We are deeply grieved to hear of the suffering in your home, and we want you to know that we are standing with you in prayer, lifting this heavy burden before the Lord. The mental anguish and turmoil your loved one is experiencing are heartbreaking, and we know the Lord sees and cares for each of you in this painful season. The screaming, fear, and exhaustion you and your mother are enduring are not how God designed families to live, and we are asking Him to intervene mightily.
First, we want to gently address something important. In your request, we noticed that the name of Jesus was not invoked. Scripture is clear that there is no other name under heaven by which we must be saved, nor is there any other way to approach the Father except through Jesus Christ, our Mediator. *"Jesus said to him, 'I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father, except through me'* (John 14:6, WEB). *"There is one God, and one mediator between God and mankind, the man Christ Jesus"* (1 Timothy 2:5, WEB). We pray that if you do not yet have a personal relationship with Jesus as your Lord and Savior, you would turn to Him now, for He alone can bring true peace, salvation, and breakthrough in impossible situations. It is only through His name that we can boldly approach the throne of grace and find help in our time of need.
Now, let us speak truth into this situation. Mental illness is a profound struggle, and while we do not fully understand its complexities, we know that God is sovereign over all things—including our minds and emotions. *"A cheerful heart is good medicine, but a crushed spirit dries up the bones"* (Proverbs 17:22, WEB). Your loved one is clearly in bondage, and we must recognize that spiritual forces may be at work. *"For our struggle is not against flesh and blood, but against the principalities, against the powers, against the world’s rulers of the darkness of this age, and against the spiritual forces of wickedness in the heavenly places"* (Ephesians 6:12, WEB). This is not a battle you can fight in your own strength, but the Lord is mighty to save and deliver.
We also want to encourage you and your mother to set healthy, biblical boundaries for your own protection. While we are called to love and pray for those who are suffering, we are not called to endure abuse. *"If it is possible, as much as it is up to you, be at peace with all people"* (Romans 12:18, WEB). Sometimes, love means creating space for someone to seek the help they need while ensuring your own safety and well-being. If the situation becomes physically or emotionally dangerous, do not hesitate to seek wise counsel or intervention from trusted believers, pastors, or authorities. You are not failing your loved one by protecting yourself—you are stewarding the life God has given you.
Let us pray together:
Heavenly Father, we come before You in the mighty and matchless name of Jesus Christ, lifting up this family in their time of deep distress. Lord, You see the torment and chaos that has invaded their home, and we ask You to move powerfully on their behalf. We pray for this young man who is trapped in a storm of mental anguish—Lord, break every chain of darkness that is binding his mind and emotions. Rebuke the enemy who seeks to steal, kill, and destroy, and command peace to reign in his heart. *"The Lord is near to those who have a broken heart, and saves those who have a crushed spirit"* (Psalm 34:18, WEB). Father, draw him to Yourself. If he does not know You, reveal Your love and truth to him in a way he cannot deny. Bring godly counselors, medical professionals, and believers into his life who can speak life and truth over him.
Lord, we also lift up this dear sister and her mother, who are bearing the weight of this trial. Strengthen them, Father, and surround them with Your peace that surpasses all understanding. Guard their hearts and minds in Christ Jesus, and give them wisdom to know how to respond in love while setting godly boundaries. *"Come to me, all you who labor and are heavily burdened, and I will give you rest"* (Matthew 11:28, WEB). Father, let them feel Your presence in a tangible way. Provide for them emotionally, spiritually, and physically. Raise up a community of believers to come alongside them, to pray with them, and to support them in practical ways.
We declare that this home will be a place of peace and restoration, not fear and turmoil. We speak life where there has been death, hope where there has been despair, and faith where there has been doubt. Lord, let Your will be done in this situation, and let Your name be glorified. We trust You, even when we cannot see the way forward. *"Now to him who is able to do exceedingly abundantly above all that we ask or think, according to the power that works in us, to him be the glory in the Assembly and in Christ Jesus to all generations forever and ever. Amen"* (Ephesians 3:20-21, WEB).
Finally, we urge you to immerse yourself in Scripture and prayer during this time. *"Don’t be anxious for anything, but in everything, by prayer and petition with thanksgiving, let your requests be made known to God. And the peace of God, which surpasses all understanding, will guard your hearts and your thoughts in Christ Jesus"* (Philippians 4:6-7, WEB). Cling to Jesus, for He is your strength and your shield. If you have not already, we encourage you to seek out a Bible-believing church where you can find support and discipleship. You are not alone in this—the body of Christ is here to stand with you.
We will continue to pray for you, and we ask that you keep us updated on how the Lord is working in this situation. May His grace and mercy be your portion today and always.
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