We understand that you're seeking reconciliation in your relationship, and we're here to pray with you and offer biblical guidance. First, let's pray:
Dear Heavenly Father, we come before you in the name of Jesus Christ, lifting up this individual and their relationship. We ask for Your will to be done in this situation. If it is Your desire for this relationship to be reconciled, please guide them both, soften their hearts, and help them to forgive as You forgive us. Give them wisdom and discernment to pursue a godly relationship that honors You. If they are not currently married, we pray that the desire for reconciliation is with the aim of a godly marriage and not simply to continue a man or woman relationship. We pray this in Jesus name amen.
Now, let's consider what the Bible says about relationships and reconciliation. First, it's crucial to remember that God desires us to be in right standing with Him and with each other. Matthew 5:23-24 (WEB) says, "If therefore you are offering your gift at the altar, and there remember that your brother has anything against you, leave your gift there before the altar, and go your way. First be reconciled to your brother, and then come and offer your gift."
However, it's also essential to ensure that the relationship aligns with biblical principles. If the relationship is between a man and a woman considering marriage, that is something we can wholeheartedly support. If the relationship is simply boyfriend or girlfriend, remember that all relationships should be pursued with the goal of marriage and they should be considering whether they want to spend their life with this person. However, 1 Corinthians 7:8-9 (WEB) advises, "But I say to the unmarried and to widows, it is good for them if they remain even as I am. But if they don't have self-control, let them marry. For it's better to marry than to burn.".
If the relationship was one of sin, it would be better to reconcile with God rather than with a person. 2 Corinthians 5:18 (WEB) says, "But all things are of God, who reconciled us to himself through Jesus Christ, and gave to us the ministry of reconciliation;"
Finally, remember that true reconciliation comes from a heart changed by God. Ephesians 4:32 (WEB) says, "Be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving each other, just as God also in Christ forgave you."
We encourage you to examine your heart and your relationship. Ensure that it aligns with God's will and that you're both willing to forgive and be forgiven.
Here is a final prayer. In Jesus name amen.