 Timothy 1:7, WEB). Break the chains of fear and control in his life, and replace them with trust in You.
We also pray for the mother in this situation. Protect her health, both physically and emotionally. Give her the courage to care for herself as well as her son, knowing that she cannot pour from an empty cup. Surround this family with Your angels, and let them feel Your presence in tangible ways.
Finally, Lord, we declare that this situation is not hopeless, for You are the God of hope (Romans 15:13, WEB). You redeem what is broken, restore what is lost, and bring beauty from ashes. We trust You to do this in Your perfect timing and way.
In the mighty and holy name of Jesus, we pray. Amen.
Stand firm in faith, beloved. This battle is not yours alone—the Lord is fighting for you (Exodus 14:14, WEB). Keep praying, keep trusting, and do not lose heart. The God who parts seas and raises the dead is more than able to bring healing and peace to your brother and your family. If there are specific steps you feel led to take—such as seeking Christian counseling, medical help, or pastoral support—do not hesitate. God often works through both prayer and practical action. We are standing with you in this.
Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. 
